Awaiting Treatment

[ICSI GIRL]

Hello Ladies --- so nice to see everyone so busy I do apologize for my absence, but still needing some time as I'm sure you all understand.......I want to thank each and every one of you for your thoughts, your kind words and your prayers........I think of you all each and every day

I'm doing OK.......mostly just 'going thru the motions' if that makes sense.....I have NO idea "what next" for us.....not yet anyway -- i'm sure i'll get to that point, just not yet....may take a week, may take 6 months -- i just don't know right now I've redirected all of my energy into LOSING WEIGHT -- something much needed in my life right now... is atleast ONE thing i have COMPLETE control over that i can actually do something about.........i think that's a big part of my problem --- i'm not used to things being "out of my control".....i like having control (just ask my dh!!) and it really messes w/ my mind when something happens like this (bfn) and there is literally NOTHING i could/can do to change the outcome......

I'm out of touch w/ where all of you are in your cycles -- but i wish each of you the VERY BEST OF LUCK and just know that i'll be checking in on you (as the saying goes -- "baby steps......" first i will come back to read......then hopefully at some point, be able to jump back in full speed ahead!!!)

Thanks again.....you're a wondferful group of ladies and i really feel so very privalged to be a part of such an amazing support network!!!

[wishfull27]

Jen - so glad all went well with ET - got eveything crossed for you and sending lots of sticky baby dust your way xxx

[wishfull27]

Angie -you know where we all are when you need us - thinking of you and DH xxxx

[wishfull27]

Mia - hope all went well with ER - come on update us on how many they got!!!

[wishfull27]

Is there anyone there ????

[stephjim]

I am here Wishful!!!

[Welshgirl38]

Hey Angie hun ....

Lovely t hear from you. Totally understand ur need to refrain from us for a while - who can blame yuh - i want to refrain from me too sometimes lol. Seriously tho - we are here for you when u need us - you are a lovely lady who has so much to give - i really wish u didnt have to go thru all this, my love goes out to u and ur family, know that im thinking about u - take care hun xxxx

Ladies ....

I have a question. A friend of mine is having EC on Friday right, she has been on a short protocol, only been injecting for a week - she has 4 follies (with room for maybe more by Friday) but she has text me and asked me about her DH and weather or not he should - er how can i put this - have a jolly LOL (She used the 'W' word - honest lol) She said the last time he did was last weekend - so i told her that if he was gonna do it (or if she was gonna do it for him - either way i didnt want to go into too much detail u understand lol) that today should be the day as i thought that sperm was to be no more than 3 days old - so - should he or shouldnt he ... please vote below lol ..... really i am serious, she waiting on an anwser - i think he should .....

Becky xxx

[lara312]

Becky i agree with you we were told that so qucik text them back and tell him to do it today

How are you feeling hun hope the flu is getting better sorry you were spotting yesterday wish she could off for a few more days
love Rachel x x

[nimble]

Nimbe-That is awesome! Congrats. I am glad your power is on, now you wont freeze your Ta Ta's off.

Hope everyone else is keeping warm. I am in FL and it is pretty chilly too!!!

They've already fallen off with the cold

NOOOO don't say that - we are hoping to go to florida in March for some sun - ok, now I'm going to have to get regular updates from you before i get on my flt!!
nims x

[nimble]

Where do I send my letter of complaint to your electric company?????

And that is great news about the tests, but personally I think you are 1 in a million

Steph

Yes, they didn't realise that I was addicted to this site and that i started having withdrawl symptons!!

aaahhh I love you too!!

nims x

[squeezan]

Nims - Fantastic news about the results. Glad everything is going ok. How are you feeling?

OK, I read this book called the fertility diet so now I am trying to eat more plant-based protein. I am trying to put more variety in my diet instead of eating the same old things. The book also suggested FULL FAT milk & yogurt. It deals a lot with ovulatory dysfunction, not my issue, but it does say that this diet is good for all people trying to get pregnant. Anyone hear anything like this? Or any other good tips???

Yes I heard that low fat stuff wasn't good for ovultaion. I used it as an excuse to eat chocolate and icecream

Jen - Welcome back. Fantastic news! Been thinking of you loads.

Angie - Lovely to hear from you. Totally understand if you need a break. Just remember we are here when you need us and are thinking of you.


Love to everyone else
Su

[nimble]

Am back in England girls, staying over here one night at the in laws then off home tomorrow.

All went well, we now have two fab embies on board that survived the thaw, grade 10 and 7 with all cells in tact and developing nicely-----hope it continues Test date the 11th

Ok will catch up when i get home, away to put my feet up.

Love Jen x

Jen



Really pleased that it all went well for you - can't wait to see the BFP on the 11th!!!

Rest up

nims x

[lara312]

Jen glad et went well now lets keep pma up we are all behind you and all wiling them to stick for the next 9 months

Angie we all understand you need some time we are all here for you when you need us

Steph how is hell this week when will you know about the job and how is af treating you

Mia hope you got loads of lovley eggies

Chriss not long for you now hope you have loads of lovley follies growing

Wishfull how are things with you

Nims sorry you did not have any electric on the wkend glad your sorted now

Jayne how are you and the twins doing

Hope has af turned up yet or is she still being a *****

Hi to everyone i missed
Not much happening here expect bloody work have not paid me sick pay for the last 2 wks and have f****d it up again this week but thiink i sorted them out now stupid people i told the wages lady that i'm on maternity leave from next monday hope she was listening and hope this friday i get all the money they owe me how the hell do they expect people to manage with no money thats enough whinging from me
catch you all later
lots of love Rachel x x

[chriss]

Hi lovely ladies. Jen, excellent news! How was all that travel? Sounds like all went well. Fingers crossed for you!

Mia, still waiting to hear from ya.

Lara, thanks for the good wishes. My follies are hanging in there, I'm an oldie, so I don't get LOTS of follies. My first scan was a bit too early to tell much. I go back tomorrow and will definately know more. Hope you get all your MONEY!!!!

Su, how are you feeling mommy??? Yea, good excuses to eat full fat everything!! Yummy.

Becky, the timing sounds right, he should have his fun today. Then his stuff will be fresh for ET on Friday! My re says 2-5 days I think. We usually abstain two to three days before ET.

Great to hear from you ICSI. We know how hard it is. We're thinking of you and missing your silliness. Take care of yourself.

More later. -chriss

[nimble]

Hey Angie no need to apologise for not being around, it is completely understandable - we have all done it from time to time - we do miss you and will ready and waiting when you're ready to jump back in.

Mia - i guess with the time difference, you'll out for the count with legs in the air Hope the ER goes well, can't wait to hear how many lil eggies you got.

Becky - DH was told to 'clean his pipes' about 3 days before hand, however he hadn't doing much cleaning for a few weeks prior lol, but he had to do it on all of my cycles - so quick, tell her to get him 'cleaning' promptly!!

Su, yep feeling ok - how about you - do you get a cramps at all? Have had them alot today so my anxious radar has gone up again!!
oooohh, I've ordered some maternity clothes brochures today, can't wait as some of the clothes look so nice - did try a pair of jeans on sunday, but were far too big still even when did pull in the elastic - in that in between stage where not showing as pg but not fitting quite into my clothes! Come on bump, hurry up!!!

Rachel - how could they be so stupid and not pay you must make you mad - lets hope that the woman finally got the msg!!

nims xx