trying4second - i know what you mean about lifting your DD. I have an 11 month DS that i've been lifting quite a bit on my 2nd day of 2ww. I wasnt even able to get through my 48 hrs of bedrest - got 28 hrs in and came downstairs to help my DH with DS.trying4second wrote:Good luck Kyleen. Fingers crossed for you. We got the news today that one of our day 6 blasts is freezable (there had been 8 in contention - I hate to seem disappointed, but I was hoping for more for that insurance policy!) Hopefully we will never need them! If I do need to do this again, I am hoping for FET with the two we will now have frozen...still seems gruelling, but easier. My daughter is 15 months and I am absolutely grappling with the lifting her...we had her with my parents for my bedrest and I get to see her today, but taking care of a 15 month old while working...AND trying to lay low do not jive!
Blissful...I watched 500 Days of Summer, 17 Again, Conviction, Coules Retreat and tons of Tivo-ed shows...in addition to all the pre-grammy red carpet stuffNothing you can't miss, but all mindless and fun (except conviction...a heavy, good movie!)
SD - can you teach my hubbie the foot rub routine
Will be thinking great thoughts Blair
i really wish the IVF doctors would figure out once and for all if a) we really need this bedrest or its a complete waste of our time b) the lifting thing. my embryologist told me not to worry about lifting - so i am proceeding with life as normal and not creating extra headache for myself. this process is hard as it is - i wish they would get rid of the extraneous stuff they tell us not to do. a lot of it they are just trying to be "safe then sorry" and keeping up with other clinics i guess. i wish though they woudnt do that and did some studies to see if it really makes a difference.
i looked down my long list of dos and donts for IVF and it ridiculous - do not use any cleaning products. come on - people get pregnant all the time dong much worse stuff than that.
that's my rant for the day
