
Thank you so much for all your well wishes and sticky baby dust for my ET last Sat. You guys are the best

I was wondering if anyone that has gone through IVF before knows how long you stay bloated. Mine is so bad I feel it all the way up to my ribcage. My appetite is low because I feel full all the time. I just wonder how much longer this will last.

Michelle- Love your list and all the bling. You really are talented. Hope things are Ok with your family. Funny how when your not supposed to be stressed so you can go through all this- that's when crap happens.

KimBob- My acupuncturist told me before I had ET to be gratefully for everything my dh has done, and to imagine how happy my uterus is to accept the gift we have made together. Basically it's all visualization, in an effort for your body to accept the embryo. The being grateful to dh has to do with your body not rejecting the embryo (autoimmune response), but being grateful it is half of both of you. Anyway, I did a lot of visualization or meditation during this whole process. I imagined my ovaries getting plenty of blood flow to grow perfect healthy beautiful eggs. I would put both my palms just above my pubic bone to my belly button, to feel the warmth and imagine the blood flowing to them. I would also imagine as I deep breathed, any adhesions, bad blood, etc leaving my body to make it the most perfect place, and rid it of all bad things. I also did a lot of imagery when I layed in the clinic after ET to imagine how warm and inviting my uterus was for my two babies, and how they would love to nestle in there because it was so wonderful. Also, imagining increased blood flow to my uterus.
This may all sound so corny, but for me, it really helps, and it can't hurt. My acupuncturist is also a very traditional Asian man that practices herbal medicine and holistic practices. He felt that a lot of my problem with infertility since I have endometriosis and adhesions was blood stasis. Old blood sitting there, and not enough blood flow and oxygen to my reproductive organs. I'm into it and hey, anything that can help. I know a lot of people feel they have done well with acupuncture, and I totally agree. When I was stimming, the night and day after I would have acupuncture, my ovaries felt a lot more stimulated. My abd. would be more sore and I could pinpoint where each ovary lays. I think it is why we got so many good quality eggs. I can also see why your RE doesn't believe in you talking to your r ovary, since he practices a kind of medicine that doesn't always see the benefits of western medicine.
So I would keep visualizing all the things that need to happen for both your ovaries to keep doing their best, and to heck with your RE.

Well ladies, I am one of the girls that is also not good about writing to everyone. It really is amazing to me that some of you have been able to keep up with it all. I just wish you all the best, and remember to keep on visualizing
