Just had my 7 week scan and no heartbeat was detected. There is a small chance that the embie was hidden (10%) and hence we have to wait another week for another scan to make sure. We are not holding out much hope, especially as I seem to have lost all pregnancy symptoms.
What I would like to know is if anybody has been through something similar - positive or negative. I really don't know what will happen next, will I start to bleed naturally or not? Has anybody gone on to see a heartbeat? I really am a mess and the consultant was so unhelpful that the only people I can ask are you. Any advice would be gratefully received.
Thanks
Kate
Me 35 DH 44 unexplained infertility
3# IVF all BFN
3# FET all BFN 4# BFP - no heartbeat @7wks - about to start the journey again!!
Kate
sorry to hear your news and hugs to you and DH...
I went through this at 10wks with 1st beanie and 7 wks with 2nd beanie...both were totally hidden and were ectopics...i don't know if sometimes 7wks can be too early to see heartbeat ( have heard so) but the consultant would have said so and given a higher %...
i do hope that someone out there has a more positive outlook for you...it's so difficult to have to wait another week hun...x x
much love to you and DH
love jen
xxxx
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3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
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This happened to me also...but the fetus had also stopped growing. Is the fetus measuring 7 weeks, that also has a lot to do with it. If the fetus is only measuring 5 weeks then it would definately be too early for HB. Our beautiful started to pass my system 3 days after I was taken off progestrone and the same day of scheduled D & C. I hope you have better news than we did, keep the faith it is definately possible the fetus is just behind a little and still doing fine.
8-) ME 37/ DH 34 TTC 8 yearsIUI 2, IVF 2, M/C 9w 1/07 BFP while waiting to start July 07 cycle
Kate I am so so sorry to hear your news. I cannot put into words how sorry I am to hear this. I know no words can take away the pain. As Jen said there is still a 10% chance .... and being in limbo is the worst thing. I know its going to be a long week for you. We are here if you need us. Thinking of you and dh at this difficult time xxx
Me 32 DH 34 - severe male factor
5 failed donor inseminations July- Nov '06
6th DI Jan '07 ...... finally ..... OMG BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Kate my RE had said that they would not check until 7 weeks for HB and sometimes then it can be hit or miss. So please keep hope for the next week. Best of luck and I do hope things work out for you and your lil one.
Thanks for all the kind words girls, but unfortunately the second scan yesterday showed exactly the same. There was nothing inside the sac, even though it had got bigger. So I now have to stop all the drugs and wait to bleed.
Not the news we wanted but at least it has shown we can get pregnant, so we will wait a few mths and then try again and hopefully this time the news will be much better!!
Kate
Me 35 DH 44 unexplained infertility
3# IVF all BFN
3# FET all BFN 4# BFP - no heartbeat @7wks - about to start the journey again!!
Yes there is a sac but its empty. They did think it may have been hiding, hence the second scan but they said at 8 weeks it would be too big to hide! Would love to think it was still hiding but I have no symptoms, not like I did at the start and they have now taken me off all the drugs so I am just waiting to bleed.
Did you have symptoms even after not seeing anything until 9 weeks?
Kate
Me 35 DH 44 unexplained infertility
3# IVF all BFN
3# FET all BFN 4# BFP - no heartbeat @7wks - about to start the journey again!!
I'm so so sorry. Yes, I continued to have symptoms....but I also have had ongoing symptoms after a loss before my hider, so it wasn't reassuring for me to be puking...I just figured it was more useless puke.