I miscarried

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Post by onlycatssofar »

My heart goes out to you. But don't give up hope - I m/c twice but am now 18 weeks along. And there are 2 positive things: you know now that you can get pregnant (that was a big relief for me) and, you m/c'd early in your pregnancy. Anyhow, take care of yourself and your DH.
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Post by terri1 »

so sorry to hear your news Nicki.
Its so good that you are being positive though.........like you said you can get pregnant. It will happen again. I have heard a lot of stories about women getting pregnant the next month after m/c I think because there are still a lot of hormones flying around. can you do another IUI soon?
Keep trying, maybe this next month will be your time.
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Post by leigh »

hi
nicola
so sorry things didn't work out. not surprised to hear you are taking positives from this, you always help others in such a positive way. keep those positive thoughts and i pray it happens for you soon, let me know what your plans are when your ready. thinking of you.
love to you and dh at this difficult time
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Post by PebblesUK »

Nicki I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you and dh. You are being so positive and that's fantastic - keep it up! I've lost two babies in the past but I have gone on to have two little girls since then and now have this one on the way too!

What are your plans now? Are you going to give yourself time to recover or try again straight away??

Best of luck to you

Jo
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Post by wannababy1229 »

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that there is nothing I can say to make you feel better. Please take care of yourself as much as possible. (((((hugs))))))
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1st IVF Aug 06-BFN
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Post by lara312 »

Hi nicki so sorry sending hugs to you and dh
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Hi Nicki

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Just to say that i'm thinking of you, life's so unfair.

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Post by Tracii »

Hi Nicki - Like many of us I m/c my first pregnancy as well. On the very brightside - you can get pregnant. My doc reassured me after the loss that my body was 'practicing' and didn't know what to do with the embryo..and the next time it would stick. I know this doesn't make it any easier but you are getting closer to your dream.
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Post by Moritsha »

Nicki, I'm really sorry. I hope you're looking after yourself. You deserve it. As all our other ladies say at least you know you can get pregnant. Take care. Paula x
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Post by Smita »

Hi Nick,
Are you ok? Just checking in on you..

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Post by Zed2003 »

Oh Nicki,

I'm so, so very sorry. No words can make up for what has happened. Just take time to grieve and look after yourself and dh. Things will get a little easier with time, although it may not seem like it now. It is so unfair, but you did get pregnant and that's such a big and hopeful step.

Take care
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2nd IVF - Summer 2002 - pos, but M/C 8 wks
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Post by NickiMark »

Oh wow, you guys are great!!! Love ya all. x x

I am ok, and yeah u all know me too well, Im really positive. Its my 2nd name!!! I am ok actually, it's sad but i am so happy i got preg. i know i can do it now!!!

We will IUI in Oct, so only next month!!!
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by Julie2039 »

Hi nikki, love n hugs to you and your DH. Sorry to hear your news. xx You know you can do it and those positive vibes will bring positive things for you!! take care x
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Post by Julie2039 »

Hi nikki, love n hugs to you and your DH. Sorry to hear your news. xx You know you can do it and those positive vibes will bring positive things for you!! take care x
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