Awaiting Treatment

[wishfull27]

hiya girlies !!

came on for a sanity break whilst I eat my lunch ... no one to talk to though

Will try agagin later x

[Miracle08]

Hi Wishfull!!! I am here, just got to work and my day is already shit.

You know how I told you there is one co-worker that gives everyone trouble?? Well I asked the two other ladies if they would back me up to the big boss...and they said "keep me out of it!" NICE RIGHT!!! And one of them are supposed to be a close friend. I always back my friends when I have agreed with them. This makes me so freaking mad. I am so done helping people out.

Anyway...sound like you are having hectic day too???

[PMApsy]

Morning ladies!

You guys ABSOLUTELY have to follow this link! I can't stop giggling!!!!

http://icanhascheezburger.com/2008/12/0 ... atch-this/

Angie!!!

It's so great to have news, but SO SAD that you won't be around too much to play with us!!! Can we say INSTA-BAWL for that one too??? :(:(:( Hang in there sweetie, and we'll be glad to see you whenever you can come take a peek! By the way, looks like you had a great b-day!!! You deserved it girl! woohoo!

Miracle,
Hey sweetie... about the warning, well, you can't be too careful. I'm so sorry about what you said... talk about a horrid day indeed!!! What usually helps me to distance myself emotionally from someone annoying is to consider them as people with limits who need to behave a certain way because they are more fragile. It helps me have the patience to deal with them and remain calm, not let them spoil my day. Isn't there an HR person you could talk to about this? And about your husband, I can imagine how stressful it must be for you guys. But you can't keep worrying in advance thinking constantly about the "what ifs", especially in this economical context. I'm sure you guys are careful with your money right now, and you're doing everything you can`you can't possibly do more! I'm particularly saddened by your husband's comments about tmt. I understand his point, but, same thing, he didn't have to make a judgement based on a "what if" that hasn't happened and might not happen. The least he could do is let you keep dreaming about the summer and anticipate your first tmt with joy. Remember how it was, last fall, when things seemed desperate. The wind finally turned and you guys were up and running again. And the bad economy was there at the time. So I'm sure that, even if things look desperate again, they won't stay that way. I'm keeping everything crossed for you dearest. *HUGS*

Carolyn,
Glad they found the problem with your car! Prague is just around the corner! Can't wait to have news!!!!

Angel must be close to her dream destination right now... lucky girl!!!

Well, nothing much on my side. Just boring work, not much to do, and cold weather. Still don't sleep very well because of my nose, same for DH, but it will pass. On the 28th, I'll leave with two colleagues for a 3-days convention for work, all expenses paid. My colleague is a genius; she checked the site and realized it's a HUGE spa... and she suggested we get massages and some spa time during the convention (not all presentations are interesting or pertinent to us). My insurances will cover the massage, and I'm considering a full-body exfoliation... I've only had one in the past, but it's a clever choice because you get two massages instead of one... I can't wait!

Okay ladies, take care! And enjoy the link!

Sophie xxox

[ICSI GIRL]

soph -- LOVED the link/pic --- TOO CUTE!!

mir --- i'm sorry you're having troubles girly.....i know all too well about some of what you're going thru -- speaking of dh work.....economy is just crap -- complete crap!!! HEY, didn't you say you live in/around kissimmee?? which would mean near ORLANDO....which would mean - near all of the theme park stuff?? only asking and curious if there would be any potential job leads for those?? i have NO idea how they do their hiring or whether is even something dh could/would do??? and as far as work goes --- don't ya just HATE those kind of people??? in fact -- i've always preferred working with men cuz women just tend to be too bitchy!! i don't tolerate 8th-grade-girl-bull-shit very well and men tend to not take things personally (like most women DO) -- so you can have it out and an hour later --- it's all good!!! mostly wanted you to know i was thinkin of ya hun..... (and NO CHEATING on the one/two word posts --- you got it??? ha, ha!!)

carolyn --- bet you're happy you got all things sorted with the car!!! are you getting excited?????!!!!! i would be bouncing off the walls if i were you!!! (prague)....by the way -- i hadn't even noticed my thing-a-ma-bob getting close to being "valued member" -- WOW!!!

it is freezin-ass cold here today!!! and expected to get worse thru the week.....on thursday - is supposed to be high of 3 degrees (farenheit) with a "real feel" of -18 i just ran out to get gas for my car while it's not AS cold as is gonna get and i am just froze to the bone!!!!! anyway........still busy-busy at work -- but while i was inhaling my lunch - figured i'd pop in here!!! am SOOOOOOO excited --- AMERICAN IDOL premieres tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (hi - my name is angie.....and i'm an american idol addict!!!) ha, ha, ha!!! is sad when that is what is getting me thru my day!!!

ok lovelies.....would LOVE to stay and chat.....but must run if want paycheck!!! ta-ta!

