IVF won’t work

[brookeliam]

Hi ! its a most difficult/emotional decisions a woman ever has to make.I have a suggestion for you....I was also facing such like situation in which you are in.I was unable to conceive a baby that is a very formidable prospect for couples. Although my husband is very loving and caring but when he feels that his friends or other family members having kids but he has'nt this thing hurts me alot. Then I discuss with my husband to suggest me whether i have to go through a process of IVF or not because i heard that IVF significantly increases a couple’s chances of having a baby. For my satisfaction he allowed me to do that and thank GOD it was successfull and now i have a baby boy. It has pros and cons but it depends on your luck! its advantages include we get a great blessing of GOD in the form of offspring.It is a very physical and financial endeavor. I think IVF is today’s a better option for couples who have failed to conceive a pregnancy after undergoing a series of less complicated medical procedures. My question is how long you will wait ??. If you have already invested financially and emotionally in the medical tests, diagnosis, finding doctors, etc. So IVF may feel like the easier next step to you.And this decision sadly affects lots of women...atleast it hurts me a lot .The worst thing that i observe is underlying health issues are not addressed and the procedure is more like throwing a dart to see if it will work for you.If the underlying issues are not encountered, it’s very likely that IVF won’t work or the pregnancy will not be healthy.It disturb my periods life cycle.It is too much costly....

[erikapaul]

Hello dear, how do you do. I am really sorry for your condition. You are really an amazing women. I am really sorry but no one can do nothing. It could happen to anyone. Yes you are right. It is not easy to just step back from these things. Once you've invested your time and money. You want some outcomes. You want people to help you. You are emotionally broken. You can do nothing about it. I really feel this. My friend faced same condition. You are my friend too dear. Just pm me whenever you feel disheartened or anything. I am here for your help. please tell me anything you need.

[tatebrown]

Hi, guys! Too long I was looking for the clinic, in my country, It is important to note that I had no sacs of money. After a long searching, I got to Ukraine. We contacted different clinics. Eventually, we stopped at the clinic of reproductive medicine. What attracted me? Well, the first thing is, of course, the price, it was absolutely adequate and reasonable. I chose the “all-inclusive” package, there were absolutely everything, accommodation and all I needed in a foreign country. I would just pay for the flight. And what is most important that the clinic offers the guarantee, you have the unlimited attempts, for the single price they provide treatment until you get your child. If you did I guess five attempts and nothing happened all the money are returned to you, not the 20 or 50 % as many other clinics provide, speaking about the guarantee. Conditions were of a very high level, the staff is very friendly. There is no language barrier, managers speak different languages. I succeed in the second attempt. I have a wonderful daughter. We still keep in touch with my manager. I didn't even have a chance to bear my child, and I am not the biological mother, only my husband is and it doesn't prevent me to feel the happiest mother in the world.

[Ghost]

Avoid IVF and sorrogacy in Ukraine. Clinics there hire shills to post on this site under sock accounts posing as patients. Avoid any centers that advertise deceptively.

[KattyH]

Hi ! its a most difficult/emotional decisions a woman ever has to make.I have a suggestion for you....I was also facing such like situation in which you are in.I was unable to conceive a baby that is a very formidable prospect for couples. Although my husband is very loving and caring but when he feels that his friends or other family members having kids but he has'nt this thing hurts me alot. Then I discuss with my husband to suggest me whether i have to go through a process of IVF or not because i heard that IVF significantly increases a couple’s chances of having a baby. For my satisfaction he allowed me to do that and thank GOD it was successfull and now i have a baby boy. It has pros and cons but it depends on your luck! its advantages include we get a great blessing of GOD in the form of offspring.It is a very physical and financial endeavor. I think IVF is today’s a better option for couples who have failed to conceive a pregnancy after undergoing a series of less complicated medical procedures. My question is how long you will wait ??. If you have already invested financially and emotionally in the medical tests, diagnosis, finding doctors, etc. So IVF may feel like the easier next step to you.And this decision sadly affects lots of women...atleast it hurts me a lot .The worst thing that i observe is underlying health issues are not addressed and the procedure is more like throwing a dart to see if it will work for you.If the underlying issues are not encountered, it’s very likely that IVF won’t work or the pregnancy will not be healthy.It disturb my periods life cycle.It is too much costly....

Congratulation on being a monther dear one ! Thank you so much for your success story, I'm sure it will give hope to a lot of women struggling with infertility issues who are unable to conceive naturally. Be it IUI, IVF or surrogacy it improves the chance of conceiving but then again nothing is guaranteed. It depends on the problems you have that which one will be a suitable option. In some cases, you might even need the help of additional help like a donor egg, sperm or ICSI or stuff like that. Yes, but the hope isn't lost. I'd say the success isn't really all luck sometimes it's about finding the cause of infertility, choosing the right process, perhaps the right clinic. My fertility type was unexplained for quite a long time till I moved to IVF and they figured that the PCOS history isn't the only thing. When I inquired the Dr said that every process has it's set of diagnostics, so for IUI there wasn't any genetic screening or chance of selective fertilization which proved to be the corrective measure in the problems I had, of course along with some medication to improve my egg quality other than the general IVF medication. A lot of people also, just consider the general success rate which I feel is not the right way -someone in 35+ shouldn't assume that a clinic with good success with menupausal women will be inevitably good for them. The best would be to check the success rate with your kind of condition.

Just a bit of free advise for anyone looking for it!

[lily_parker]

It is really good to know that you have raised such topic.I am also trying to conceive for a long time and now I am deciding to get the IVF because I cannot wait for more time. I have decided to get the IVF from the biotexcom which is suggested by my neighbor and I have also heard about this clinic & its successes through many forums. She told me that this clinic also offers the many packages for different treatments which are affordable. Now I am preparing my health before starting the process.

[Kerrshay]

Very sorry about your condition. Pray!

[pagerelvia33]

if ivf won't work go for surrogacy. or adoption. or ICSI as your first step forward. it is not that hard but I get why it may seem difficult to branch out. and especially if you are under constant pressure from society.