To Julie

[amanda]

Hi Julie<br><br>Oh I am so so sorry your cycle was not successful. I truely understand how you feel. The sense of failure is immense. The pain does subside, I dont know how many treatments you have undergone so you may already know this. Be good to yourself, try and stay focused, if its a baby you want well you just hang onto that thought and go for it girl!!<br><br>Good luck for January if you choose to start again then.<br><br>Take care<br><br>Amanda

[julie mins]

Hi Amanda<br><br>Thanks for your message - it was our second try at icsi and fortunately we have now got 4 frosties which hopefully we can use in January.<br><br>I have also read your other posting - congratulations you must be over the moon especially after everything you have been through. I could'nt help crying when I read your message but I am really pleased for you I just wish we could have had the same result.<br><br>I am already very very lucky to have a wonderful three year old, Sam who is my pride and joy who we conceived with absolutely no problems so it makes it so much harder when we are desperate for a brother or sister for him. Unfortunately dh's low sperm count is continuing to decrease due to a medical condition and I am 40 so we really are on the last desperate attempts before we just decide to get on with our lives.<br><br>Wishing you all the very best - look after yourself and really enjoy being pregnant it really is the most wonderful feeling in the world.<br>