I miscarried

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NickiMark
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I miscarried

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The doctor has told me that the one day bleed i had was implantation bleed and then 15 days later the heavy period i had was miscariage, the symptons i had and everything were that of pregnancy, but the hormone wasnt high enough to pick up on hpt, hence me losing the pregnancy....
Now i feel like normal again, but because i had 2 follys, the doctor taken bloods in case i only lost one pregnancy, dont hold any hope for BFP, but feeling good that i can get preg.

This month has been very confusing!!

Thx for everyones support these past weeks x xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by Macca8 »

Poor you Nickii. Hope you are okay sweetie and looking after yourself.

(((((big hug))))

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Post by BecP »

Nicki
I am so sorry.
But positive thoughts, you got pregnant. You jolly well did.
This can only mean you can do it again. Your body's had a shot at it, it didn't quite get it right, but it doesn't mean next time it won't. You're closer to the dream than you were a month ago. Sorry you've had a rollercoaster of a ride and I hope you manage to get closure. Lots of positive thoughts coming your way for the future.
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Post by souris »

Hey Nicki, what a cycle you had. I was praying for a happy ending for you...
As bec said, you know that you can achieve pregnancy which is great. But you know all that so I just want to say good luck for your next try

take care
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Hi Nikki,

I have been off the board for so long and whenI caught up with your news I was so desperate to mail you. I can't imagine where your head must be at. I am so sorry you have had to go through so many extra emotions on top of the usual trauma the cycles can cause. It is good to see that you have found a positive thought in the pain you have been through. I hope and pray for you that your body makes a speedy recovery and we soon see the great results you deserve.
Keep positive xx

Leanne x ( now using still trying as my new user name).
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Post by DeniseM »

Hey Nicki.

I lost my first pregnancy too. I'm so sorry that you've gone through this. What a horrible emotional rollercoaster. Does your doctor want you to take some time off to let your body recover?
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Post by HOLLY SANDERSON »

NICKI I HAVE PMED YOU
SECONDARY INFERTILITY
IUI JUNE05 NEG
IUI JULY05 NEVER GOT PAST FOLLY SCAN
NEW HOSP NEW TESTS
NATURAL P DEC 05 M/C 7w5d
IUI+IVF DRUGS 21ST SEPT NEG
IUI +IVF DRUGS CHANGED TO IVF MID CYCLE ER 21/11 BFN
2ND IVF START DATE 12/I
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Post by princess »

oh sweetie
I miscarried my first prgnancy also.
The second one resulted in Joey!
Keep your chin up my dear. Your body knows what to do, the docs just need to give you a little more help
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Post by gbnut »

Niki I am so sorry to here your news. But as everyone has been saying to me we are a step forward as we now know we can get pregnant.

Do you have any frozen ones????

I wish you all the best in what you decide to do next.

Susan x
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Post by bubblymichelle »

Oh Nicki I am so sorry to read this, big hugs! no matter what anyone says it wn't help what your feeling now. We are all her eif you need to talk.
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Post by Smita »

Nicki,
I'm sending hugs to you.
I dont know what else to say in what i know has been a roller coaster of emotions for you..
hugs,
smita
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Post by CarolynB »

Dear Nicki

I am so very sorry to read this news especially after the cycle that you have had.

It does indeed mean that you can get pregnant. That is the silver lining in the current cloud.

Praying that next time will be the one for you hun.

Sending huge hugs.
Carolyn xxx
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Post by AMck »

Nicki, so sorry to read your news. Take care of yourself and DH.

PMA to you as you try again :) Thinking of you.

Hugs
Anna x
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Post by MB »

Miscarriages are hard and I wish you much PMA as you move forward. The silver lining, really, is that you can get pregnant.

I wish you much love and luck for the future

MB
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Post by ogr1 »

i love you....
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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