I do hate it when your boss makes you work
Tell him your friends across the pond have told him to sod off. Even better if he doesn't understand what that means.
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Welshgirl38
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Awwwwwwww and lots of BCAWBOW (ok so i don know how u say it - so just lots of sex then lol)Angel505 wrote: I am going to go home and give him a big hug and tell him I love him.
Think i mite just do the same
Miricle, Hiya hun Xxxxx Hows you? Busy Busy at work .... dont u just hate it when work keeps u away from all this
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP
m/c @ 8 wks 
4 IVF=BFNWe must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Adoption course starts March 19th
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Cant help it - im a slapper
Hey, did u know that the people who talk about it never get it - an the people who dont talk about it - are at it like rabbits hahahaha .... so flopsy how u doing this afternoon
Xxxxxxxx1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP
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LOL you guys are funny!!! We're the living proof that you can always look at the bright side! Make-up sex, what a nice thing, you lucky girls!
seriously, Angel, Becky, I understand your situation. I don't think there's a single woman on this forum who can say she never snapped at her husband/partner (or worse!!!) during this roller coaster ride. Any couples therapist will tell you... the fact couples quarrel sometimes is not a bad sign at all. In fact, it's the way you repair after the fights, the way you just go back to your partner, discuss things more calmly, and then find back that complicity that really tells you if your couple is healthy or not. And from what I've heard from you girls, there's no problem at all!
But as I said, I understand you... it's hard not to look at them and be a bit resentful that we're the ones who have to do all the hard work. Everything is happening in OUR body and we can't help but be 100 times more aware of every detail whereas they keep forgetting what meds you're taking at the moment and exactly when is the next apt? And what will it be again??? Sometimes, it's easy to mistake that for husbands not caring about what's going on. But I think it's just plain too abstract for them. That doesn't mean they're not *there* during the whole process, maybe not there for each and every detail... and that's why this forum is SO helpful!!
Becky, how is DD adapting to college?? and you???
Miracle,
SORRY about the scare! When will the inventory be over??? Soon I hope!!! hang in there and eat lots of chocolate!
Okay, a little about me. First of all, the diluted pink spotting was very stable during early evening, and then nothing during the evening and night and morning. In a word, it has stopped completely. I had strange abdominal pain, but I think it's due to the adherences (surgeries).
It was my doctor this morning, which was fantastic!!! We always get a special treatment (which means he's empathic and nice) because he knows my father and his wife. We did the ultrasound... and we found a sac with a yolk... and a fetal pole!!! So sorry to disappoint some people, but I'm not expecting twins! But this is fantastic news all the same. The doctor measured the sac and I measure about 1 day less than I thought, so around 5 weeks 2 days. He said I could come for the ultrasound as planned next Monday to check the heartbeat. We didn't find any, of course, but we didn't expect to find any. He really took the time to check everything, even went back to check for my cyst, which had developped before the FET. The cyst is gone and my ovary is in sleep mode. He found absolutely no trace of hematoma or bleeding of any kind anywhere. He printed two copies of the ultrasound, with the measures, and gave it to us... one for DH, one for me!
So my dearest friends, this is better news than I was even hoping for. Yesterday, I reread the posts I made on the November Mommies thread... and I was wrong. I thought my miscarriage epic had started with pink spotting... but in fact it started with a gush of bright red blood and pain so intense that I was often bent in two and moaning. The bleeding stopped the first day, and became brown and pinkish, hence my confusion... but then the pain and severe bleeding came back... and some of you know the rest of the story. And all doctors saw a big hematoma behind the sac right away, hence the bleeding. This time, the doctor saw absolutely nothing abnormal.
So the fact I can't even compare my current situation to what happened last time is a HUGE relief and it changes things a lot for me. Now this little scare does not feel like I'm heading down the same route I took last time, and this makes a huge difference in my attitude. Funny enough, my best friend, who is 3 weeks ahead of me, called me this morning... and she had a pink discharge on Sunday and completely freaked out!!! But it has stopped completely the same day and nothing for the last two days. She spotted after a very long walk with the dogs (1:30). So we reassured each other a lot and from now on we'll just be a bit more careful.
which means I'll stop carrying heavy grocery bags around... Being a psychologists who sits down most of the day I won't really make changes in my lifestyle, but I'll just generally take it easy. And no make-up sex for me!
So there you go. I can't express how amazing your support was these last 24 hours, and I really want to thank you!!! *HUGS* You girls are the best!!!
Kisses,
Sophie xxox
seriously, Angel, Becky, I understand your situation. I don't think there's a single woman on this forum who can say she never snapped at her husband/partner (or worse!!!) during this roller coaster ride. Any couples therapist will tell you... the fact couples quarrel sometimes is not a bad sign at all. In fact, it's the way you repair after the fights, the way you just go back to your partner, discuss things more calmly, and then find back that complicity that really tells you if your couple is healthy or not. And from what I've heard from you girls, there's no problem at all!
