It's over

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Post by princess »

Went for a scan today and there was no progress.
I am to stop my meds and wait for it to leave my body now.
Man this SUCKS so much.
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Post by DebraP »

Oh poor you and what a terrible shock you must have had. I really, really feel for you.

There's nothing much any of us can say that will have any direct impact but we will try all the same. Knowing there are others who have been through this and not only lived but carried on and in time felt positively about tmt again can help. It is sh*tty sometimes and no, it doesn't seem fair.

Spend lots of time with DH, talking and suporting each other, and talk to anyone else who you think can help understand the emotions you'll go through shortly. Grieving is a slow process.

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Post by DeniseM »

Princess, my heart is breaking for you.

This is the same journey I am walking, and its not an easy one. I'm tearing up now, thinking of how aweful you must be feeling. I'm sorry you're going through this too.

If you need someone to talk to, I am here.
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Post by ogr1 »

princess i am so sorry.. please know that sorry means so much more then just a word..
we found out at 8 wks that are twins heartbeats had stopped..
the hurt is so deep.. then we had to come home for 2 days then goo back and have a d&c.. my body didnt want them to go.


please know that you have all of us and that we are all here for you ..my e- mail is ogr@blackfoot.net
if there is anything at all please let me know..
here is a poem that woppa sent to me after my mc..

when ever you are feeling sad or kind of baby blue
remember that you're not alone.
i'll always be with you
altought i know it makes you sad
that i had to depart as long as there is love
i'll be liviing in your heart
when ever you remember me with happiness and love
the angles sing me lullabyes
in heaven up above.
and though you cannot hold me
or brush and comb my hair,
dont doubt for a minute that iam still right there

for i am with you always
in the shadows of your mind
and if you look around you
its me that you will find.
im the one that pulls your heartstrings when you hear qa baby cry
i m the one that lifts your spirts
on wings of a butterfly
im the one who blows you kisses
onn a warm summer breeze.
im the one who whispers in your ears
in the sighing of the trees.
its me laughing
in a bubbly mountain brook.
yes , i am all around you
if you only look


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Post by trisshawne »

princess,
i am sorry that this round didn't work for you. my ivf didn't work this time either. lots of hugs Trish
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Post by Sand »

Princess ... So sorry to read your news. You must both be devastated. Take some time to be kind to yourselves and do things that you've been denied of for a while.

Take care

Sandra
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
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2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by NickiMark »

Princess, I am so sorry to read your news. Hugs to you x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by olivia »

Princess,

So sorry to hear your sad news. I have been following your story, you must be devastated. Take care.

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Post by princess »

thanks everyone.
all your kind words mean alot to me. They give me strength .
Love
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Post by NickiMark »

Princess, I hope ur feelin yourself soon. xtra hugs to you. x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by k »

Joy

I am so so sorry. I had been hoping and praying that your scan today would show you everything was ok after all your worries and was looking out for your news. We are all thinking of you. You and DH take care of each other and take time to grieve.
Lots of love
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Post by princess »

thanks everyone you guys are all wonderful and I don't know what I would do with out you.
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Post by Smita »

Joy,
I'm so sorry to hear your news- Please take care of yourself.. Its worrying..
Anyway a BIG cyber HUG to you..
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Post by lumi »

So sorry Princess, love and hugs to you.

Lumi xx
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Post by ESTHER »

Princess

Iam sorry for your sad news. LOTS OF CYBER HUGS coming your way. Its a difficult time that needs time to heal bcoz no magic words can take away your pain. But all you need to know is that We are together thru all this life rollercoaster and most of us have been there before. You are not alone and all PRECIOUS PRAYERS TO YOU AT THIS VERY DIFFICULT MOMENT.
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