
Liz--Congrats on your babies! I oh so remember those early days. They are SO SO hard! Honestly, I would consider another baby except I dread those early weeks! (Isn't that just horrible?) My kiddos took pacis (still do) at bedtime. I don't remember how early I started giving them to them though. I avoided them early on since I was bfing, but I did give in! They do need that time to suck on something. I remember countless nights getting up to retrieve their pacifiers. All I can say is, it will get better. They will get better at keeping them in their mouths. They will get better at sleeping without them when they fall out. I promise! Just think--one day, they will run to their bedroom to sneak a paci when you aren't looking! (Like Ellie did today!) Hang in there!