SCARED !!

[TERESAWANTBABY]

Hello to all you fabulous WOMEN !!!
As some of you are aware I had 4 embryos transfered on Thusday July 1 and I am waiting to get tested on July 15... the problem is I started to have AF like pains/cramps yesterday.. WHY???????? This is really scaring me because it feels like I will start my AF, isn't it early to start AF wouldn't I be starting next week if I was pg ??? I called the clinic yesterday do see what they thought and the nurse said it could be implantation, I also spoke to the embryologist to see if there was any frosties and he said one was a blastocyst but it was a poor quality and no good for freezing ! At the same time I asked him what he thought about the AF cramps at this stage and he also said it is just about this time that I should be feeling these cramps for implantation.... What if its not implantaion ??? I am sooooo scared, I mean we had 4 embies transfered, one a 10 cell (fertilised on EC) and the other 3 were all 4 cells, what this cause a problem for implantation ?? Would one not stick around because of the differences of the cells, My doctor said that it doesn't affect it. !!
I am sooooo sorry about this post but i just feel BLAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What do you ladies think ?? I really appreciate all you guys do for one another !!!
Have a great day ! 7 more days to test , hhhu,umm will I break down and test early ????

-Teresa

[Susan L]

Teresa

Please dont be scared stay as positive as you can i no its hard

on my 2ww i had a lot of AF cramping and thought it had not worked and i got a positive result and was very shocked so it really could be a good sign and you have a very good chance having 4 embies put back so just relax well try

wishing you loads of luck

TAke Care

[Tracey S]

Teresa

What are you like - have snuck over here and posted on a sep thread have you I already told you about this on the June board!

Don't worry ok - I know easier said than done but these obstacles you are trying to find are doing no good at all. It is too early for af as I told you and the embryologist etc. This could be implantation pains so try and view them as such and help the implantation along. Please do not start worrying if they are not implantation pains and what you might do as you just don't know and worrying about something that might not happen will not help your state of mind now will it. Sorry to sound like a school teacher - been through it five times so I know how dreadful it is. This could very much be your turn so try and visualize them implanting - this really does work and try not to get in a state about something you have no control over at the moment
Good luck
Love
Tracey
xxx

[TERESAWANTBABY]

Susan,
Thank you for your reply, I was doing ok until I started having these cramps ! But I guess being scared won't change anything !
CONGRATULATIONS on you positive!!! How many weeks along are you ??

Tracey,
your da best !!!!! Trust me I don't feel like your being a teacher, just a VERY smart and courageous WOMEN !!! Ok I am starting tp visualize .....
Thanks so much for always being here and helping all of us, what would we do without you ??????

Talk to you soon
-Teresa

[loopylou57uk]

hi teresa,try not to worry,as i have said on the june thread,i also have slight af pains coming and going,i also had them last time when i got a pos,so hopefully this is a good sign,take care,not long now.

[Dagny]

Hi Teresa

How are the AF cramps today?? It is a good sign you know so be positive and chin up. There is nothing you can do now but leave it up to fate. It's always hard trying not to imagine the worst and analysing every tweak and twinge but like TS said and Auntie Zita West says try to visualize those embies bedding down and getting nice and snuggly. It's all mind over matter. I will be joing the 2ww paranoia club on Monday

Time will tell................

Take care and good luck

Love Dagny xkx