Try not to worry yourself, I believe you might have experience implantation bleeding, which sometimes happens around when you would have normally had your period. It's another positive sign that your preggers! What I definately know now is, brown is old and is OKwashingtonda wrote:Esperanza and Tali -- I am sorry to hear the news. Please don't give up because everybody is different so those BFNs may just fool ya. I will continue to pray for the both of you.
This whole process is a scary mess. You get through one thing and than there is something else. I just went to the bathroom and there is brown when I wipe. This didn't even look like blood maybe just brown urine when I wipe. Has anyone else had this? There is no thickness to it, it's just there. It was dark brown in color so I am hoping that it's just implantation something. I'm not gonna freak out about it as long as it is brown and very light. I will definately keep an eye out on it.
My clinic will not allow me to come in an test early. They said that 18 days is their rule because they want to make sure that all the HCG is out of your system and that they have a certain beta that they like to see at the 18 day mark so Thursday it is. I will not do anymore HPT until Thursday morning.
Schel -- any word yet. Please keep us posted.
If you want to just take it easy for a day or two to make sure everything is cool, just call in sick! You don't have to give a reason.....just think of it as a couple of mental health days that you deservewashingtonda wrote:Thanks Schel for the advice. I just had more when I wiped but it is dark brown so I think I'll be good.
I am so glad to here that everything is okay with you. I never thought this would be this tough. I almost want to stay home from work the rest of the week just to take it easy until I test so I can make sure I'm not jeopardizing anything while moving about.
I have a office/desk job so I don't need to get up so that helps but I am so concerned. At first I was looking for implantation bleeding and now I'm scared to death. Praying that that is all it is.
When does your clininc release you to your own OBGYN and do you stop going to the clinic after you ar released?
Thanks for watching out for meMagic Magin wrote:Hi Schel,
Glad you and jellybean ok, after having 2 m/c I know how worrying bleeding can be... am so releived for you everything is ok. Take care of you both and let DH pamper you![]()
All ok my end, taking a bit of time out from IVF whilst sorting myself out a bit, leaving my stressful job and just joined weight watchers... hope it works next time.
Take care
MM
xxx
Try and keep a positive outlook. You know you tested about 4 days earlier than your beta test and if your HCG is low still you might have gotten a false negative. I'll think positive and pray for you. No matter what the outcome there is a reason. God wants what is best for you and answers prayer.esperanza wrote:Hi Friends,
I'm with you Tali. I had an emotional meltdown yesterday. I cried so much, and today I did some this morning (although I'm feeling much better right now). All of the sudden I had the feeling that I was getting AF. Maybe TMI, but my whitish discharge is starting to become yellowish, and that lead me to think that it will soon become brown...and well, you know the rest.
When I read about WashingtonDA's BFP I convinced dh to take me get a hpt. Well, of course it came out negative. I was so sure it was all over. Even though I am feeling a bit more hopeful today, I'm still expecting the bfn on Friday. DH has been SO, SO, SO supportive...I love him! (heck! at least one of us is not a mess![]()
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). We decided that if, in fact, it is a bfn, we are going ahead with FET right away (we have 8 snow babies waiting for us). My nurse had told me to let her know so she can prepare everything for me before she goes on vacation (she's going on vacation right after my test). I called her this morning to tell her to start preparing all the paper work for me to do FET next month. I'm waiting for her to call me back.
Well, that's my story. Whatever the outcome is, I will still hang in here for anybody interested in continuing in this journey with me.
WashingtonDA--I'm so happy for you. Congrats my dear. See? you didn't need the frozen embies after all!
Luv and baby dust to everyone. Sorry, I'm not in the mood for personals right now. I will do so later.
GIRL -- you need to pick your chin up!!!esperanza wrote:Hi Friends,
I'm with you Tali. I had an emotional meltdown yesterday. I cried so much, and today I did some this morning (although I'm feeling much better right now). All of the sudden I had the feeling that I was getting AF. Maybe TMI, but my whitish discharge is starting to become yellowish, and that lead me to think that it will soon become brown...and well, you know the rest.
When I read about WashingtonDA's BFP I convinced dh to take me get a hpt. Well, of course it came out negative. I was so sure it was all over. Even though I am feeling a bit more hopeful today, I'm still expecting the bfn on Friday. DH has been SO, SO, SO supportive...I love him! (heck! at least one of us is not a mess![]()
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). We decided that if, in fact, it is a bfn, we are going ahead with FET right away (we have 8 snow babies waiting for us). My nurse had told me to let her know so she can prepare everything for me before she goes on vacation (she's going on vacation right after my test). I called her this morning to tell her to start preparing all the paper work for me to do FET next month. I'm waiting for her to call me back.
Well, that's my story. Whatever the outcome is, I will still hang in here for anybody interested in continuing in this journey with me.
WashingtonDA--I'm so happy for you. Congrats my dear. See? you didn't need the frozen embies after all!
Luv and baby dust to everyone. Sorry, I'm not in the mood for personals right now. I will do so later.