Maybe they are not avoiding you, but for you it feels like it because you are expecting them to reach out to you. If they are good friends they probably get over your attitudes at the moment, I wouldn't worry too much about it and maybe explain yourself better when you feel like it.
Your friends ...

First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. This happened to me too, also in the ninth week. It's not easy to cope with, especially if it took so much just to get there.

I am not sure if there's a difference between D&C and natural, I guess the important fact would be that all tissue is completely ...

Hi girls,

I am pretty devastated right now. My ET has been postponed because of Hydrosalpinx (fluid in one of my blocked tubes). Now I was waiting for the fluid to disappear and to get my period again to start with the FET. My last scan two weeks ago was great, everything normal, no fluid. Now I ...

Hi EmmaLouise,

I don't know of clinics in your area, however I would be surprised if there are any that are offering this. Clinics usually argue that the chances of success are so many times worse if you do the cycle with only one or two eggs, that they don't recommend to even try.

Why are you ...

This is sooo funny! All your responses and little stories can really crack you up! One should make a theater piece out of this, or maybe a stand-up comedy.

Hey Jill, after all this comment came closer to the truth than others. I never heard of getting pregnant by relaxing or vacationing, sex should ...

Hi Debra,

I don't think that you can do much about it. If you read about it (this is my favorite website about FSH: http://www.inciid.org/printpage.php?cat=infertility101&id=6 ), you learn that this hormone is only an indicator for the quality of your eggs. You CAN change the level, but it won't ...

Thanks for the warm welcome, girls! And thanks for letting me in on your sniffing practice. They should come up with a medication that your partner needs to massage into your back twice daily, shouldn't they?!

Minnow - you asked about the best support for yourself and what might happen. I guess ...

Hi girls,

I guess I can join here, though my IVF cycle has long started already. I've been put on a hold because I developed some water in the tubes during stimulation. They froze the embroys they got - four good looking ones - and I will get some implanted probably around Feb 20. At the moment I ...

Your fist in his face? :lol:

That reminds me of another doctor story: After I just had my D&C the doctor (who knew about my history) came to me when I was just waking up to tell me about the outcome. He then said, that we could try to become pregant again already in one month. That was really hard ...

That was already quite amusing, thank you so much, girls! The "womb renting" really cracked me up, though. Very funny! Since mine is quite allright, maybe I should consider that as a new career opportunity. I'm infertile, but hey, I still can be a useful member of this small community!

Hello fellow sufferers of insensitive people around you,

What where the worst comments you got from people around you about your situation? Black humour and laughing it away are my best way of coping. So please make my day! :twisted:

Here are mine:

I tried talking to my brother (a happy father ...