getting nervous

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Juliana
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getting nervous

Post by Juliana »

Hi girls just wanted to say one week has passed since my et and now I am starting to get nervous! I keep trying to 'listen' to my body and guess what's going on. I was so busy the last few days at work i forgot about it for a while but now feel i can hardly bear the wait till 29 january when the test is scheduled for. Every time I feel the smallest pain (i had a few wednesday but i think it was my stomach, feel really bloated), i expect the worst, i.e my period pains. how stupid can one be! Anyone else waiting for their results?

Alisonn, have followed your advice on baths and water although it is difficult to judge how much I manage to drink during the day with all the hassle at work, but since i have to pee a lot i think it's ok.
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gem
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Post by gem »

Hi Juliana
I'm on the 2ww wait we test on 31st Jan and its doing my head in this is my 3rd 2ww wait we have been through,I had really bad pain on my left side lower down on my belly on Weds and Thurs they got worse yesterday and dh wanted me to phone clinic but Helen and Alisonn on thie site were brill and really reasured me and today the pains are alot better and have mostly gone.
I dont go back to work til Weds I'm at home resting and watching daytime tv :shock:
How are you testing are you doing a home test or a blood test? at our clinic they do blood tests so we find the results at 1pm on 31st Jan!!!!!

Well I'k
l have to go and get dressed,
Take care
Love gemxxxx
Juliana
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Post by Juliana »

hi Gem
I read your earlier mails about the pains, I am really sorry, such a scary thing to happen, but the girls sounded very reassuring, indeed it was probably just a reaction to everything your ovaries have been through. it's my 3rd time too! my test on 29 is also a blood test, in the morning and then i wait, they call you from 15.00 on, hardly possible to stand, last time i was so nervous i asked my boyfriend to pick it up but he was late, i did and i was pg but miscarried butween weeks 6/7. hope it's different this time, the 1st ivf i had before that was -ive. anyway i think i may know before then because i have really bad pms normally and cramps several days before my period, so if i feel nothing i will be hopeful.
good that you are taking it slowly, i feel guilty about going to work but will go out of my mind if i had to stay at home, at least here have a distraction. good luck to both of us,
lots of +++++ vibes
juliana
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Post by millie19 »

Just wanted to say good luck to you both, hope you get the positives you have worked so hard for!
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