ok, i'm just going to go in order from the most recent posts you ladies have typed.
niki- omg! i have my fingers crossed for your bfp! you must be going crazy
misocial- hope full flow af gets here soon, so you can get started. doing the af dance for you girl.
miyaya- thank you so much for your kind & encouraging words. it means a lot

so you are triggering tonight, right? so exciting! before you know it, you;ll be pupo. i wouldn't stress over your follies. i'm sure everything will be great!
lou- holy crap...12 days??? you poor thing! i say give it another day or 2 & then definitely call the nurse. my last cycle i had a bfp but then m/c'd, but af was about my normal length...4-5 days, it was just a lot heavier. spin class...oh how i miss my zumba.
roshaunda- enjoy your girls' weekend away! i need to do that sometime soon! my 4 sisters-in-law & i keep talking about it....we need to take some action & actually start planning it. i hope your friends are nothing but supportive & encouraging. have a great time! it'll definitely make your 2ww go by much faster.
samantha- i know exactly what you mean about being able to be an embryologist, lol! i have been doing the same thing....searching the internet for day 3 8-cell/grade 4 & 9-cell/grade 2 embryos. although this IS going to work for you, you should definitely do an fet. you have 5 snowbabies who need their mama. glad that you have a relaxing weekend coming up. enjoy your date night Sunday with dh.
sonya- that is a high e2 level. i hope it doesn't cause any ohss. it's not fun. drink lots of water & gatorade. glad that dh is in town & keeping you company. so what's up with your er? did it already happen yesterday or is it today? i'm just going by the most recent schedule that was posted. i'm thinking of you & your sister.
heather- please do not lose hope. there's still such a high possibility for a bfp...i just know it. pma, pma, pma!
franny- agh!!!! i'm so excited for you! you must be going crazy waiting for that phone to ring. fingers are crossed!
riley- a big, fat congratulations on your bfp & the doubling of it! you're preggo girl...woohoo! here's to a happy & healthy 9 months! very happy for you
beth- i know what you mean about getting a low beta #. getting a bfp is half the battle, it's the not having a m/c that's the other half of the battle. what was your beta last cycle? mine was 126. i mean that doesn't seem low, but i'm hoping for a beta that's higher than that & one that close to doubles. last time mine went up by 69%, so it wasn't too good.
katie- so did you trigger last night? i have a good feeling about this. i think because this isn't traditional ivf, just the unexpected things that come up can really put you in a mood. but please keep up that pma. it will work! oh yes, i see that your er is saturday, so you must have triggered last night. i have all the faith in this.
claudia- yeah, the pio shots are not fun at all. so how many embabies will you be transferring on wednesday? i'm eating pineapple too...it can't hurt & it's yummy!
ashley- sounds like you're on your way to a bfp! just a few more days & it'll be official.
molly- welcome!
sdc/laurie- i'm so sorry about your results. words cannot express how awful i feel & my heart aches for you. i hope you can find the strength to pick up & move on with whatever decisons you think is the best. just know that we are all here fo you. (((HUGS)))
jenice- good for you about working out & dieting! trying the good old-fashioned way is fun, so it can't hurt, right?

you're right, you never know, it can happen.
kim- i'm thinking about you. please let it be a bfp....i'm praying for you.
j & c- did you have your fet yesterday? i hope so! that would make you my 2ww twin. when is your beta? mine is on the 8th...seems like an eternity.
i know i missed so many of you. please just know that i'm thinking of all of you & praying for you!
lots of sticky baby dust all around ladies!
love ya,
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