But as I said, I understand you... it's hard not to look at them and be a bit resentful that we're the ones who have to do all the hard work. Everything is happening in OUR body and we can't help but be 100 times more aware of every detail whereas they keep forgetting what meds you're taking at the moment and exactly when is the next apt? And what will it be again??? Sometimes, it's easy to mistake that for husbands not caring about what's going on. But I think it's just plain too abstract for them. That doesn't mean they're not *there* during the whole process, maybe not there for each and every detail... and that's why this forum is SO helpful!!
Becky, how is DD adapting to college?? and you???
Miracle,
SORRY about the scare!
When will the inventory be over??? Soon I hope!!! hang in there and eat lots of chocolate! Okay, a little about me. First of all, the diluted pink spotting was very stable during early evening, and then nothing during the evening and night and morning. In a word, it has stopped completely. I had strange abdominal pain, but I think it's due to the adherences (surgeries).
It was my doctor this morning, which was fantastic!!! We always get a special treatment (which means he's empathic and nice) because he knows my father and his wife. We did the ultrasound... and we found a sac with a yolk... and a fetal pole!!! So sorry to disappoint some people, but I'm not expecting twins!
But this is fantastic news all the same. The doctor measured the sac and I measure about 1 day less than I thought, so around 5 weeks 2 days. He said I could come for the ultrasound as planned next Monday to check the heartbeat. We didn't find any, of course, but we didn't expect to find any. He really took the time to check everything, even went back to check for my cyst, which had developped before the FET. The cyst is gone and my ovary is in sleep mode. He found absolutely no trace of hematoma or bleeding of any kind anywhere. He printed two copies of the ultrasound, with the measures, and gave it to us... one for DH, one for me!So my dearest friends, this is better news than I was even hoping for. Yesterday, I reread the posts I made on the November Mommies thread... and I was wrong. I thought my miscarriage epic had started with pink spotting... but in fact it started with a gush of bright red blood and pain so intense that I was often bent in two and moaning. The bleeding stopped the first day, and became brown and pinkish, hence my confusion... but then the pain and severe bleeding came back... and some of you know the rest of the story. And all doctors saw a big hematoma behind the sac right away, hence the bleeding. This time, the doctor saw absolutely nothing abnormal.
So the fact I can't even compare my current situation to what happened last time is a HUGE relief and it changes things a lot for me. Now this little scare does not feel like I'm heading down the same route I took last time, and this makes a huge difference in my attitude. Funny enough, my best friend, who is 3 weeks ahead of me, called me this morning... and she had a pink discharge on Sunday and completely freaked out!!! But it has stopped completely the same day and nothing for the last two days. She spotted after a very long walk with the dogs (1:30). So we reassured each other a lot and from now on we'll just be a bit more careful.
which means I'll stop carrying heavy grocery bags around... Being a psychologists who sits down most of the day I won't really make changes in my lifestyle, but I'll just generally take it easy. And no make-up sex for me! So there you go. I can't express how amazing your support was these last 24 hours, and I really want to thank you!!! *HUGS* You girls are the best!!!
Kisses,
Sophie xxox
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN
Now let's spend the rest of our lives having fun together!
Now let's spend the rest of our lives having fun together!
Hugs back at ya Sophie!!!!
Yay!!! you can relax now and know that this is not a repeat episode but the beanie is here to stay. He/ She must have had a waft of all that yummy cooking and decided to have some more .
I so totally forgot we had our own phsychologist on board. Yiippeeeeeee......are you prepared to give us freebie sessions????
I do totally understand that we all snap at our partners and a little bit of resentment is natural. I guess what just gets to me is that I have such an episode, then I feel guilty as its not his fault, then I become calmer for a few months, then at some point that anger returns again. Its the repitition of something the same mistake that winds me up.
Was all set to take up detective Becky's suggestion but DH is going out with the boys tonight, and I probably won't be awake when he gets back. But I did call him and he was ok with it all, so I feel better now................................until the next round
Yay!!! you can relax now and know that this is not a repeat episode but the beanie is here to stay. He/ She must have had a waft of all that yummy cooking and decided to have some more
. I so totally forgot we had our own phsychologist on board. Yiippeeeeeee......are you prepared to give us freebie sessions????
I do totally understand that we all snap at our partners and a little bit of resentment is natural. I guess what just gets to me is that I have such an episode, then I feel guilty as its not his fault, then I become calmer for a few months, then at some point that anger returns again. Its the repitition of something the same mistake that winds me up.
