Hello everyone! Well, I am excited to say that today is my first day in the 2nd trimester (and you too, Marybeth)! Hmmm...then why am I feeling worse as the days go by? Makes no sense! I think I am just not sleeping well which is a huge part of the problem. I just seem to want to pee all night long! And I am typically one who can hold it for quite a while - not anymore! One other thing I wanted to tell you all about. I woke up last night around 3:30 a.m. with these terrible cramps....it really scared me. They just were not ones I had felt before unless AF was coming. Anyway, it took a while but they finally went away. Well, I had read something a few days ago that helped me not to freak out (MaryBeth - it was from that web site "What To Expect" that you sent me!) so I thought I would share. Anyway, here is what it said:
"For some women, one side effect of all this uterine growth is what amounts to pregnancy growing pains (known in the obstetrical business as "round ligament pain") — felt as achy or sharp pains on one or both sides of the abdomen. Here's why these pains in the abdomen happen: The uterus is supported by thick bands of ligaments that run from the groin up the side of the abdomen (like the lines of that high-cut bikini bottom you've probably had to pack away by now). As your uterus grows, the supporting ligaments stretch and thin out to accommodate the increasing weight. This weight pulls on the ligaments and causes a sharp pain or a dull ache in your lower abdomen. The pain is often more noticeable when you change positions suddenly or get up from sitting or lying down, or when you cough. Kicking up your feet (though not literally) and resting in a comfortable position usually brings relief".
So, there you have it in case any of you experience it! It is kind of scary if you don't know what might be causing it.
Marybeth - how are you doing?? I am excited to know you are starting to make plans for the nursery.

We are slowly starting that process. We sold the bedroom furniture in that room to a friend this weekend, so it is now EMPTY...which is weird.

We are definitely planning on finding out what we are having - no doubt about it! I can't wait to know - although I SOOO admire people who can wait! I guess not long after that, I am buying the crib.

I already have it picked out - it is a sleigh bed crib at Pottery Barn. Now, with that being said, that is probably if it is a girl (which I am kind of hoping for - hence my pink ticker!!!). If it is a boy, then we have another crib that I think might be better for a boy. The colors I like for a girl are pink and chocolate - there are some cute bedding styles in those colors! If it is a boy, I think we will go with blue/green/tan color combo....again, cute bedding in those colors. Yes, I am also a planner. Can't you tell?? The other issue we have to tackle is my 15 year old cat. Yes, my little kitty has decided over the last couple of years that if she needs to go to the bathroom, litter box will do sometimes and sometimes so will the carpet!!! I want to kill her sometimes. The problem is that "her room" as we call it is what will soon be the nursery. So, we get the lovely expense of having to rip out the carpet in a house we just built like 4 years ago and put in wood floors...which I am scared to find out how much that will cost! Uggghhhh
Dancinnancy - Before I forget, I have been chatting some with "itsgottawork" who if you and Marybeth remember was from our original IVF group. Anyway, she is starting another round right now and I am sure she could use all of our support again.

I just know this is going to work for her this time. I really do. Anyway, I am sure your nuchal scan will come back great. I really wasn't nervous about it which is surprising. We go for the 2nd part at 15 weeks. I also enjoyed the big screen to see the baby - although the tech was so rough with me and the baby!! It made it kind of tough to enjoy.
Seltzer - I am so sorry you are feeling poorly. I guess pregnancy affects everyone so differently. I am surprised how easy it has been for me so far, but geez - I am SOOO tired lately. I just feel like I am always dragging. I am sure it is tougher for you already having a child to care for - much tougher!! I am still gaining weight - WTF?? I am working out 5 days a week but I am now up 7 pounds since the day of the ET (Dec. 1st - I track it all the way back to that date). I think now I just look FAT! My next OB appt is the 7th and I am going to come up with all kinds of "issues" as to why I need an u/s. I am going to be one creative MoFo, let me tell you!!! I am going to have "cramps", "strange pressure down there", "weird tugging sensations"....let's see....what else? I am telling you - I am not leaving that place without an u/s!!!

Oh - and I do need to post some belly pics. I have one so far, but it always takes me forever to post anything like that!
Rebecca - Welcome back!!! I am so glad you had such a great vacation! That is awesome. I bet it was SO relaxing for you and your hubby!! How did your boss take the news of your pregnancy? My boss is really cool and even knew we were going through IVF so he has known since Day 1 that we were pregnant. He & I were pretty good friends from my prior employer before I got hired to work for him, so he has been awesome and so supportive. He even let me out of a couple of business trips while we were going through the process...and how sweet is this? He had his little girls adding me to their prayers at night that we would get pregnant!!! Isn't that so sweet? Oh - and you asked about nails growing quickly - it is my HAIR that is - OMG - like everywhere!!! Yikes!!!
Karen - So, did you spill the beans to the family at the bar-b-que??? We pretty much told all of our friends and family pretty early on and they have been a wonderful support network for us the whole way through. I feel very blessed. We never hid the IVF deal with anyone. I know some people do, but I just didn't care. I am thankful that medical science has gotten so advanced to help couples like us get pregnant, you know?

I congratulate you on wanting to wait to find out the sex of the baby! I guess me and Marybeth might be the only ones who can't wait!!!
Su - How are you holding up, girl?? It is cool you are starting to look pregnant! I went shopping for maternity clothes and left disappointed and disgusted at my options. I think I am just too picky. I need to get over that quickly or I won't have anything to wear - which would not be pretty right now!

When is your next u/s???
Shari - Was it you that asked me about the doppler we rented? Well, long story but come to find out that from weeks 9-12 or so, we were indeed listening to MY HEARTBEAT - not the baby's!!! The u/s tech at my old clinic showed me at our 12 week appt the vessels or whatever that run in that area that will give off my heartbeat and we all got a good laugh out of it. I said, "Screw it - it helped me to keep my sanity and think everything was ok during those few weeks"!!!! Anyway, NOW we found the baby's heartbeat and it is the coolest thing!!! He/she is right above the pubic bone area and finally I have the right heartbeat - it is around 154! Crazy....
Ok, sorry for the long post but wanted to say "hey" to everyone. I am going back to work.. Take care ladies!!!
Tina