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Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:16 pm

Angel505 wrote:
Only 3 months to settle in?

It was a long 3 mths lol

Angel505 wrote:Wow you and the girls are something! I see that Natasha takes after you then............................ in terms of popularity

Ooooo flattery will get u everywhere

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:20 pm

Oh an can i say also, that we had been comming back an fo here for 4 years (the girls too) so they knew their way around the place and knew Brians family etc - it was just school an making new friends that was the hardest for them ... as i suppose it wud be for any teenager, but i am proud of them, they coped really well, dont know if i wud have done so good given the circumstances ...

When we got married (2 yrs after living here) they were our bridesmaids and Gemma stood up and told everyone how the both of them love Brian as their dad, and how much he has stood by them since he was in their lives and how glad she is we are now a family as it was plain to see that Brian an i were made for each other ... an she also said how hard it was for her and her sister to move, but that now it flet like they belong here and have been here all their lives, and they had Brian an his family to thank for it - trust me there wasnt a dry tear in the house - even the minister stood up and commended her on her speech ... summit i'll never ever forget

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:45 pm

Thats sweet........sounds like Brian's not only good for you, he's good for the girls too. I know you've said it before. You are one lucky lady to have found someone like that

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:46 pm

ICSI - COME OUT!!!!

Have you heard from the nurse yet?

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:53 pm

Angel505 wrote:Thats sweet........sounds like Brian's not only good for you, he's good for the girls too. I know you've said it before. You are one lucky lady to have found someone like that

He's not always that perfect mind hun ... he farts and belches and does stuff to piss me off at times too lol ...

But, saying that ....

We are all lucky ladies to have found our men

An they are most luckiest to have found US

An yes ICSI where the devil are u, my boss is away .... now come out to play

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:06 pm

Welshgirl38 wrote: He's not always that perfect mind hun ... he farts and belches and does stuff to piss me off at times too lol ...

But, saying that ....

We are all lucky ladies to have found our men

An they are most luckiest to have found US

Was just telling off DH yesterday for farting (something about men watching football) and he blamed it on me saying its the stuff I cook for him

. Do you have the Euro cup mania at your place too? I may as well talk to the walls at that point. But yes, you're right, they are SOO lucky to have found us

beachbaby · Post by **beachbaby** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:12 pm

Hi ladies, sounds like your all moving along nicely.

Angie, wow can't wait for the second beta today, those Zita west pills really work. Got everything crossed for you. hang in there.
had to laugh at your perception of the Uk, i know its small, but still quite a travelling distance. I would be around a 4 hour car drive from Angel. But we all need to either fly or go by ferry to visit becky. And my nearest arport is 1 1/2hrs drive.

Angel, Sorry your bloods still came back with problems, hope the dietician can work their magic on you. If you can afford it, i would reccomend accupuncture now also as it can help with stress, mine also treat me for infertility whilst i was on my break from treatment. I was lucky in that my DH was having accu for his back and he asked if he could help with fertility, found out it was his speciality and does quite a lot, he is also a part time midwife.

Becky, glad your appointment went well with your old clinic. sounds like they have put together a great plan for you. Not surprised at his reaction to the other clinic, seems quite a few of the NHS clinics treat everyone the same at the same time instead of accomodating everyone individually to their needs. When we get such limited chances its disgusting that they are allowed to waste the treatments.

Wishful, glad you had a lovely break away, you sound in great spirits, can't believe you have lost so much weight since christmas, your an inspiration to us all. Good luck with the scan on Friday. Sorry i'm late in replying yes DSiL had a baby boy 2 weeks ago, 1 day early by c-section in the end, he is absolutely gorgeous and looking forward to meeting his cousins.

As for me, doing ok, got some nice sexy thigh length anti embolism stockings for my swollen legs, bright white and nylon, very comfortable in this heat!! and i have to wear them 24/7, oh the joys, so glad its cooler today.see consultant next Friday when he will make decisions regarding the birth, fingers crossed i can go naturally. Gotto go put these legs up.
catch you all later.
Jayne

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:13 pm

FOOTIE!!!!!!!!!!!!

