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Dolly · Post by **Dolly** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 7:54 am

Hi Alison, I was so sorry to read your news. I admire your positive attitude and going on holiday sounds like a great plan - hope you go somewhere nice where you can pamper yourselves! Take care Love Dolly

SJ BROWN · Post by **SJ BROWN** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 7:57 am

Have not posted you before(quite new to site) but would like to say I am really sorry it did not work for you this time. You seem like a really positive person & I am sure this will help you through the tough times. Have a fab holiday & keep up the positive vibes.....It will work one day!!! Just keep going.... Sarah xx

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 8:59 am

Hi Alison, sorry to read your news. It's tough I know. Best thing to do is concentrate on getting back to "normal" and your holiday which I know you'll do. Easier said than done I know. Take some time out for yourselves. Thinking of you. Jo. xxxxx

bertie · Post by **bertie** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 11:55 am

Hi Alison. So sorry to hear. I echo what everyone else has said. A holiday is what you need. Our 1st attempt was abandoned in Jan. We had our holiday in June and it was like escaping (if you get what I mean). We are now in the middle of our 2nd go. Have a great holiday and good luck with whatever you decide. luv to you both Bertie x

bubblymichelle · Post by **bubblymichelle** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 12:03 pm

Hi Alison My thoughts are with you at this sad time, thinking of you. Take Care Love Shell. xx

GB · Post by GB » Tue Jul 29, 2003 12:40 pm

Dear Alison, So sorry to hear your news...and good to hear that you're not too down with it all. Keep that PMA up and book yourself and DH the much needed holiday! Take care and thinking of you! Lots of love Gila x-x-x

gillyf · Post by **gillyf** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 12:59 pm

Hi Alison, As everyone else has already said - sorry to hear your news. Go on that holiday & relax with DH, we've done that after our -ve's and it really is great just to get away and forget about IVF for a while. Take care of yourselves. Gill xxx

Alison · Post by **Alison** » Tue Jul 29, 2003 7:10 pm

Hi again - thank you so much for your kind words, it really does mean such a lot. Yesterday was really such a wierd day. I'd been really convinced it had worked, right up to going into the clinic yesterday morning, and then gradually during the day I became sure it would be bad news again - I actually put off ringing til quite late I was so sure. So when I heard the news it was just confirming what I felt I already knew. Not sure whether that was sixth sense, self-protection, or just not being able to imagine it being different from the usual bad news of those phone calls. I really do though feel OK at the moment, but recognise my self defence mechanism of running round being busy, and that at some point it may all catch up with me. We've not told friends and family about the timing of this cycle, but I suspect that the next person who asks how its all going may get a rather tearful and self-pitying response! Thanks again - I'm so touched to have heard from people I feel like I've known for ever and new people too, much love Alison x

alison p · Post by **alison p** » Wed Jul 30, 2003 10:47 am

Dear Alison, I'm so sorry to hear your news - it's just not fair is it after all you have been through. You know the drill though - holiday, pampering, and time out to get over it. I wish things could have turned out differently, Look after yourself, Alison xx

GB · Post by GB » Wed Jul 30, 2003 11:28 am

Dear Alison, Once again, just to say that I'm with you in heart and spirit through these trials and tribulations.... Just pamper yourself and give yourself time to relax! Take care. Lots of love Gila

Jo Radley · Post by **Jo Radley** » Wed Jul 30, 2003 12:25 pm

Dear Alison, I'm so sorry it was a negative for you. I have been thinking of you over the past few days, but haven't been able to log on cos of the problems with the system. Relaxation and pampering should be top of your agenda now until you feel strong enough to make the next step. Hope you have a wonderful holiday, wherever you decide to go. Lots of love and hugs, Jo xx

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