Good on you for posting. I can remember that I read for about 2 months and then I figured that I had to jump in and there has been no stopping me ever since. But it does feel strange when you post the very 1st time
Delighted that you took the plunge and have now joined us. It suddenly makes you realise that you are not the only one who is taking lots of tries and also you are so not the only person who is using Donor Eggs.
Sorry that you have had lots of tries and it has not yet worked for you. As you will see most of the girls have had around 4/5 goes and are now on the Donor Egg trail so you are amongst freinds and people who know how hard it has been to get this far.
You can ask everything and anything that you like. We'll do our best to help.
Both myself and Jen1d are at IM but so are Gill and JenB. And Anna - our wise friend - has baby Matthew who is 6 months old - thanks to IM. So sure between us we can all help you on your way.
They allowed me to book the 1st appointment whilst I pulled my notes together. I contacted them via e-mail - you have probably done that already. They sent me a list of tests - HIV, Hep B & C, blood group etc. - to get done plus details of the costs etc. Most of these tests were I did not have them or they were not up to date then I got done by my gp which was FREE! I was told that it would take about 40 days to get all my notes from Hammersmith and ARGC so asked if I could book my appointment in the mean time and they let me do that. I firstly contacted them in late July and had to wait til 19th September for my 1st appointment. We just mailed the notes when we had pulled them all together but youi could take on the day for sure as they had not looked at them until the day we were there. I'd try to get an appointment booked asap as it looks/sounds like they are getting busier all the time - which is good as they are popular and very good but also bad as you may need to wait a little longer for your 1st appointment.
The clinic is to the North West of the City but Barcelona is not a big place. We are lazy so we took a cab from the airport to the hotel (Hotel Athena near the clinic although Jen stayed at Hotel Lille this time and thought it was better) and it took about 15 minutes to the hotel from the airport and about Euro 20. Some of the other girls have taken the metro/train and can easily let you know how to get there. It is all very straight forward and you should not worry about any of that as plenty of us can recommend hotels etc etc Then we just walked from the hotel to the clinic on the morning of our appointment.
The clinic is very professional and very modern looking. It would be hard not to be impressed. The good news is that they have donors available so I have waited less than 2 weeks since my 1st appointment and started birth control pills today to get me in synch with the donor. Would expect to be on these all of October. Then have a period at the start of November. Then patches to build up my lining and HOPEFULLY transfer by mid November if all goes to plan. You have a back up donor at IM just in case anything goes wrong with the 1st lady.
Please let us know if there is more that we can help you with.
Look forward to getting to know you better. Like where do you live? How young are you??
CarolynB
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Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
Surrogacy/FET #8 - 15.10.2008 - BFP
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