LOVE & HUGS TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[wishfull27]

wow its been a quiet day!!

Mir - sorry about all girly crap at work - just look after number one !!

Ang - enjoy american idol at least you can chill after work watching it... and yes am excited about Prague - think temperature will not be far off what you are quoting for where you are ... no sun tan for me then!!!

Sophie - ooo yes enjoy the pamper - are you ok to have both those treatments cos not sure you can have massage in 3rd trimester .. just know that cos friend has beauty salon .. although Lee our resident holistic therapist will know more ... what about hot stones amassage that is more gentle but just as relaxing.. in fact more relaxing than normal massage .. I know they need to be careful with massage oils etc.. am sure you know that anyway !!!!!

Off to bed am knackered just back from gym and killer wave machine - burnt 1546 calories off and did 19.5km .. needed it though after binge tea!!!

catch you tom

love ya

Carolyn xx

[wishfull27]

oooo sorry just realised missed a couple in my personal!!

becky - hope your coping with work and things getting earier by the day xxx

Renee - hope the appointment went ok .. thinking of you honey xx

Lee - how are you .. life hectic as usual ??

Rachel/Shantala/Jayne?nims and all the other mummies ... hellooo hope your all ok and living life to the max

lots of love

carolyn xx

[reneece]

Hi girls. Hope you are all well.
I also am so excited for the american idol!!! I love it. Don't laugh but dh and I also are into bachelor, that was on last night and gives us tons of laughs.

I am ok today. Took the long drive for the bloodwork, my beta is not all the way down yet so I still need to go back next week to make sure it is then but it is surely close. Approaching some finality of this one and gearing up to get ready today. The blood lady was so nice to me, I needed it and really appreciated it, gave encouraging words and such. Took an inventory of my meds and think I have pretty much enough for almost the whole ivf cycle, some left over from iui, some donated from some kind person out there and a just as kind nurse who saw my pain and made me the recipient. Today I am ok, who knows tomorrow but I will take ok for now.
Spent some time with two girlfriends earlier, my one friend is crazy!! I am not kidding around, I think she is nuts. There is all this crazy inlaw stuff on my dh side and she is my sis in law and I am so sure she is nuts. Too long to get into but it really freaked me out big time. I am sure she is starving herself ( trust me I know this from my own past experiences with crap like this ) and, well it was just wierd. Very wierd

DH is at friends sons bris (the one I went to see Sat), I chose not to go, I hate to put it like this put I felt as if I did my time when I went sat. We arent of the jewish religion, I have never been to one, and it just wasnt the time to start now. I think Dh got it but who knows.....

Miracle, Regarding girl stuff at work I totally get it. I am a nurse, I work as nursing supervisor for a hospital perdiem but I am telling you .....my job is so hard b/c of the women. The male nurses never make a peep, they do their job and that is it, the women, omg, they complain, and get attitudes, scream, it is unbelievable. I am in constant shock of how they can treat others. I love women but jeez, why cant some just get it together at work. I cant even stand it and I have no advice....if some comes to me I will let you know though.

Car-have fun in prague, I think you burnt more calories than well I dont know, wow!!
Sophie, enjoy massage, I am having my first one on monday night, courtesy of dh and my increasing stress and mental instability (ha).
Ang- we will have to chat AI tomorrow
Beck and lee thinking of you.
All else...hello

Renee

[Sara30]

Good evening everyone,

Renee thinking of you for tommorrow, hope its not too bad for you, have you heard of rescue remedy, not sure if they do it in the states? its a herbal remedy in a liquid form that you can put on your tongue or in water and sip it. I have used it loads over the last few weeks, whenever you get that knot in your stomach and you want to cry BUT you are in a really public place where you do not want to let go, it helps within minutes and calms the emotions. Over here you can just buy it in the chemist. I guess all those feelings we all go through every now and again, I was thinking today how it would be ok for me to adopt if I don't end up with my own child. Its funny because until I had my sisters donated eggs I couldnt even think about adoption, get all those feelings out on here especially if it helps you to write them down, once they are voiced they dont seem so scary I find.

Sophie like Miracle the warning message made me laugh that was so funny and so thoughtful as well!! Just think when your baby is snuggled up in the crib blanket you can look at it and remember the pain stakinghours it took you sew, then you will look at your babys face and it won't matter if it had taken you 2 days to sew it!!
Enjoy your SPA it will be like a little holiday break, how much time will you get off from the work thing?? I am going to check out the link after I have finishe here.

