So glad to hear all is well with every lady on this board. I love that everyone is just moving right along.
Welcome Karin (again) and Vicki!!!
Ryann - Just fyi, babycenter.com has a great SCH Support Group forum that's really helped me with mine. They're VERY common with IVF twinkies. Hope you're doing great and that the bleeding has subsided. Keeping you and DH in my prayers.
I just wanted to get everyone's opinion... I've already found myself in a rather silly predicament. DH and I are hoping and praying that we get a loan to add on to our house to accommodate the babies. If so, we will actually get to design a nursery! Long story short, I mentioned a color theme IDEA to my dear MIL and she very enthusiastically jumped at the opportunity to begin making quilts for the babies based on those colors. Super sweet, right??!! Beautiful little quilts handmade by Nana with love, what could be sweeter???
Well, today I started looking online at options for nursery bedding sets. We won't know until Feb 1st what we are having, but I'm trying to get some ideas now so I know what's available and what I like. They range from the color scheme I originally had in mind to some other variations that I've recently seen and fallen in love with. While surfing (and getting QUITE excited) my MIL called and I started telling her about some of the ideas I was LOVING. Very sadly, she said, "I thought we already chose a theme..." I should mention the quilts are very close in color to the first idea I had, however, I didn't know they were intended to be the official bedding on the cribs. As cute as they are, I don't even know for sure what I want to do in there. I thought they were meant to be blankets. Not what I was supposed to be designing the entire nursery around.
Anyways, this is coming after WEEKS of her insisting that one of the twinks HAS to be a girl, since the majority of her grandkids are boys. DH and I are perfectly fine with whatever God has planned for us. After 2 years of TTC, we just want healthy babies. I finally explained to DH how it was making me feel that she is constantly bringing it up and making such a huge deal out of it all.the.time. Bless his heart, he took a stand the next time she came over, politely reminding her that their gender didn't matter, they would be loved just the same. Which, of course, she agreed with.
I know her intentions are good. But, I want to do this with my husband. I want to pick their names, design their nursery, and all that good stuff with him. Without the pressure of her opinions. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I wonder sometimes how much she's taking my feelings into consideration.
Thanks for listening. I really needed to get that out.
