beaner--really sorry to hear about your BFN

. I know how it is... Even if you think you have prepared for the worst, it's always difficult.
As for me, I was considering a 3rd and final opinion. Not necessarily to continue on paying for it myself, but more to make sure that the 2 other clinics did everything they could have done, and did all the tests, etc. thinking it would bring me closure. But, dh doesn't really say either way if it would be o.k. w/ him. So, I think his avoidance indicates that at the point he's not interested in pursuing anymore.
I have decided to try doing Chinese herbs and stick w/ the acupuncture. I do no really know if this will be helpful or if I am barking up the wrong tree, but I guess it won't hurt to try this. My best success to date has been conceiving naturally. Really, my only pregnancy was a natural one that ended in a misscarriage at 8-9 weeks (it wasn't etopic). This sort of medicine has been around for centuries, so since I won't be doing anything over the course of the next several months, I figured I would try it at least to put my mind at rest.
Good luck to the all of you.