please help! desperate for a glimmer of hope

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madisona
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please help! desperate for a glimmer of hope

Post by madisona »

I am new to your site and I hope I can get some encouragement. I am 10dp3dt. Tested neg this am with fmu using FRER. I am so devastated. Is there any hope at all??? Can't stop crying....to the point of a migraine.
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Re: please help! desperate for a glimmer of hope

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madisona wrote:I am new to your site and I hope I can get some encouragement. I am 10dp3dt. Tested neg this am with fmu using FRER. I am so devastated. Is there any hope at all??? Can't stop crying....to the point of a migraine.
Yes, there is hope. While some women have had positives by this point, it's still too early to be conclusive about a negative. That still takes several more days, some say 8 more days past where you are now before a negative HPT can rule out pregnancy.

Some women have negative HPT on the morning before a positive blood test.
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madisona
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Re: please help! desperate for a glimmer of hope

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My beta is in the am. It will be 11d3dt. It's not too soon for beta is it?
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madisona wrote:My beta is in the am. It will be 11d3dt. It's not too soon for beta is it?
It's sooner than most. Is that the only test they do?
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Re: please help! desperate for a glimmer of hope

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Hopefully they will test you and have you come back in a couple days and test again. If not, I would ask for a second beta a few days later. The beta will give them an exact number. On a FRED if the number is too low it is not picked up. Good luck to you!!!
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