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beachbaby
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Post by beachbaby »

Hi Ladies,

Becky, don't give up, get that PMA back as wishful says you read this all the time, it's too soon to know the outcome. Take it easy and hang in there.

Carolyn, glad you had a nice break with your mum, sorry your back to full time work though.

Rachel, so pleased the scan went well and all is ok with baby.

Hope al you ladies in the US had a good thanksgiving. Enjoy your long weekend.

Hi to all i've missed, in a rush as at work.

I had a lovely night away with DH, we also took a few extra days off work and got some jobs done around the house. Babies doing great, we are weaning at the moment which is fun.

catch you all soon
Jayne
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Post by PMApsy »

Hello ladies,

Just a quickie for me!

becky,

Oh hun, I'm so sorry your body is giving you those big scares! But so many nurses told me that the ladies who come to the clinic on the pregnancy test day are the most convinced they're about to get AF... are the pregnant ones! You've shown such a good PMA so far... I know, it's been quite a marathon for you these last few months. It's impossible to stay strong all the time, so do cry if you feel you need to, and do feel discouraged. But please don't assume it's over yet. Even if you bleed, you could still be pregnant. PIO is known to cause cramps, really bad cramps in some cases. Only the test will tell you which way this is really heading. I hope you have a better day and can find nice things to keep you busy and away from sad thoughts. *HUGS*

Angie,
Hehehehe thanks for giving me an update about your situation, I'm now on the same page as the others! ;) To me, it's no big deal that your DH is 20 years older. It's even common on this website, because hey it's a reality! I can understand his uneasiness about being the provider though. Many younger men still have that mentality and will have trouble adjusting to their partners earning more than they do. Has he considered seeing a psychologist? You don't have to wait until you're REALLY in trouble psychologically to seek help. Sometimes it just takes a few sessions in a place where you can express yourself and be taught a skill or two, or just given a new way to look at things and voilà!

Miracle,
Hey, sunshine! You're back it seems! :D How are you doing? Anything fun planned for the weekend? Nothing much going on at the moment. Will have the 20-weeks ultrasound in two weeks. We will plan to avoid knowing the gender, but we might see something by accident. It's almost stressful, LOL! I've been having all these dreams telling me I'm expecting a boy, which is what I also feel... I wouldn't be surprised if we see a nice little package on the screen that's hard to miss! :lol: I had NO idea that you were about to move into a new home! How exciting!!!!!! We want details! How is the new place? Oh, and I LOVE the idea of baking lots of cookies for Xmas... my sis will visit us this weekend and we'll decorate the Yule tree! :D Now I want to bake cookies too, lol!

Nimble! Hi there! Nice of you to drop by! How are YOU doing? :D

Carolyn, I hear you on the relaxed weekend.... we do have stuff planned, but right now I'm about to sneak out of work and spend a very short time shopping for winter boots and buying a DVD... and I'll head home. Don't have to cook, I'll eat leftovers... and DH is at a Xmas party with his company, so I'll have the house for myself allllll afternoon and evening! I'll relax with my dogs and cat, in my pjs, with nice movies in front of the fireplace....aaaaaaaah!

Take care girls!

Sophie xxox
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN
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Post by lara312 »

Hi ladies just a quickie for becks now its just the embies getting comfortable this time i thought af was coming for over a week and wore things everyday cause i thought it was going to be there any day and look at me you have had so much pma now youd better get it back lady when are you testing i'm praying for you hoping that all your dreams come true please please let becky get a bfp please

Hi to everyone else will catch up later in the week need to go and have a sit down has i'm so tired take care ladies
lots of love Rachel x x x
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Welshgirl38
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Ladies,

I never ever thought that i would get the pleasure of posting this, but here i am ... 13dpo and a digital clear blue test says 'pregnant'

To say we are over the moon is an understatment, i am being very cautious, and not trying to run away with it .... but the fact remains -

WE ARE PREGNANT ....

Have rung clinic and cant get our scan until Jan 5th (as origianal scan wud be due on boxing day an they are closed over xmas hols) but thats ok ... will prob keep testing until then hehehe.

I just have one thing to say ....

Thank you Lord for the gifts in my life ...
.... We are so blessed, i am on cloud nine and i dont ever want to come down, i like it up here :P

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..

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Post by CarolynB »

Totally thread crashing. Sorry ladies. :roll:

But just saw this news and absolutely had to post.