No ... not in my house thank god! Brian doesnt like the footie - he's a rugby man (only world cup & six nations) which i dont mind cos i like that myself.... he's not really into any sports as such - but he watches every Top Gear, and Mythbusters and Ray Mears sort of programmes ... i'd much prefer easties, corrie and Emmerdale myself

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:19 pm

Hey Jayne xxx

How u doing honey? Silly question really, as u've just told us lol ... sorry to hear u have to wear those sexy stockings - so do u have to wear them right up until the birth?? So u want to go natural with twins ... dunno if i wud have the nerve for that mind u ..... one was bad enough lol. So if he gets to make decision on Friday about the birth - does this mean u will know when ur date is going to be ... cos if he says its a C-section, u will get a date yes??? Oooo more babies to coo over .... let us know as soon as u can hun ... an get those feet up

i dunno eh? You've gotten pregnant and ur lstill legs up and laughing

ICSI GIRL · Post by **ICSI GIRL** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:23 pm

sorry girls -- had some work to tend to...........

afraid i'm out this round -- again

i quite literally JUST hung up the phone w/ nurse.......my levels have fallen to 154.......amazingly enough --- i'm "ok"...........guess i've become so damn numb to this whole process that it seems like just another day -- just another phone call........ so very sad that it has come to that.........atleast on a good note --- it does give me hope that it could happen again next month!!! (lovely -- another bfp turned bfn -- just what i need!!!) kidding.....only meaning that its THE closest we've ever been w/ a natural cycle if you get my meaning..... so maybe my hubby's swimmers just need another few weeks before they're REALLY ready for the "real thing" -- ha, ah!!!

thanks for all your thoughts....your support.....as always --- all of your well wishes!!! i swear i wouldn't be able to make it thru most days w/out you guys

beachbaby · Post by **beachbaby** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:28 pm

I'm still here, can't believe in the time it took me to write my post you lot had added another page plus some, although DH did ring me in the middle of it all.

Becky, yep got to keep them on all the way, probably afer too for a few daystill all the swelling goes down, as they help keep the blood flowing, plus with me being higher risk for DVT's no chance of getting rid. OOh your long distance love affair sounded beautiful.

Angie, if you look on angels map, and find York (north east) follow the road to the east coast thats where i live. My house is a five minute walk to the beach and i have a park with glen and lake just across the road.

speak soon
jayne

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:30 pm

ICSI

Hun, i dont know what to say .... im so dam sorry this is happening! Is there any reason they know of as to why this has happened for the 2nd time?? As u say tho, u know DH's swimmers are getting better at it - they just need a practise run ... and u went naturally this time!
I know its not gonna make things better, did u tell DH after? If u didnt and ur feeling suckish, then maybe now u should. Give it a few days and u might be feeling shit again, so he will need to know why ur feeling like this. I dont want u to go thru all that again on ur own ya know?
If u really feel that u cant tell him, then u KNOW that u can come here to us any time - i know i havent got on here much lately (todays an exception as boss is away) but i do try most days, u have always been here for me and i want to be here for u too ... Angel is never off her puter, so u know u have somewhere to come - im so sorry sweetie - this dam crap sucks

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:33 pm

beachbaby wrote: My house is a five minute walk to the beach and i have a park with glen and lake just across the road.

Ahhh this is why u call urself beachbaby .... if i was to name my name after somewhere i lived near - i wud be called ....

Becca Green Grass - cos i live in the country/sticks lol

ICSI GIRL · Post by **ICSI GIRL** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:44 pm

jayne --- i'm SO jealous of your sexy stockings!!!

hang in there sweetie ----- not long before you get to meet your little ones and all of the sexy stocking wearing will have all been worth it!!!! i really AM jealous of your 5 min walk to the beach!!! oh your lil ones are gonna be beach bums!!!

becca -- as always, thanks hun...........i really can't explain "why" -- but it just really is ok.....i'm ok with it.........like i said - atleast now i know we CAN do it!!! so we'll see.........i don't think i'll tell dh about it..... maybe if i get to feeling shit about any of it --- then MAYBE....but otherwise, nahhhhh.............don't want him to feel disappointed when i really don't so much -- ya know???? does that sound completely stupid???

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:52 pm

It doesnt sound stupid at all hun ... just sounds like ur being very brave an strong about it, and i commend u for that ....

So, if u live near a lake - can we start calling u Angie the lady of the lake, and Angel can be called ??(what u want to be called hun - hope u dont live too close to the M1 lol)

We are - The Three Lady Musketeers ...

One for all - an all for one

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