FET Oct./Nov. Cycle Buddies

michellexx · Post by **michellexx** » Fri Oct 05, 2007 9:53 am

hiya Lots of baby wishes i was told to rest for 72hours but with gentle walking for your circulation not to do any heavy lifting but to try carry on as normal and said not to get stressed i would book the fri off and have a long chilled wknd off i will of had a week off when i go back monday also i read milk is realy good to drink as it helps the sticking hope this helps x

michellexx · Post by **michellexx** » Sun Oct 07, 2007 1:12 pm

afternoon ladys ow is every body ? bannana good luck tues lots ov baby wishes good luck weds hoping for a baby as af cme yet ? Pummalaemma
how are u feeling u only have a few days left now i have everything crossed for u av u got any symptems ?(spelling bad) i av little bit of back ache and the odd cramp and a little sore boobs think this is down to pessararys cos there the side affects im counting down the days now

michellexx · Post by **michellexx** » Sun Oct 07, 2007 1:13 pm

Bao bao sorry forgot to mention u av u got ure date for fet yet ?

baobao · Post by **baobao** » Mon Oct 08, 2007 12:01 pm

Hi Michellexx, thanks for the thoughts. One more week to go for your 2WW, I wish you all the best and I hope you or Pummalaemma will start the ball rolling for all of us here!

Went for US today and lining is growing slowly, so I'm to up my oestrogen intake and go in for another US next monday. RE said if all goes well, ET should be end of next week, so still a long way to go.

Banana/Lots, all the best for the ET this week!

banana · Post by **banana** » Mon Oct 08, 2007 8:16 pm

Hi Everyone,

Welcome all the newbies. we are all here to help each other. I have been mia because these meds are driving me crazy. I really don't feel myself and I don't like it. Lots of babywishes- what about you? Today I'm finally happy because tomorrow is the day but then i have the 2 ww. At least we will be doing it together. Might help us out a little bit. Michellexx- when is the 2ww over for you? How did the ET go? I'm a little nervous for tomorrow yet so excited. Ladies it really helps to be connected to people who understand.

Pummalaemma · Post by **Pummalaemma** » Mon Oct 08, 2007 10:46 pm

hi everyone,
my weekend was not so good, it looked like i had a little bit of bleeding, hard to say because of the prometrium, which of course put my hopes for this to work out even further down. i am trying not to be too optimistic, since if it does not work out, i think, i'll be less depressed. not sure if this is a good way to think about it or not, but that helps me.
i had my blood test done today and got a value of 16 for my quantitave, they said that perhaps my emby did stick but did not implant or something like that. i'll have to go back on wednesday than they'll do another test and compare numbers. i am surprisingly calm considering this is a BFN, sort of, but i am thinking that for my next fresh cycle there may be hope at least someting positive happened. i have one cycle left on my warranty. any one of you have experience with a quantitative of 16, the nurse said it should be around 50 or 60. i had a day 6 blast implanted 9 day ago ... any thoughts. i feel sort of empty inside, not sure what to say, i think it will hit me later today, it is really weired.
lot's of baby dust to all of you.
pummalaemma

JackieG · Post by **JackieG** » Mon Oct 08, 2007 11:30 pm

Pummaelaemma,

Im sorry you had a lower number but dont give up. I have seem the beta increase and women go on to have a healthy baby!!

I too have had chemical pregnancies and you are right, you dont know how to feel

I will be starting again in a month and am pretty nervous about it.

Good luck to you and I pray that your numbers increase.

Hugs to you,
Jackie

michellexx · Post by **michellexx** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 9:48 am

Good morning ladys Pummaelaemma, you are in my thoughts i realy hope ure numbers go higher ive got every thing crossed for you.
Banana good luck today i find out on monday i dont know what to think i get sore boobs at night and back ache but i think thats just the side affects to the pessasarys also i think its the mind it realy is a roller coaster you dont know what to think from one min to the next it will be every thin weve dreamed of if we get a bfp but if not we"l just keep on going un till we get there (i am already thinking a head ) i need to get some of that possitive thinking back ! ! welcome to all new peeps lotsofbabywishes good luck tomoz hoping4ababy how are you ?

desparado · Post by **desparado** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 11:56 am

Hiya to everyone before me.

Hope you dont mind me just butting in here?

Hope you are all doing great today. Good luck to all those who start cycles / test soon. Everything crossed. So sorry for those who didnt get the BFP.

