It's all Over for me

Nickie88 · Post by **Nickie88** » Wed Jun 02, 2004 2:33 pm

Hi guys

Just to let you know that I got my period this afternoon so it's over for me this time round - typical, I had just got back from buying my expensive HPT!!! Sods law hey. Hopefully go for FET as soon as possible ......... does anyone know when I can have an FET??

Lots of Love and good luck to Sharon and JulyAnne for tomorrow - hopefully I am the negative statistic for the 3rd June crew!

Love
Nickie

Bronagh · Post by **Bronagh** » Wed Jun 02, 2004 3:21 pm

Nickie,
You got so close typical that you just got your HPT , I feel for your my nerves are shattered today.................................................................................................................................................convinced Af is coming.

Get out that bottle of red wine youve been saving.
Bro

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Wed Jun 02, 2004 3:47 pm

nickie

so sorry know how you feel, did a hpt and negative yet again.

hope to cycle with you again

july ann

Nickie88 · Post by **Nickie88** » Wed Jun 02, 2004 3:55 pm

So sorry July Ann for your news ......... right, we have to get really drunk and eat lots of stilton tonight! Let me know when you are cycling again defo and hopefully it wil be BFP's for both of us.

Take care in the meantime hun,
Love and hugs

Nickie

Bronagh · Post by **Bronagh** » Wed Jun 02, 2004 3:59 pm

so so sorry ............................................. |Julie Ann go and stuff yourself with all those things you have been avoiding.
Bro

shelld · Post by **shelld** » Wed Jun 02, 2004 7:51 pm

Nikkie

So sorry to hear your news. I would definitey recommend getting out the bottle of red wine and another one. U have got an amazingly positive attitude about the FET, its brilliant. Bring it on girl and hopefully we will cycle together again.
lots of love
shelld
xxxxx

Dagny · Post by **Dagny** » Thu Jun 03, 2004 8:14 am

Hi Nikki

I am really sorry you got a BFN.

What a load of PANTS

Glad you are looking forward and thinking of FET asap.

Love Dagny xkx

Shellie · Post by **Shellie** » Fri Jun 04, 2004 12:17 pm

Hi Nickie, I'm so sorry about your negative result. Just wanted to check you are ok and enjoyed your alcohol and wine. Are you planning another go or are you taking time out with DH for a while?

Hope you get the result you deserve next time.
Best wishes
Shellie

Nickie88 · Post by **Nickie88** » Fri Jun 04, 2004 5:54 pm

Hiya ladies

Thanks for your your lovely replies - I am actually feeling great after the first day being a bit teary but you can't grumble and you have to look forward to the future! It wasn't meant to be for me this time round and I'm sure when my time comes it'll be right

I have an appointment at the Lister next Thursday for follow up and to discuss future plans - I shall ask to do an FET as soon as possible (see what the consultant says) and if that fails then I won't be cycling again til next year (unless I get my "freebie" on the NHS

which I'm not sure whether that's in place yet or whether I'm allowed!) I know we can't afford to keep cycling fresh all the time as IF it does work then I don't want to be in mountains of debt when the baby comes along.

So I shall let you know after next Thursday what the plan is ....

Big huggles to you all
Nickie

Traci · Post by **Traci** » Sat Jun 05, 2004 6:44 am

I am so sorry Nicki , well done for being so positive, you will get there I know it

lets hope you can be a July Cycler.

Trace x

Kel · Post by **Kel** » Sat Jun 05, 2004 11:24 am

Nickie,
You sound really balanced and positive - good on you girl...
Just want to wish you luck for your appointment on Thursday and hope you can get going asap with your FET..
Kel x

AMITHIS · Post by **AMITHIS** » Sat Jun 05, 2004 11:37 am

Nickie,

Very sorry to hear the bad news. I do admire you for having such a positive attitude about things.....something I really need to work on!

As far as the FET, I think they will let you do it as soon as AF comes. I had a -tive from my first IVF cycle May 14 and am just waiting for AF to show up this month to get started on the FET. Does your clinic do non medicated FET cycles? Unfortunately, mine only does medicated so I have to go through the whole downregging process starting on Day 21 of my cycle for 10-14 days then take something called Estrace (a form of estrogen) for about 2 weeks then progesterone in oil injections (ugh). That means that even if I get started at the end of this month, the transfer won't actually be until early Aug. Does the process take that long at your clinic?

Staci

Nickie88 · Post by **Nickie88** » Sat Jun 05, 2004 12:13 pm

Hiya Amithis

I spoke with the nurses and yes they do non-medicated cycles for FET - you scan on day 3, then again on day 10 - then you have your Ovitrelle injection and 5 days later ET. Obviously I'll wait to discuss my options with the consultant but it certainly seems a lot less painful and time consuming as yours

Love
Nickie

AMITHIS · Post by **AMITHIS** » Sat Jun 05, 2004 1:45 pm

I would love to do a non medicated cycle....esp. since I had such bad side effects from Lupron (for downregging) and have read estrace causes a lot of side effects. And, it goes without saying that I could do without more needles at this point! Oh well. I have very irregular cycles so, even if they did offer non medicated, I don't know if I would be a candidate due to that.