Tested Negative !!

alisonb · Post by **alisonb** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 7:32 am

Hi All, Well Im sorry girls, feel so pathetic i cant stop crying at the min got myself worked up that if it works it works and i thought id be able to cope better that way well i havent im just so devastated at the minute !! Did the blood test yesterday and it was negative !! Feel like shite (soz marcus) Dont know what else to say, sorry for depressing you all, hope the rest of the OCB's get lots of ++tives and i'll be thinking of you all !! Just need to curl up in a corner and lick my wounds at the minute !! Lots of love and good wishes to u all Alisonb xx

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 7:43 am

Oh Alison I am so sorry. No matter how much you prepare yourself it still feels like a kick in the guts. Be strong and have some quality time with your DH. Thinking of you both, take care love Dagny x

BelB · Post by **BelB** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 7:49 am

Hey Alison, So sorry that this has happened. Is definately shite, the curling up in a corner (or bed or wherever) sound like a really good idea. Take it easy love, am thinking of you and dh Belinda

Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 7:57 am

Hi Alison, I am so sorry. It doesn't matter how much you prepare yourself it is always going to hurt. Look after yourself. Thinking of you both. Love Dolly

vickib · Post by **vickib** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 8:04 am

Alison I was very sorry to read your news this morning. Curl up and take as long as you need. We are all here if you needs us. Thinking of you. Love Vicki B XXX

alypraying · Post by **alypraying** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 8:38 am

Oh Alison I am so sorry I really thought you were pregnant, I can't really get my head round the fact that your not you had symptoms! sickness etc, I am so upset fo you don't know what else to say, my thoughts are with you. Love and hugs Aly xx

Nikola · Post by **Nikola** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 10:33 am

Alison I was really sad to read that your tmt hadn't worked. It really doesn't matter how much you think you've prepared yourself for bad news, it still comes like a big kick in the teeth. You should do whatever helps you feel better, and if that is lying low for a little while, having a long hot bath, lots of wine, whatever, you do it! When you are ready, we'll all be here for you. love nikola.xx

LORRAINE G · Post by **LORRAINE G** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 11:11 am

So sorry to hear your news Alison Look after yourself and your DH With much love & prayers Lorraine G

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 1:19 pm

alison sorry you got a negative this time, its a real emotional time right now and you both need lots of hugs together. take care. love jackie xxx

beckym · Post by **beckym** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 3:27 pm

oh alison, am so very sorry. please look after yourself and eat lots of comforting food. when you didn't post yesterday had a horrible feeling it might not be good news but I hope you'll come to terms with it. Do you have any other embies frozen for another possible FET? I know it may be a bit early to start thinking about it but once you have had a good licking of the wounds you may be able to cycle again. We're all there for you, whatever you decide. beckym xx

loopylou57uk · Post by **loopylou57uk** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 3:34 pm

hi there,just like to say im thinking of you it must be so hard,but youll get there in the end.

Lisa_P · Post by **Lisa_P** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 4:52 pm

So sorry to hear your news Alison. Take your time, recharge your batteries and take care Lisa x

gem · Post by **gem** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 6:40 pm

Oh Alison I'm so sorry to hear your news,don't know what else to say only that I'm thinking of you and your hubby Take care Love Gem xx

Marycamp · Post by **Marycamp** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 7:25 pm

Alison, Like everyone else I am really sorry I was negative in May and cried all day. Took me till now to try again EVEN now thinking it will be negative - can't help it??? Result on Friday, don't even think I want to know don't want to feel all that pain again. Take care Marycam

wales · Post by **wales** » Tue Oct 21, 2003 7:33 pm

i am thinking of you alison right now and drying my wet eyes. there is nothing that i can say to heal your wounds i know how it feels its just a *****. look after yourselfs. wales

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