Hi Kate this is my second attempt at IVF and I'm supposed to test on Sep 22nd but I don't want to until the 23rd - only cuz it's a saturday and I'll have the weekend to regroup if it's a bfn.
I've been going crazy since saturday cuz I took a hpt and it was negative and it was only 6dp5dt and i guess i should not have expected a bfp but it still has me depressed.
i have no symptoms what so ever and the only thing i'm feeling is the sensation that i'm getting AF.
Did you transfer blastocycts with FET?
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
I can't sleep ,only 3 days to testing.Hopefully BFP...
Rhonda I had a FET ,2 embies put back in.I lost 4 embies during thawing process,still have 5 in the storage.I don't feel any symptoms either.I try not to worry because its not the same for everyone.It looks like we will do the test same day good luck to you keep me posted.
Kate06-Hey were very close in test days I get mine 9/21st-going absolutely crazy! Have no symptoms either sometimes cramping. I keep trying to forget HPT's but it's in the back of my mind. I promised my hubby I wouldn't but my toes were crossed LOL .
Good luck to ALL of us
35yrs old DH-41
ttc-4yrs.
6mnths clomid=BFN
iui=BFN
1st IVF/ICSI=BFN
2nd IVF stop days b4 ER-DH w/test. cancer-sperm banked
2nd official IVF/ICSI =BFN
FET/ICSI =BFN
3rd IVF ICSI/AH=3/2007 BFN
luvbabies - stay away from the hpt - trust me - I did one saturday gone and it was negative and i've been depressed since! i know i had no right to do the test so early (6 days past 5 day transfer) but one of my cycle buddies got a bfp that day on a hpt and it got me excited. of course she's the exception not the rule.
Kate - the frozen embies you transferred were at blastocycts stage? because they froze all for you I was wondering if they left all to blastocyst or if they froze them on day 3.
I'm supposed to test on friday but I'm almost sure I'm not going to do it till saturday - I have so much work to do that I don't want the distraction if the test is negative. DH said I can do the test whenever I want so I might just do it saturday
wishing bfp's for you all!!
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
They froze them all on day 3. I am really confused about embryos actually.Unfortunately my clinic is not very informative.If I don't ask they tell me nothing despite being a private patient I don't get any special treatment. Anyway Its too late now,transfer done but I think I need to ask about my 5 frozen embryos what stage they are in?But to be honest with I don't know what is the right question to ask ,all medical terms.
Do you think I give them a ring or wait for my result first..
Kate wait for the results first - I did'nt mean to make you more anxious but normally they won't freeze embies unless they are good so you probably have nothing to worry about
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
Thanks for your advise.You didn't make me more nerveous don't worry I am OK.But I think I really need to know what is going on with my embies for later use if this one does't work.Hope It will for both of us.
Hi Lady's i sorry to but into your thread i wish id seen you earlier i would have sugested you come join the thread september testers (september hopes and dreams)we could have given you so much support... the TWW is a nightmare analize everything and read yes some did but some didnt...LOL...
Kate we have a lady who just got her BFP and she still has no symptoms at all... so that too can be a good sign...
rhonda AF signs can also be a BFP ....
im sorry if i made it worse... if you need any help or advice come look us up on the general side...open arms
wishing you all strong BFP'S soon....hugs Aunty
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
Mommy to my beautiful girls Gabby(4) and Kenzie(2)
Hi luvbabies - I got a bfn this morning too - AGAIN
AF came in all it's glory last night so I pretty much knew a bfn was the result. I cried all night till I did'nt think i had any tears left in me to cry. My SIL did IVF with me and she got a BFP and she already has 2 kids and it is really going to be awful to see her all the time because it will be a constant reminder that it did not work for me again. this is her first attempt at IVF.
so it goes.
Rhonda
TTC for 2 1/2 yrs
IVF w/ ICSI May 06 - BFN
IVF w/ ICSI Sep 06 - BFN again
Next attempt will be - Jan 07
I wish we didn't have to go thru this. Knock us out put us in a semi coma and wake us when it works. But I guess we'd miss out on the little things in life. Funny how going thru so many negatives makes your body wake up to everything you took for granted.
It WILL happen for us...I don't know when...but you HAVE TO HAVE FAITH that it will or the grief will put us under.
Prayers are with everyone bfp and bfn's
35yrs old DH-41
ttc-4yrs.
6mnths clomid=BFN
iui=BFN
1st IVF/ICSI=BFN
2nd IVF stop days b4 ER-DH w/test. cancer-sperm banked
2nd official IVF/ICSI =BFN
FET/ICSI =BFN
3rd IVF ICSI/AH=3/2007 BFN
I was testing tomorrow but this morning my period arrived.My clinic said Its better to do test tomorrow but I know it will be BFN.Its quite sad.I am on my own my husband had to work tonight.I am trying to not to show him that how much sad I am.But he rang me before ang cought me crying.
Anyway I am sorry for everyone who got BFN......
I've nothing to say thanks for your all support and good luck.....