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[Welshgirl38]

Haafternoon Ladiessssss

How the devil are u all??? Sorry its taken all day to log on, but ive had loads to catch up on at work ... My weekend went great with Andrea, altho i could have been better, but the 'bug' had other ideas but we made the best of it an it was great to catch up with some girlie chats (mostly about tmt an babies lol an men!!!! - great weekend lol) Im feeling a bit better today, i havent eaten properly since Tuesday night - i cant wait to weigh, i hope ive lost a few lbs

Carolyn So sorry i wasnt here to congratulate u when u got ur eggs - but im here to congratulate u on being PUPO and getting 2 perfect embies put back ... well done hun - i hope ur resting up an chilling out as much as possible. Ooooooo how exciting, when do u test (sorry if u already said, im having some really bad blonde moments lately lolol) Sending u lots of love an hugs Xxxxx

ICSI How come u always get the wonderfull BCCABOHKGHFUFAFT u make me sick!!!!!!! Sounds like u had a brill weekend - isnt it just brill when u get one like that an u fall back in love all over again - awww i do love those moments ... xxx

Angel Hello sweetie, hows u? How is the diet going? Mine is pretty good, but trust me its only cos ive had the bad bug ... i bet u it will all go back on as soon as my appitite comes back lol. Hope ur ok hun xxx

Mir Hello you I do hope ur headache clears up soon hun .. there is nothing worse ... I am feeling slightly better thanks hun, not my usual 100% but im getting there xxxx

Hope Wow - a horney pg woman lol - its not often u get many of those - is there??? I cant remember when i was pg if i was horney or not - but im sure i wasnt lol. I hope i do be this time tho - it be great fun hehe Hopeur resting up an taking things easy - even if it is laying on ur back xxxx

Chriss Xxxx how are u hun Xxxxx

Hello to everyone else, thinking about u all - but its nearly hometime an Brian is comming to lift me from work ... i cant wait to get home, im knackered - but at least Monday work is OVER - yippieeeeeeeeee - i hate Mondays, i hate them, i hate them, i hate them!!!!!

Love to u all, as always

Becky Xxxx

[ICSI GIRL]

you guys found our beck!!!!! hiya beck!! nice to see ya girl...... sounds like you had fab time w/ your girlfriend -- i love those kind of weekends also sounds as if you're going to have a KILLER weigh in as well!!! gotta love it when an illness is what knocks the lbs off!!!

carolyn --- YEAH!!! IT'S OFFICIAL......OUR PUPO MOMMA!!!!!!!!!! you take care of them babies -- got it?? *****LOTS OF STICKY BABY DUST*****

angel.......hi hun yes, i will only be working 4 days a week!!! am so excited......only certain parts of the company that i work for is able to offer this type of schedule and i'm one of the lucky ones!!! my drive to work is about 25-30 minutes from my house to my office.....but will surely save me gas money and i don't know if gas is anything over there like it is over here but -- OMG price just keeps going up and up!!! not sure about my playtime out here on fridays....will highly depend on getting my computer fixed at home (which - i've vowed not to do cuz of my dss thinking it serves his personal interest in online PORN!!!! damn teenage boy!).....or if i have my work laptop home w/ me and i sometimes hate to do that cuz then eventhough i'm not technically "working" -- my boss uses it as an open door to communicate -- so i try to just leave it at work unless absolutely necessary!!!

mir -- sorry to hear about your headache even sorrier to hear about dh being gone ALL WEEK????? whats up with that?? will it be this way every week??? i'm not so sure i'd like that very much.....although - there are times when i'd surely love it -- like when dh is being mr. crab-ass!!! ha, ha!! hope you're feeling better girl.....

who did i miss??? well, HELLO TO EVERYBODY!!!!!!! once again, must run as the boss is calling!!!

[beachbaby]

Hi Ladies,

Carolyn, Congratulations on being PUPO, 2 great sounding embies on board for you there. take it easy and keep the PMA.

