Another b***** negative!

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Allison
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Another b***** negative!

Post by Allison »

Hi everyone,

I tested this morning and got another negative. So much for 3rd time lucky and my stars saying I would get a positve after years of trying in March. I feel so fed up and useless.

Hope eveyone else has more success.

Love Allison.
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bubblymichelle
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Post by bubblymichelle »

Oh Alison I am so sorry to hear you got a negative result, the thing is we just so much want it to work and when It doesn't I guess we are gutted. I just want to say try and stay strong I know its hard but you have to!! we are all here for you.

Thinking of You.

Love
Shell.
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Amanda A
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Post by Amanda A »

Allison,
Really sorry, have sent you a private post.
Love Rach xx
loopylou57uk
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Post by loopylou57uk »

hi allison,im really sorry it has`nt worked for you this time,i really thought it had.have some quality time with dh and go out and spoil yourself.
take care.love loopy.
alisonn
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Post by alisonn »

allison, im so so sorry, it is so heartbreaking, i remember i just wanted
to shut myself away and not talk to anyone, we all deal with -itve in
different ways, u must remember you need time to grieve.
But in time you will pick yourself up, everyone on this site are very
determined people including you, to have gone thru what u have.
thinking of you
alisonn (successful 4th time with icis)
KathrynT
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Post by KathrynT »

Allison
I am so sorry you got a negative too.
It is so gutting and unfair.
Do try and spoil yourself and dh.
Love
Kathryn
Kathryn
Me 37 Dh 39 ttc 8 years
1st IVF May 2001(Failed) Damaged tubes
2nd Feb 2004 (Failed)
Have border collie Megan Roo (nearly 5)
Susan L
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Post by Susan L »

Allison
im so sorry to hear you got a negative
its so unfair and sad but please dont feel useless as your not you done all you could

Stay strong and Take Care
Traci
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Post by Traci »

Allison
Its such a kick in the gutts isnt it cause I think 3rd time lucky you actually believe that its a luckier time then all the rest!!! Please dont feel useless as you have just had one of the most stressfull times in your life , It will work one day and you so deserve this to work, so try and keep strong even if it means drinking loadsa booze and spending loadsa money!!!! cause its the rules following a negitive :o

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
Rhonda Richards
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Post by Rhonda Richards »

Allison

SO SO SORRY TO HEAR YOUR NEWS :cry: :cry: :( :( :(


Remember the rules following a negative, won't make pain go away but will just cloud it for a while. :lol:

Take care and chin up
LOL Rhonda :wink:
LOL Rhonda

Me 27yrs DH 29yrs
ttc 6yrs
WISH ALL GOODLUCK and HUGS (they do help sometimes!)
SJ BROWN
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Post by SJ BROWN »

Hi Allison

really sorry to read your news................
As Traci says, lots of booze, retail therapy and also lots of cuddles from dh.............

Its not an easy rollercoaster this IVF lark....Try and stay strong and keep the belief that it will work one day............

Take care
Sarah
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DebraP
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Post by DebraP »

Allison, life sucks at times. You don't deserve this.

Take a break and ask for support from anyone and everyone you think can help. We're always here.

love
Debra.
beckncraig
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Post by beckncraig »

Hi Alison,
sorry to hear your sad news. life is so cruel. Try to stay positive. Have a big bottle of wine and chill out with dh.
Thinking of you both
love BecknCraig. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Zed2003
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Post by Zed2003 »

Hi Allison,
Sorry about your news. Your time WILL come though. Look after yourself and ask for lots of cuddles...
Zoe x
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Post by jane »

Oh Alison, I am so sorry. Life is crap isn't it sometimes. Where do those embies go???? We build up so many hopes and dreams to have a shitty littl;e test stick destroy them all in an instant. Hold on to the fact that it will get easier and look at the other allisons thread (she was 4th time lucky).
I really hope things get easier. Have a good cry, stamp your feet and then spoil yourself rotten. Things will be OK. We all deserve it.
Big Hugs to you and dh. Am thinking of you two tonight.
From Sophie-Jane
Aged 32. 1st ivf failed March 04. Going to try again with my frosties.
Have a scruffy dog called Tobye.
BelB
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Post by BelB »

Alison,
Life sucks sometimes, and this IVF crap can really suck big time.
Sorry to hear your news.
Take it easy, lots of hugs from dh, wine, chocky, hot baths, lots of laughs and lots of love.
Look forward to hearing your good news next time around
Belinda
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