Jackie S

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Thu Feb 12, 2004 9:29 pm

Wishing you lots of success for tomorrow The Candel is lit for you girl , you can do it .

Trace x

Dawn V · Post by **Dawn V** » Thu Feb 12, 2004 10:53 pm

Jackie

Good luck for tomorrow will be thinking of you
Love Dawn
xxx

Jackie S · Post by **Jackie S** » Fri Feb 13, 2004 2:14 pm

Well, we had bad news today. I started bleeding last night so I sort of knew the outcome already. The urine sample shows I am pregnant but it had a lot of blood in it and the hospital have said that the pregnancy will be gone next week when urine sample is repeated.

I feel numb, I always thought when I got pregnant I would be walking around with a stupid grin on my face, not this.

Debra I am so sorry you got a negative result, I hope so much that you get pregnant next time.

Thank you for all your kind wishes

Jackie

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Fri Feb 13, 2004 3:07 pm

Jackie

I am so sorry

this has not been your time.

Be strong and take care. Spend some quality time with your DH with lots of hugs - You deserve it.

Love Dagny xx

LindaJane · Post by **LindaJane** » Fri Feb 13, 2004 4:37 pm

Jackie

I am so disappointed for you

. Try to stay positive - it is a sort of step forward from where you were before although I am sure that is not a huge consellation at this time.

You never know we might end up cycling together next time around.

Take care and enjoy Valentines with your DH and a large bottle of something alcoholic.

Love and a big {{hug}}
LindaJane

alisonn · Post by **alisonn** » Fri Feb 13, 2004 4:59 pm

jackie, im so sorry, as we all know it must be tearing u both apart,
it does take time to come to terms with it, but when u feel stronger
u can take the positives out of this cycle, that u did get a +itve,
another step forward in im afraid a long road for some of us. Dont
give up your dream.
alison xx

Dawn V · Post by **Dawn V** » Fri Feb 13, 2004 8:59 pm

Jackie
I'm so sorry to hear your news, you and dh must be devastated.
Try and take comfort in the fact that the test was positive so hopefully next time the embies wil try aand hang on in there.
Have some time out with your dh to get over this before you plan your next move.
Take care
Love Dawn
xxx

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Fri Feb 13, 2004 9:19 pm

Jackie, so sorry it wasn't better news for you and DH. Don't give up hope though.

Maybe the 13th wasn't ever going to be our lucky day?

Hugs,
Debra.

Jackie S · Post by **Jackie S** » Mon Feb 16, 2004 11:36 am

I know this is probably a stupid question but how long will I get a positive pregnancy test? I did a home test this morning and it is still showing positive. Is this just the hormones remaining in my urine or is there a chance that I could still be pregnant? I am not back at the hospital until Friday and I hate not knowing what is happening. I have been bleeding since Thursday, although it is lighter now.

Any advice would be very much appreciated.

Thanks

Jackie

alisonn · Post by **alisonn** » Mon Feb 16, 2004 2:06 pm

hihi jackie, u must be in turmoile, im afraid i cannot help with regard to
your question, it does seem strange that u are still registering a +itve,
perhaps its worth ringing the clinic, surely they must understand how
u are feeling and perhaps can explain, let us know.
alisonn

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Mon Feb 16, 2004 10:05 pm

Oh you poor thing , I would ring the clinic , its not an answere one way or another

Hope its good news

Trace x

Lucky candel is lit

Jackie S · Post by **Jackie S** » Tue Feb 17, 2004 7:29 pm

Hi

I did another home pregnancy test this morning and it is now reading negative so I guess it is all over now. I am not sure what I should be feeling now -I just feel empty but I think it is kind of a relief in some ways. I am back at the hospital on Friday, I think that will be when it will probably hit me. These last few days have been torture, John and I are slowly starting to talk about things although I feel like I have let him down yet again. He says I shouldn't feel like this -it just wasn't our time.

Thank you everyone for helping us through a very hard time.

Jackie

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Tue Feb 17, 2004 7:40 pm

Hello Jackie

I know I have replied to you already but I am really sorry that things didn't work out for you even though you were holding onto that shread of hope in the last few days.

Have a good stiff drink and you and John take a bit of time to come to terms with it all. Don't you think you have let anyone down. Hope your appointment with the hospital on Friday isn't to hard for you.

Love Dagny xx

LindaJane · Post by **LindaJane** » Tue Feb 17, 2004 10:00 pm

so sorry that your last hopes have faded. Don't think that you have let anyone down. Look on it as a step forward - it was a positive and now you and the CRM can look at how you can go on from here and make the next attempt give you the perfect outcome.

Take care of yourself and DH.

Love
LindaJane

loopylou57uk · Post by **loopylou57uk** » Tue Feb 17, 2004 10:13 pm

hi jackie,im sorry to read you got a negative.
just to let you know im thinking about you.
love loopy

Jackie S

Jackie S

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