Was all set to take up detective Becky's suggestion but DH is going out with the boys tonight, and I probably won't be awake when he gets back. But I did call him and he was ok with it all, so I feel better now................................until the next round
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Welshgirl38
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WeeeeeHeeeeeee
Sophie, thats brill news hunnie So pleased everything is working out allright .... your Dr sounds great, and u have a scan pic for u an for DH ... brill - really happy for u hun Xxxxx
Angel: No sex for u tonight then??? Awwww, never mind, the make up sex will be better tomorrow anyhow, an by the time ur DH comes home tonight, weather u be asleep or not, he will love the cotton little socks off u, they all dow hen they're drunk lol ....
As for my argument with DH, it wasnt even about tmt lol, it was about DD an her limitations - he feels she takes too much advantage, i feel she a teenager an is only doing what teenagers do. Dont get me wrong, he not the wicked step dad or anything like that, he is far from it, he just worries about her an lets me know an i feel im stuck in the middle - standing by her, an standing by him - its hard being piggie in the middle trying for the quiet life. So it all came out, I shouted, i slamed doors, i sobbed uncontrolable (this has been on an off for the past 2 weeks an by Monday i had had enough an broke down) - then i calmed down felt like a dick lol .... i totally understand his point, an he understands mine an DD's (Jeeze she going to Uni in 2 weeks anyhow) maybe that is what this is all about - he getting more an more concerned that she going, and so am i, an we just hiped up an taking it out on each other - hmmm sounds about right - wot do u think ladies?????
Sophie, thats brill news hunnie
So pleased everything is working out allright .... your Dr sounds great, and u have a scan pic for u an for DH ... brill - really happy for u hun XxxxxAngel: No sex for u tonight then??? Awwww, never mind, the make up sex will be better tomorrow anyhow, an by the time ur DH comes home tonight, weather u be asleep or not, he will love the cotton little socks off u, they all dow hen they're drunk lol ....
As for my argument with DH, it wasnt even about tmt lol, it was about DD an her limitations - he feels she takes too much advantage, i feel she a teenager an is only doing what teenagers do. Dont get me wrong, he not the wicked step dad or anything like that, he is far from it, he just worries about her an lets me know an i feel im stuck in the middle - standing by her, an standing by him - its hard being piggie in the middle trying for the quiet life. So it all came out, I shouted, i slamed doors, i sobbed uncontrolable (this has been on an off for the past 2 weeks an by Monday i had had enough an broke down) - then i calmed down
felt like a dick lol .... i totally understand his point, an he understands mine an DD's (Jeeze she going to Uni in 2 weeks anyhow) maybe that is what this is all about - he getting more an more concerned that she going, and so am i, an we just hiped up an taking it out on each other - hmmm sounds about right - wot do u think ladies?????1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP
m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFNWe must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Adoption course starts March 19th
Hey Becky!
I think you hit the nail on the head with your conclusion. I think you both are stressing over her going to school and you both don't know how to deal with it. I am sure once she is there, and you both see she is fine it will get better. I am sure that is a big leap for parents. It is hard on you guys. It will get easier.
Angel love!! How is your day?
I think you hit the nail on the head with your conclusion. I think you both are stressing over her going to school and you both don't know how to deal with it. I am sure once she is there, and you both see she is fine it will get better. I am sure that is a big leap for parents. It is hard on you guys. It will get easier.
Angel love!! How is your day?
Becky,
The one thing that strikes me as an outsider is that DH cares about DD just as much as you do. He wants to do whats best for her, and doesn't care if he has to be the "bad cop" so to speak. That is an admirable quality and when you discuss things, you should let him know that - before you come to the bit about explaining how she's just a normal teenager if she's driving you up the wall.
So says the person who can't even understand her own feelings
The one thing that strikes me as an outsider is that DH cares about DD just as much as you do. He wants to do whats best for her, and doesn't care if he has to be the "bad cop" so to speak. That is an admirable quality and when you discuss things, you should let him know that - before you come to the bit about explaining how she's just a normal teenager if she's driving you up the wall.
So says the person who can't even understand her own feelings
Awww....thanks for the hug Mir.
Really needed that.
Gues what I just did? Remember all the work issues that have been stressing me out? Well, things just got worse. I was so upset and tired and frustrated. I've been working 10 hour days in a trot and nothing to show for it. So at 3.30, when someone turned around to ask me the 1000th question of the day (in spite of everything being in writing - some people are sooooo lazy
), I got up and gave him the answer while packing up and just walked out of the door - I just said a general bye to everyone, ans "see u tomorrow". My team's expression was like 
It just felt soooo good. Am at home right now thinking about something nice to cook.
Really needed that.
Gues what I just did? Remember all the work issues that have been stressing me out? Well, things just got worse. I was so upset and tired and frustrated. I've been working 10 hour days in a trot and nothing to show for it. So at 3.30, when someone turned around to ask me the 1000th question of the day (in spite of everything being in writing - some people are sooooo lazy
), I got up and gave him the answer while packing up and just walked out of the door - I just said a general bye to everyone, ans "see u tomorrow". My team's expression was like It just felt soooo good. Am at home right now thinking about something nice to cook.