My doctor was rated in the "top doctors" list for my state - one that has many infertility doctors. The doctor is Ivy League educated, been practicing for over 20 years and been through the process for their own child. I thought that I had a good doctor, but right now, I am not sure. Can you tell me if these things sound normal?...
I am 31 years old, in fine health. This was my first round.
- During the Bravelle/Menopur stage, they dropped me sharply suddenly and I didn't even take any the day before my HCG. I feel that this caused me to have OHSS later on, but they mentioned nothing about it to me and didn't even warn me.
- Upon egg retrieval, I had 12 eggs, 10 matured, 8 fertilized. We had PGD, which can delay development by a day. We had 2 that made it to day 5, and then they stopped. Net = ZERO. The doctor and lab tech says this is the low side of the average, but completely possible.
- After egg retrieval, I had a lot of pain, became extremely bloated and had some shortness of breath. I only know that this is mild OHSS from reading forums. My doc, without ever asking to see me, just kept telling me to drink a lot of water and eat mostly protein. 10 days later (now), I am less bloated, but still need a safety pin for any pants to fit.
- I had egg retrieval on a Friday. On Monday night, I discovered that they left gauze in me and I pulled it out. I was, and still am, furious. My doc apologized profusely but said I was not in danger and they would have found it when they checked me out.
- Once we determined that I had no embryos for transfer, they told me to just call when I got my period and to proceed from there. They still didn't ask to see me and didn't mention anything about testing to see why none of the fertilized eggs developed completely - especially the 2 that made it 5 days.
I am trying to determine if this all complete possible and I was jsut too optimistic about the process or if some fault may be with the doctor.
Any thoughts or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated!