3 IVF-FAILED

[Luga]

I'm new member.
I had IVF three times in a clinic in denmark with no success.
First time I do at 30 july 2004 (with 14 eggs), two of them back in uterus-result negative. I used puregon 150IE per day (for 12days), synarela, and later progestan. No embryo for freeze. Also my husband do ICSI.
Second time we do at 3 octobar (with 17 eggs, in right side, but doctor couldn't take the eggs, so i had just 8 eggs in left side). For transfer I had just one embryo. My husband do again ICSI. I used puregon 200IE per day (12 days), synarela and progestan. Again with no success.
Third times, it was in 7 July 2005. I had 15 very beautiful eggs. Doctor put in my uterus, two of them in 9 July. We didn't ICSI, we wanted donor sperm this time. I used puregon (double dose) 300Ie per day, synarela and progestan, nothing else. All of us hoped for good. In day 11 after transfer, started my cycle, but doctor hoped yet. I have no courage to go and to do the test (hcg in blod). I do the urine test on day 14 (negative), also I do on day 18 (negative), and ultrasound later negative. I was very very desperate. But this time I have 4 embryo frosen.
I'm worried because my doctor didn't do no analisies at all, I don't know the reason why it happens to me? What is going in my body? But I think that I feel very stressfull in this time. Does anybody can help me with suggestions?

[Sand]

Hi Luga - I've replied to you on the General Forum ..

Sandra x

[tony]

look try not to panic and not to thing negative,go in vacations,take some time off,you see it will help you specially in difficult times and need,
and hopefully it will work........TONY

[Wantabb]

I am a new member too. Quite same story :

1st temps on July 04. Only 3 eggs.
2nd temps on october 04. 4eggs, miscarriage
3rd temps on march 04. wrong medication. did not work
4th temps on July 05. One blastocyte. Did not work

Next tempt on September I hope. Our pb is poor mobility (5%) & low sperm count.

This time, I am doing some accuponcture & chirospratice. I also take some vitamins. My husband take Betaselem & Proxeed. Do not know if that will work, we will see ... But I admit, 4 tempts is rather tough.

[Alette]

I am sorry to hear about your failed IVF's.

maybe it is good to remember that with every cycle you only have about 25% chance of getting pregnant.
This is hard to accept but it is the truth.

Try to find help if you think you cannot cope anymore.
(I did after IVF failed 3 times)

I cannot say if you continue you will succeed because there will always be women who stay unwanted childless.
But I want to tell you, that if you can (financially and emotionally) do not give up!! Do everything you can to make your dream come true.
Then when you really have to give up, you did everything you could to get pregnant and you can never blame yourself!

My heart goes out to all of you,
take care, try to keep faith.

love,
Alette

[tasja]

Hello everyone. I just wanted to share my experience. I am 30 years old DH is 30 . The only factor with us is my tubes are blocked. We had our first attempt with IVF September. Preg test Sunday 10-9-05 Negative. I was devistated. 2 beautiful blast were transfered 9-29-05, I just knew it would work. The doctor kept saying how everything was so beautiful. The transfer went so smoothly the blast fit snugg in their place. I don't know what went wrong. We have 3 in the freezer. All 3 in Blast stage. I don't know. I mean I have watched TLC the baby story so many times seeing these women that had IVF and it worked the 1st try. I just knew it would do the same for us. Nope a negative hcg. The doctor called and said we were are hoping for you. Well I guess when it is time, God will provide. I wish everyone luck and please keep your head up. I know it is hard, I with you there. Just keep believing that God wil. He promised us. That's what he made us for to be fruitful. I know it will happen. We can't give up hope. My prayers go out to all of you.