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Miracle08 · Post by **Miracle08** » Thu Jun 18, 2009 4:41 pm

Hi Girls,
I am still around. I will have to catch you girl up...But I am reading.

CAROLYN....FABULOUS!!! PUPO!!!! I AM THRILLED FOR YOU SWEETIE. When do you test?
Lee: Sorry to hear the adoption plans are on hold...it will happen, don't worry love!

wishfull27 · Post by **wishfull27** » Thu Jun 18, 2009 5:05 pm

Hi traci great to see your post . How's you honey x x

Miracle08 · Post by **Miracle08** » Fri Jun 19, 2009 1:03 pm

Hi Girls!

Carolyn: OMG 8DP 5DT!!! SO exciting!!! THis is it lovey!!! I can't wait until you get your official BFP!!! How is DH? How are you feeling ?

Sabi: WHOA baby...You are PUPO as well!!!!!!!!! I am the only one...

I guess once you girls get your BFP I will be allll alone...

Lots of BABYDUST to MY TWO favorite ladies!

Sara30 · Post by **Sara30** » Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:01 pm

Oooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Miracle I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo pleased to see you, where did you go, don't leave us again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How are you honey??? All of our friends have disapeared, I hope everyone else is all AOK!!!

Our adoption plans are a little complicated in we are all ready in the system but to hurry us up could be seen as favouritism, hopefully we have got round that ALL I WANT IS TO BE A MUMMY!!!!! Oh it can be frustrating!!! Will have more news in July so will fill you in then.

Sabi did I miss something??? You are PUPO too, so thinking of you and keeping evreything crossed!!!!

Carolyn, you are so close now, not long to go, you know I am thinking of you!!!!

So Miracle whats been going on fill us in, anything going on with you girl???? Whats happening inyour life right now??

My next jaunt is August going away for a week to Spain with 2 teenage girls, one of who will be moving in with us next week so that should be fun!!!

So bye bye for now my friends, speak soon

Lee xxxx

Sara30 · Post by **Sara30** » Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:02 pm

ps Miracle you will never be alone xxxxxxx

wishfull27 · Post by **wishfull27** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 4:38 am

OMG girlies - HPT says BFP

will be back later when I have got over the shock !!!!

beachbaby · Post by **beachbaby** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 11:11 am

carolyn, YEAH CONGRATS to you and DH, so pleased for you.

Jayne

Miracle08 · Post by **Miracle08** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 12:16 pm

Carolyn....OMG are you serious? When do you go in for bloods?? OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I JUST KNEW IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sara30 · Post by **Sara30** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 1:51 pm

CAROLYN Waaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy you picked our thread up with news we all wanted to hear!!!!! So happy for you, congratulations to you and DH

Lots of love
Lee xxxxxxxxxxxx

lara312 · Post by **lara312** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 5:57 pm

Carolyn this has made my day you have started the ball rolling now comon BFP's all round congrats to you and dh you must be on cloud 9 and enjoy this feeling its the best till you get to see your baby take it easy
lots of love Rachel x x x

Miracle08 · Post by **Miracle08** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 6:07 pm

Carolyn,

Where are you?? You said you would be back after initial shock!

Come on we want to know everything...how did you tell DH, did you tell your family, all the good stuff!!!

Hi Lee! thanks for saying I would never be alone. You are such a sweetie.

I just have been down in the dumps about not having our baby yet...or for not even being able to start trying. I am scared about my age....I worry about everything. Sorry, not trying to bring down CAROLYNS BIG DAY!!!

Rachel & Beach...so nice to hear from you. WOW Rach, any day now huh? I can't believe you will be having your 2nd little miracle.

Beach, how are the boys doing? And you?

Much love girls!

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 6:33 pm

Hi sweeties!

Firstly, I have to apologise for being AWOL

Its a long story, and I truly do have an explanation. At first, I didn't post cause I was so busy at work - like crazy. Then I got a small promotion and it got even crazier. Then after a project DH and I went away on a much deserved holiday. While all this was happening and stopping me from coming here, I realised that it was actually helping me. Don't get me wrong, I love all of you and so appreciate all the support I have always got from you - more than I have got from any of my friends. But coming on the forum and being reminded of my failed attempts just weren't helping me at that point. If I could just come on this thread and chat to you girlies, it would be ok, but I couldn't do that. And then I saw others getting their BFP and moving on. Also reminded me of how active this thread used to be at one point. I totally appreciate that babies take up time and new mommies wouldn't have as much spare time. But again that was a reminder that so many have moved on. I am happy enough for everyone, but then came the questions, why not me??? DH asked me to keep away from this site for only 6 weeks. He promised me that it would help me. And do you know what, he was right! A complete break from IVF including any talk of it was just what I needed. Now I feel stronger emotionally and can see more objectively. Life goes on, and things change. I WILL have my baby some day. If now isn't the right time for whatever reason, then I still need to progress in other areas of my life. I realised that I had been putting a lot of things on hold. Well, no more! We now feel like pre-IVF, we got out to parties, movies, do so many more things together I feel like I am falling in love with DH all over again

I hope no one takes any offence. I stayed away purely to help myself and it did and now I am back!!!! I'm here again to cheer those BFPs, to support those going through tmt and generally have a laugh with the rest of us who are still waiting.

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 6:37 pm

Carolyn,

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Amazing news to come to. Hey if your HPT picked up the HCG before your test date, then I don't think you have anything to worry about. Put your feet up and repeat "I am pregnant!". It must be feeling totally surreal at this point. [/b]

Angel505 · Post by **Angel505** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 6:39 pm

Miracle sweetie - hope you are not too annoyed with me. How have you been? Hopefully work doesn't keep me away from you too much.

Hi to Sara, sabi, shatala, lara.......and anyone else I've missed. Hopefully will try to catch up as soon as possible.

wishfull27 · Post by **wishfull27** » Mon Jun 22, 2009 6:41 pm

I am back.... gosh this thread has not seen so much action in weeks !!!!!

Angel .. truly understand how you feel .. I was getting like that too, and I think we all find it frustrating to see others come and join get BFP on first attempt and we are all here still trying or like our special traci - still waiting for our first attempt .. i understand the why not me .. we have all been there .. but you know we are all here for you .. and way to go with the promotion .. all that hard work has paid off!!

Truly undertsand about putting life on hold too - we have had planning permission for an extension for nearly 2 years and kept saying no we will wait, not booking holidays too far in advance - cos what if get pregnant etc ... well after 3rd failed cycel - i was like bollocks to it all - lets just do it - its only money, so in the craziness of having an extension built, a new house bathroom and our bedroom re decorated .. guess what i got my BFP .. crazy .. crazy world .. but huge hugs to you both ... issed your posts xxxxx

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