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Traci · Post by **Traci** » Sun Oct 05, 2003 10:29 am

Hi Kat and DH Im so sorry this wasnt your turn, take time to grieve it is very important so that you can be stronger again for the next go. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Trace x

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Sun Oct 05, 2003 1:33 pm

hi kat so sorry to hear your new's. You will start to feel better when the drugs wear off.take care and will be thinking of you. from july ann

Jo Locker · Post by **Jo Locker** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 9:04 am

Sorry you had a negative result Kat. It's horrid the way it makes you feel. The drugs do weird things to you, too. Take time and you'll be back. Thinking of you - Jo. XXXXX

Kate W · Post by **Kate W** » Mon Oct 06, 2003 11:35 am

Dear Kat It was so sad to read your news. Please do not feel as though you have let anyone down, especially your DH. You are in this together, for better or for worse, so give each other a big hug and cry until you can't anymore. I understand what you mean about your sister. I don't think that anyone who has not been through fertitlity treatment can really understand what it is like and definitely not someone who has not thought about having children of their own (not sure whether that is the case with your sister). Remember though that this is a time to be really kind to yourself so please don't feel responsible about how anyone else feels about your results as nobody wants this more than you and rick. Take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you. Love Kate

Becky28 · Post by **Becky28** » Tue Oct 07, 2003 10:14 am

Hi Kat, Really sorry to hear about your negative result. Please try not to blame yourself - this really is a numbers game, and it takes longer for some than others, there's nothing you could have done or not done to change things, and nothing to feel bad about. Treat yourself kindly and give yourself time to recover, we're all thinking of you. Beck x

GB · Post by GB » Tue Oct 07, 2003 12:53 pm

Dear Kat So sorry to hear your news....I know that the next few days will be bleak and dreary, but there is always light at the end of the tunnel and your time will come! Take care and pamper yourself! Lots of luv Gila x-x-x

Di · Post by Di » Wed Oct 08, 2003 9:05 am

Hi KAT, Have just got back from a long weekend at my da's and read your posting! What can I say except I'm so sorry - you were a tower of strength through your 2ww. Don't try analysing everything you did and didn't do - its a complete lottery as to who it works for and when! I can understand your feeling like having let everyone down - the people I told about tmt would phone to see how it had gone and I'd feel such a failure. Give yourself and DH time to recover and look towards to next - the one that will work! Take care, Di

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