I tested this morning and got another negative. So much for 3rd time lucky and my stars saying I would get a positve after years of trying in March. I feel so fed up and useless.
Oh Alison I am so sorry to hear you got a negative result, the thing is we just so much want it to work and when It doesn't I guess we are gutted. I just want to say try and stay strong I know its hard but you have to!! we are all here for you.
hi allison,im really sorry it has`nt worked for you this time,i really thought it had.have some quality time with dh and go out and spoil yourself.
take care.love loopy.
allison, im so so sorry, it is so heartbreaking, i remember i just wanted
to shut myself away and not talk to anyone, we all deal with -itve in
different ways, u must remember you need time to grieve.
But in time you will pick yourself up, everyone on this site are very
determined people including you, to have gone thru what u have.
thinking of you
alisonn (successful 4th time with icis)
Allison
Its such a kick in the gutts isnt it cause I think 3rd time lucky you actually believe that its a luckier time then all the rest!!! Please dont feel useless as you have just had one of the most stressfull times in your life , It will work one day and you so deserve this to work, so try and keep strong even if it means drinking loadsa booze and spending loadsa money!!!! cause its the rules following a negitive
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Trace x
1st cycle own eggs Neg
2nd cycle own eggs Neg
3rd cycle cousins eggs Neg
4th cycle unknown donor eggs Neg
Going to have sisters eggs Feb 06
NEVER GIVE UP!
Hi Alison,
sorry to hear your sad news. life is so cruel. Try to stay positive. Have a big bottle of wine and chill out with dh.
Thinking of you both
love BecknCraig. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Oh Alison, I am so sorry. Life is crap isn't it sometimes. Where do those embies go???? We build up so many hopes and dreams to have a shitty littl;e test stick destroy them all in an instant. Hold on to the fact that it will get easier and look at the other allisons thread (she was 4th time lucky).
I really hope things get easier. Have a good cry, stamp your feet and then spoil yourself rotten. Things will be OK. We all deserve it.
Big Hugs to you and dh. Am thinking of you two tonight.
From Sophie-Jane
Aged 32. 1st ivf failed March 04. Going to try again with my frosties.
Have a scruffy dog called Tobye.
Alison,
Life sucks sometimes, and this IVF crap can really suck big time.
Sorry to hear your news.
Take it easy, lots of hugs from dh, wine, chocky, hot baths, lots of laughs and lots of love.
Look forward to hearing your good news next time around
Belinda