Sorry ladies, missed quite a few pages, but sounds like your all having fun out there, especially Angie!!! Will try to keep up to date but find sitting at computer very uncomfortable, and DH has laptop at work.
My mum and dad came back from Spain last night, so they are here ready, they stay with my sis, so will see them later, just waiting for midwife to turn up for another blood pressure check!! I have 10 more days before i will be induced (yikes). So hope something happens soon.

catch you all later
jayne

[Welshgirl38]

Oh my Jayne,

10 more days an u will finally meet ur babies, how cool is that!!! I bet ur so excited, an also about getting this over with. being pregnant with 1 is bad enough let alone 2 lol ... i hope ur rsting up well, it good to know ur mum is here with u - i bet they cant wait either .... at least its cooled down a bit an its not too warm for u ... keep us informed hun take care an put those aching feet up ... hugs xxxxx

Hello all u other lovely ladies - whats happened! U moan im not here an when i am - u all hide on me i no like hide n seek - come out this instance!!!!!!!!!

Xxxx

[Angel505]

Hey all you lovelies…how are you all today?

Carolyn, are you resting up? Talk and sing (well ok maybe not) to your embies and tell them to snuggle in. Do I remember correctly that you are on leave up to your test day? Sending lots of cyber love to your embies…..

Mir, has the headache subsided now? Poor you. I'm sure not having DH around made the headache worse. Being away from each other all week can't be easy but keep on reminding yourself its all for your baby. Feel better soon.

Becky - are you still not completely well? Glad that didn't stop you from having a fab time with your friend. Bet you feel much better after having spoken to someone about all your feelings about tmt. When I try to talk to anyone and explain how it sometimes makes me feel, I often get told to be stronger and deal with it.

Angie - you've got to get your home comp fixed. Can you not just block your DSS from using the porn sites? I'm sure it can be done. That way, you can sweetly tell them that the computer is fixed then when they try to sneakily get on those websites, it won't let them………..sounds evil I know, but also very funny.

Jayne - have your parents come to help you? Bless them, that’s so sweet. You will have your hands full though. Have you done all the paperwork for your business now? Hope the midwife appt goes well. Can't wait to hear your news.

Hope - Come back girl, or did you finally get some action and that’s why you are exhausted? See, trust the queen of BCABB to give you ideas about doing it in the living room and not going to your room. Your DH should be pleased with this part of your pg hormones.

Chriss - thinking of you. You planning to do anything nice in your summer hols (besides tmt)? Dunno about there but the weather here is lovely this week, and I hate being indoors!!!

Getting busier at work. Typical isn't it - nice weather and suddenly more work. Bit peeved off with MIL at the moment. She is fully aware of the fact that I've been feeling run down, that the doc has advised rest and therapy to help me relax, busy schedule at work……..etc, and she seems to be asking more of me. DH tells her no directly so she will call me at work and then sends me on a guilt trip with all the emotional crap. Just because I try to get on with my routine doesn't mean that the whole IF thing doesn't bother me. Why can people understand its always going to be there. Its difficult enough waiting, and some days are worse when things happen like others pushing their babies to your face. One of her friends once said that "these young girls today are more interested in their career than family" in response to me not having any kids . She knows how that affected me, she felt bad too for me. But she forgets all that when she needs something. I got so overwhelmed with the things I need to get done in the next 3 days both at work and at home that I broke down into tears at work today. Luckily the one person in at that time couldn't see me. Have just got a call from her again while typing this cause she has visitors and can't cope apparently so want me to go to hers and help her............obviously I have all the time in the world.

[Angel505]

Sorry for the rant, but I know you will understand how overwhelming things can get when people expect you to get on with normal life with loads of enthusiasm when you don't feel capable of it.

[wishfull27]

Oh Angel honey .. you tell her your cyber buddies say take a running jump .. I don't think anyone, apart from someone who is going through or dealt personally with IF can ever understand how we feel .. or even begin to.. you have to be selfish on this one and think of number one and Dh of course - you need to be in the right place physically and mentally for your next cycle .. and running to help her will not help with that.

Have been talking to the embies but not singing - that would scare them too much - although at weekend was reminiscing (sp???) about childhood and me and 3 friends use to sing in church choir - none of us can sing at all and we use to do it cos got £10 to sing at a wedding - in the early 80's that was mega wonga - but how many wedding videos must be ruined with our dulcet tones - also one of the friends so wanted to learn to sing properely that a couple of years ago her DH paid for some singing lessons for her - after the first session the tutor told her she was wasting her money

Keep your chin up - in between resting, watching crappy TV - although Jeremy Kyle was ok today and reading trashy book I will be around all day !!

