the 2 wk neg

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Thu Nov 20, 2003 5:44 pm

just those 2 weeks for those 2 weeks i had you to myself and that seems too short a time to be changed so profoundly. in those 2 weeks- i came to know you... and to love you. you came to trust me with your life. oh,what a life i had planned for you! just those 2 weeks - when i lost you.\ i lost a lifetime of hopes, plans,dreams,and aspirations... a slice of my future simply vanished overnight. just those 2 weeks- it wasnt enough to convince others how special and important you were. how odd, a truly unique person has recently died and no one is mourning the passing. just a mere 2 weeks- and no "normal" person would cry all night over a tiny , unfinished baby, or get depressed and withdraw day after endless day. no one would, so why am i? you were those 2 weeks my little one you darted in and out of my life to quickly. but it seems that's all the time you needed to make my life richer and give ma a small glimpse of eternity i feel that as soon as the egg and sperm are there that this is the start of a baby. i have had neg and have had mc both of them are hard. each is a loss of our babys..

Wibbs1 · Post by **Wibbs1** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 5:09 pm

org1 I know you are feeling very very sad and down and alone at this time, as some of us have been there too, and it's s**t. Those of us that have gone thru the same know what you are feeling inside, but Nothing and Nobody can say anything to take the pain away. I belive that at any stage egg,sperm fetus baby whenever it is lost they continue to grow in the sprit world, a much better place and they know that you ARE MUM. Keep this thought with you and remember you are a mum even if it was a short while. Have a good bloody cry and give DH a big hug too, and take care it does get better, honest you just learn to cope. If people do not say anything it's just that they can't handel it and not sure what to say. Keep strong kido.....your turn will come. Love Wibbs XXXX

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Fri Nov 21, 2003 5:35 pm

What a beautiful poem It really made me cry and think of all my babies that vanished from my life as quickly as they came. Nothing can prepare us for the loss we have to go through and get on with every day life. You are going through such an emotional time and my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless and be strong. Take care love Dagny xx

sam1 · Post by **sam1** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 1:16 pm

Ogr, thats a wonderful poem. It made me cry loads, but thats a good thing. Ive sent it out to all the girls in our support group too. Sam x

amanda · Post by **amanda** » Mon Dec 01, 2003 12:15 pm

What a truely accurate poem. Amanda

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