Becky, as I have just said to Renee have you heard of rescue remedy? Has really been a life saver for me, so pleased you have found something you wanted to plant and you can look forward to the blooms. I know what you mean about wanting the treatment over so you know where you stand I really feel like that now as well and am almost wishing this year away so I can get on with how my life is going to be one way or another!

Miracle hope your day tommorrow is a better one, is there anything you can do about the 'devil' at work? Aww your not done helping others or you wouldn't be here. what would we do without you?
I know the economy thing is really bad everywhere, I had DH tossing and turning in bed last night worrying about his work he is self employed architect and no one right now wants plans for extensions etc!! Now I would't have minded if the tossing and turning included me ! Maybe your DH is just voicing his worries out loud? Things will change they have to, we all just have to try and ride it out, hope for the best, and keep the PMA going, the summer is a long way off yet...
I agree I think we should have a photo spread of Sophies work what do you think, am I right in thinking Sophie is the domestic goddess of this thread or did I get that wrong and it was someone else??

Carolyn, glad car got fixed but then I suppose that meant you had to go into work today? I have been a busy bee went on a 24/7 parenting course today about how to learn how to handle troublesome teenagers!! It was very enlightening to say the least, I had a little thought to myself thinking God, I am here to learn about teenagers and I havent even been through the whole baby thing yet!! I am kind of doing this all back to front does that mean I will be a perfect parent when its finally my turn!!
Thinking of your friend and hoping things are ok for tommorrow, The week is flying by not long now for Prague!

Angie don't go too far away just getting to know you, glad you liked the flowers

Yeah massage is fine in the third trimester just has to be gentle, and any oils used would be pregnancy safe oils. I have massaged a few pregnant mums now. You may be more comfortable to sit on a chair or have the bed raised rather than lying on your back. I massaged a mum right up until she gave birth a few years ago, when she had her baby I went to see her and the baby was really unsettled. She asked me if I wanted to hold him so I did and started talking to him and massaging his hands, he settled within minutes and went to sleep in my arms, living proof I think that your baby can feel and hear when you are carrying him/her.

Well I better go to bed now I have caught up with you all, sorry mega long post have only had chance to sign on once today!!
good night everyone xxx

[Sara30]

Hi Renee sorry we had crossed posts, I thought your appt was tommorrow not today. Glad it was not too bad for you
Lee xxx

[Miracle08]

Hi girls.
Sorry I didnt post sooner. I was busy at work. I am going to be busy at work again tomorrow. We are doing auction stuff...

I had a much better day today. Thank goodness. Thank you, ladies for all of your nice comments, advice and just for thinking of me. I am sorry to have brought you guys down if I did...

I am with you Angie and Renee...AMERICAN IDOL ADDICT TOO!!! Cant wait. I totally forgot about it untill Angie mentioned it. THANK GOD you did Angie. I would have been pissed off if i forgot to watch it. I text my dh and said...guess what is on tonight...American Idol!! he watches it with me. SHHH...dont tell his big tough manly friends!!!

I will talk to girlies soon...

Hang in there Wishfull...you will be there before you know it.

Sophie...ahhhh spa days sound wonderful. Be sure to make sure you are ok to go...

Renee...sorry you have to go back for more bloods. on the positive side whoo hoo you wont have to pay for meds...isnt that the most expensive part??

where you at lee?

Beckster....hope you are taking it easy love.

Hello to all the Mummies....Hope you are enjoying every minute....

[Miracle08]

just tryin to get my numbers up!!!

[Miracle08]

just one more!!!

I wanna be a valued contributo tooooo....

[wishfull27]

wow .. more posts over night than in day yesterday!!!

Renee .. glad nurse was kind to you .. it does make all the difference.. when I saw bit a bout crazy friend I thought initially you meant crazy as in fun to be around and someone who lifts your spirits .. read a bit further and obvioulsy not the case Surround yourself with the people who love and supprt you .. not the ones who try tpo bring you down or offload more of there problems on you !! Hugs ((()))

Lee - wow you have been a busy bee - the course will be very useful.. I tell you 2009 is the year for all the BFP's on the awaiting treatment thread .. our time has come xx

Mir .. not more work pressure - hope its not too daunting .. not into american idol although we can get it over here its like a couple of weeks behind

Anyway best set off to work xx

[wishfull27]

doing a mir now ...

but will be .....

[wishfull27]

later ... as a valued thingmy jig !!!!!
xxx