That depends I think on how long it has been since your retrieval/transfer. My doctor didn't want me doing anything strenuous for a few weeks. Otherwise unless you're having symptoms like pain, cramping, or bleeding it's OK to have sex.
Me: 33
DH: 35 (CBAVD)
IVF #1 (1): BFN
FET #1 (2): BFN
IVF #2 (2): BFP!! DS born 10/24/09
FET #2 (2): BFN
FET #3 (2): 11/21/12 -- GO TEAM B!!
I was given the ok after about 7 weeks, after we saw the hb on u/s. But we waited until about 8/9 weeks I think. I would ask you dr since they all say different things.
Me- 28 DH- 33 Male Factor
1st IVF- 12/07- BFP! Ella Michele was born 8/26/8
2nd IVF- 04/09 - BFN
1st FET- 09/09 - Chemical
3rd IVF - 04/11 - Embies didn't make it to ET
4th IVF - Fall 2011??
I had sex a couple of days after my BFP. In my clinic they will tell you to not have sex if there is any type of bleeding. Being the stubborn type... I never listen.
IVF #1: Oct '08- BFN
IVF #2: Feb '09- BFP (Chem)
IVF #3: May '09- BFP
(Triplets lost at 21.5 weeks- Preterm Labor)
BFP: Natural Pregnancy March '10
Little Frank Manuel arrived 11.20.10
June '11 natural BFP sadly ending in miscarriage :(