chris i was also dor and believe dhea helped me out, although sirm do not recommend it.....
ladies,
i write this with a broken heart from my hospital bed..... i went for my 20wk scan and it seems i have an incompetant cervix

i was 100% effaced and 3cm dilated with the first babies bag bulging out. they sent me up to labor and delivery and the peri said he cannot put the bag back in as it has been exposed to bacteria in the birth canal and by now will almost certainly be infected

they gave me the option of terminating or letting nature take its course, which i am choosing to do....
i had contractions over the last 2 days, some were only 1min apart but they slowed and are now erratic and infrequent..... my doctor said if infection does not set in and if i dont progress any more (i am on an inverted bed) and if i can carry on to 24 weeks they will deliver. i asked how likely that was and he said realistically less than 5%
chance
so now i am just waiting.
several people have pm'd me about the photobucket..... could you ask another regular im so sorry but i cant do all the technical stuff right now...
will keep you all updated, please pray for a miracle