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Help! I am so nervous and confused. I had my FET on April 14th. 2 Frosties implanted. I want it to work so bad. Everything went well. I have been feeling nauseous the past couple of days, but my breasts aren't sore. I don't have my pregnancy test until April 26th, but am just so nervous!? I think the nausea is a good sign, but I feel maybe it is in my head because I want it so bad.... any stories that can be shared to help?

Joy :cry:
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Post by AliasR »

Sorry Joy, not much i can say but felt i had to say sthing.

From what i've read around here, there's no true recipe except waiting... I know, it sucks, but hang in there.

What's really important is to have a lot of rest and relax as much as you can. Anxiety is tough but keep living one day at a time. You'll get there and we're all here to help you go through with it.

Take good care now and loads of baby dust on your way! :D

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Post by taylorjools »

Hi Joy and welcome

best suggestion is to go to the April thread on the general forum, the 2ww thread and others that you'll find helpful from reading them through and joining the girls right now doing what you are doing, and in the meantime love and baby dust and PMA for your implantation

Love and kisses bigJ 8)
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Post by ogr1 »

some have signs some dont..

this will be your longest 2 wks of your life..

what i can tell you is dont test early
do your best to stay calm
eat good
no matter what keep taking your meds until the doc says not to

practice breathing

alot of women have bled and still been pregant
bronw blood is old blood

i am fogetting alot

but most important be kind to yourself and drive your doc and nurse nuts

and post alot..
you need to make sure that you go on the gen forum...

cheers to your 2 wks :)
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Post by LittleP »

Hi Joy

Try not to concentrate too much on finding symptoms - as the others have already said there are no definitive signs that you should notice :!:

As Big J said, pop over to the General Forum and join the April 2wwers. You will probably find it really helpful being able to talk to the other girls going through this time :!:

I wish you every success and here's tons of PMA and Baby Dust.

Little P :mrgreen:
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Post by ogr1 »

just wanted to check in on you..

this is a wonderful board..
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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What a lovely picture Becky!
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Post by ogr1 »

thank you......

i hope i dont make it hard for anyone.. i knowit is hard to see babies.. i will take ity off in the morning

just wanted to share a little happeness :) :)
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Thank you to everyone who responded. I truly appreciate it! The waiting is hard, but when I read the success stories, it is wonderful!

Good luck and thanks. I will pop over to the April forum!

Joy
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Post by Sand »

Oh Joy ....I know just how horrible the 2ww is ...!!! You're doing well - you're over half way there. Try to keep up the PMA as I think it really does help ... Good luck !!

Sandra x
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Post by AliasR »

Do you really think it's necessary Becky?

It's such a wonderful picture!

You must be so proud!
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Post by ogr1 »

i dont know but i do know that at different times it can be very hard to see any baby..

i dont take ofense to it..
here we are suposed to beable to get away from it and not have it put in our face...


i know i look at her and wish that i could be holding our baby...

and i dont want anyone to have hurt feelings....

it was huge to get threw this and i am proud that i was able to make it threw and that i can love my granddaughter for her....
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Post by AliasR »

You're probably right

But taking the picture out won't take away anybody's pain!

And knowing you and all that you've been through it only tells me i can pull through.

So metaphorically speaking :wink: you're saying "cheer up" i made it, so can you! it's possible! :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
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your a good egg !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by AliasR »

is that good or bad?
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