BECKSTER - I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :D :D :D :D :D :lol: :lol: :lol:

This is just such wonderful news for you both.

Lots of Love
Carolyn
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Welshgirl38
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Thank u so much Carolyn hun xxxx

An thank u for all ur pm's of support thruout this journey, i really cant belive that this is finally our turn u know hun ... and look at u - 10 weeks already :) fantastic .... Xxxxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by nimble »

Becks, said it all on my text and posted on Shantala's thread - this is the best news ever and I'm so pleased for you - 3rd time a charm as they say and I just knew that this time was your time.

Do we need to let Clearblue know that they are going to have a rush of pregnancy tests and to order more stocks in !!!

How could you beat this as a christmas present to Brian and yourself.

Congratulations again and again........

Lots of love
Jackie xx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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Post by ICSI GIRL »

OMG-OMG-OMG-OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OUR QUEEN BECK IS BFP???!!!!!! WELL DONE MY-LADY...............................WELL DONE :wink: YOU'VE BEEN SUCH A ROCK FOR SO MANY OF US OUT HERE....... AND NOW IT IS YOUR TIME :D :D :D :D : :D :D

hugs and kisses to you!!!!!!!!!! (and yer wee ones!!!) give brian giant kiss from all your bff's out here!!! CONGRATS -- yer going to be a daddy brian!! :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
:-) Angie
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Post by jeck »

Congrats Becky!!! Awesome news!!
Jeck
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FET 7/06 -ve
2nd IVF 10/06 lost @ 5w4d *8 Frosties Left
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Post by Welshgirl38 »

Thank u ladies <blowkiss>

<bows>


I DID IT :D :D :D :D

We are so blessed .... so happy .... im dancing on air :D

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
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Post by PMApsy »

OMG!!!!! OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG!!!!!

Congratulations Becky!!!! I'm so happy and excited for you!!!!! I was so shocked when I read the news on the thread! WOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOO! Wow, you're such a trooper sweetie, you went through so much to get there, and I can't describe how MOVED I am that you were able to get past that BFP milestone at the end of it all!

Becky is preggers! Becky is preggers! Oh, that sure made my day! I'm sending you LOTS of hugs and kisses!

Sophie xxoxox:D:D:D:D:D:D
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN
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Post by My2LnT »

Holy Crap!!!!!! YEAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOO HOOOOO that 3rd time was a real blessing!!!!!!!!!!!!
In tears I'm SOOOOOOOO happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by nic4 »

AWWWW BECKY...

Im seriously dancing on air for you..we cycled together your 1st attempt and my 3rd...4th time was a charm for me..Im so glad 3rd time was time for your and brians charm..Ive been lurking and keeping my eye on you,couldnt believe when i checked today..YOU'RE PREGNANT...YEEE BLOODY HAAA!!!!!

Hope you have a happy,healthy,pregnancy..

Much love to you and Brian...Nicola..xxxx
1st ivf,jan 2006(bfn) 2nd ivf,april 2006(bfn) 1st FET,july 2006(bfn) 3rd fresh ivf,nov 2006 (BFP) by the grace of god..1 baby due end July 2007..Jack born 24th july 2007..
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Post by Miracle08 »

Hi Angel!! I saw you posted on Becky's Congrats thread. I am hoping you are reading still.

I am thinking of you honey. And DH. I think of you daily. I have been praying for you. I pray that God will help ease your pain. That He will guide you to your next path. Please know, we are all here for you. I hope you and Dh are leaning on each other during this difficult time. love ya girlie!

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Post by Miracle08 »

Hi everyone!

Sorry I havent been around. Us girls in the US had a long weekend because of Thanksgiving, then I moved to I was very busy. We are just about done. :shock: Thank goodness. I totally hate moving. But it is a very beautiful home. I love it!!! We are settling in. I was very worried about my babies, Charlie and Mollie. They have only been in one home so I was a bit concerned about how they would do. They have adapted nicely, I must say. Charlie still hasnt eaten his dog food but he is very happy. I will keep an eye out on his eating. I was really suprised that Mollie ate first. Charlie is the food lover out of the two!!! :lol:

I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving Angie!!!

I saw Becky's great news!!!! That is just so awesome!!! i am on cloud 9 with you Beck!!!! :wink:

How is everyone???? Anyone around today??

I will check back in a little bit!!!
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