Sending you big hugss honey (((((()))))))

Carolyn xxx

[Welshgirl38]

Aw Angel hun

Big Hugzzz ..... I too know how MIL's can be when it comes to things like this. Let me tell u now, no one - NO ONE - but a person who has had tmt can understand how it feels for us. I sometimes think that we/they live in a different world - them against us so to speak... they think that if we are on our knees crying, then we need to wise up that its not the end of the world, but yet if we are smiling an getting on with things - they seem to think we are 'over it' an that it doesnt bother us no more!!

I sometimes think that if they arnet talking about it - then they have forgotten all about it, but i havent an it still hurts when i sit an think about it, altho that sick feeling an the soreness inside isnt there no more, i no longer burst into tears when i think about how it might have been - i just feel sad when i do. Maybe they dont mention it for fear of me feeling sad, an cos i look to be coping to the outside world, then i must be right!!! Wrong!!

I think its just them hun - not us - we have our own elite club look where we can come an be us - an moan about them lol - i wonder where they go to moan about us???

You rant as much as u feel like hun, an u tell her when u cant cope with things that she has to stop putting on you ... try an be gentle about it, if that doesnt work - get DH to tell her promptly!

[wishfull27]

well then Becks - when was the weigh in ???? you are keeping very quiet on this one ??

Glad you had fab weekend with andrea and illness did not spoil it too much and you had some good girly gossip xx

have you decided when will start next cycle yet??

xx

[wishfull27]

Icsi - so you are making up for lost time with all this BACCAb action - I think that in the middle of this whole IVF thing we become so absorbed in time of cycle, ovulation etc that it often takes the fun out of it -0 but sure sounds like you are making up for us all .. bet DH is loving it

You must get home computer fixed how can you not talk to us on a friday, saturday and sunday ???

carolyn xx

[wishfull27]

Mir - hope the head is better - do you think it was stress and winding yourself up about DH being away with new job ???

We can console each other - my DH works away 3 nights per week - at first I hated it but with nice light evenings i quite like the extra space and not to mention tidy house - I would rather have him here but needs must at momnet - we can keep each other company in evenings- DH went this morning at 4am and wont be back till friday pm so with not being at work I have loads of spare time!!

Take care honey - rememebr he is doing it to help achieve your dreams xxx

Carolyn xx

[Welshgirl38]

I havent been to weigh in hun - there is one tonight but i don think im going - i know i should really but i dont think there will be much change on the scales no more.

My body feels like AF is about to start, i actually started spotting on Friday for 2 days, but seen nothing since!! After having such a bad bug an dosing up on imodem tablets - im now constipated so scales at home are showing same as they were 2 weeks ago now

But weekend was great ho, i laffed at u reminissing (sp??) with ur friends - Andrea an i were like that at the weekend (i've known her for 38 years, we grew up next door to each other) an we talked about 'the olden days' haha while Brian an DD were about to hang themselves, they had a kind of glazed over look about on their faces while we giggled (sober as judges) about us as kids lol .... i enjoyed

Am thinking about going again on next AF (not this one thats due in a day or so) but really need to get cracking on weigh problem - i wasnt told to lose it, i just want to for my own piece of mind, but its so hard hun ... im starving at mo an all i want to do is eat lol ...

[wishfull27]

oh hon - I think you should go becuase if not you may go off track even more esp with AF due - do waht if you have a little gain - in the scale of things its nothing - and at least next week with AF out the way adn been good you should have a good loss

So pleased you had a good wekend x

Think Angel must be too busy to play now today

[Welshgirl38]

Maybe i will go then - just to see how much ive put on - so i can get back into it again .... yes, thats what i'll do Thanks hun xxx
How are u feeling anyhow - i hope ur taking things easy young lady!!!!

I cant stop yawning today either, im shattered - think this bug knocked the stuffing out of me - i need more time off work to make up for it lol

[wishfull27]

i'm not too bad thanks - just feel bloated and need a good poo (sorry tmi)

Am taking it easy and resting - need to goo for a little walk to get blood circulating - remebmber someone telling you to keep you tummy warm so am sat with dressing gown wrapped round my belly sweating buckets cos its soo warm - am prepared to try anything that may help - was it pineapple too - fresh or juice ??

Good for you going tonight - you can do it cos you want to

xx