Im on the horrendous 2WW too, its driving me mad.
I had FET last Wednesday so 6 days in and 8 days until i test. This is my 2nd attempt at ICSI, the 1st was a fresh cycle but miscarried early.

They put 2 4 cell embies back in and said it was a text book transfer. Up to mother nature or the Gods now! Its soooooooo hard keeping your mind off it isnt? But ive discovered ebay which is keeping me out of trouble and occupied. Ssshhhhh, dont tell my DH im spending all his money!!!!

Just thought id join this thread to offer support and get some too!! It all helps. Thanks to everyone who writes, it really does help at this frustrating time. See you later, have a nice day. XXX

michellexx · Post by **michellexx** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 12:09 pm

hiya desparado and welcome im sorry for your loss fingers crossed u get a bfp im in the 2ww ad et last mon i only ad one frozen enbryo you are so right about trying to keep your mind off it i too have been on ebay treated myself and been on few other sites just shame bout the postal strikes lol ive also been on on line bingo gala never won but it took my mind off the 2wwfor a while lol fingers crosssed for u you have come to the right place were all in same situation and all understand what each other is going through welcome x

desparado · Post by **desparado** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 12:42 pm

Thanx soooooo much michelle x x, its nice to feel you belong somewhere and that other people are in the same boat and actually understand what youre going through. DH is really good but just cannot understand fully!!! Its so supportive and it helps a lot, it can get quite lonely at times. Im gutted too about postal strike, i really want my purchases before i get fat!

Havnt tried the bingo, might give that a go!

Which hozy are you at for your treatment? Im at Hewitt Centre in Liverpool. Im due on A/F tomorrow so hopefully it wont come. Ive started getting period pains and back ache today so fingers crossed it stays away. Do you do a test yourself or will you have bt done? Is this your first FET from one cycle? X X X X

banana · Post by **banana** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 12:53 pm

Good morning ladies!!! So today is the day for my ET and I'm already crying and so nervous that its making me sick right now. I'm thinking about all of you. Lots of baby wishes - How are you holding up? Michellexx - keep us posted and i have everything crossed for you.

Lots of baby wishes · Post by **Lots of baby wishes** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 3:32 pm

Hello to everyone--all the newbies!
Banana--I am so excited for you---today is the BIG day! Let me know how it goes! Lots of positive thinking and baby wishes.
Michellexx--Thanks so much for your advice, I will definitely drink some extra milk. How is the 2ww? Only 6 more days to go

. Continue to be optimstic even if your symptoms may be related to the meds b/c there is always a chance those are pregn symptoms! Keep me updated!

We had a delay in the trasfer (sounds like what Baobao went thru)--My US on Friday showed my lining was only 5 and they wanted above 8. Increased my estrogen shots and started estrace (vaginal) and repeated on Monday. We are good to go and they are thawing the embryos today (tues)!!!!!!!!!!!! We will know Wed wether the transfer is Thurs or Sat. I am hoping they look good and grow to the blastocyte stage--but either way I am excited!
Hope all is well with everyon else!

baobao · Post by **baobao** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:25 pm

Welcome JackieG/desparado, hope you find this thread as supportive as I do.

Pummalaemma, so sorry to hear abt your weekend, but keep the faith, there might still be hope!

Michellexx/desparado, just a few more days to go, hope you both get bfp!!

banana, hope everything went well for the ET..you are now officially in the 2WW, how exciting!!

Lots, glad to hear that your lining is ready for the ET, I hope come monday mine will also be ready. Good luck tomorrow and do let us know about your embies and ET date.

Hoping4baby, AF should be here by now??

Hope I didn't miss out anyone..Me I'm just bored with the wait, just doesn't seem to end!! First the lining, then the thawing, after that the ET, followed by the dreaded 2WW..how do we women survive all this?! LOL

michellexx · Post by **michellexx** » Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:53 pm

hiya all (to many names lol) desparado i am at care in manchester i do a test at home then ring up what about you ? no one else seems to do that i have been getting back ache too ow are u with the pessaserys my belly as swollen WELL BIG (lets hope it goes bigger ) i work in chemist and pharmacist says its the pessareys and cos i work in a chemist im surrounded by hpts ARG! they seem to be trying to get my attention saying go on buy me ha lol gonna be strong. yes this is my first fet after my first cycle i only ad one to freeze realy hope u get a bfp

banana your on the 2ww now whoo hoo not long 4 every body else lots thinking ov you and bao bao

michelle xx

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