Angie!
Thanks for being there, and thanks for taking the time to post your support. I completely agree with you that we should go Desperate Housewives on them, move on, and pretend those women don't exist from now on!
I TOTALLY agree with you, we should DEFINITELY manage to meet one day! LOL don't know about the slumber party but I'm in it if the other girls are!

DON'T forget the ice cream BUCKETS and the chocolate!!! Definitely agree on the nice little cozy house lost in the middle of nowhere... SIGH what a nice getaway it would be! And YES, let's do that across the pond!

I'd visit my FIL in France!

As far as Shantala rocking, I think it would fit so well mixed in the song on her MySpace page! Beauuuuuutiful giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirls... YOU ROCK!!!
Miracle,
WOW, that decision is huge!

I'm happy you and DH agreed on a course of action!! It feel SO MUCH better when you have a plan, even if you can't put it in action before months... Many clinics plan an obligatory counselling session for every couple who uses DS or DE. My friend raved about that session, she really liked it, and it was great for her to have a neutral place where she could validate a few things and express herself, her fears, same for DH. So I'm sure you won't regret it!
Hugs,
Sophie xxox