April/May Cycle Buddies!

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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moorebaby
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Wishingandhoping wrote:Can you add me to the list please? I'm waiting for AF so that I can start BCP, so I'm a little behind :? Thank you so much!
no problem! i edited the list above, so you're all set! doing the AF dance for you!!!
ME: 32
DH: 38 (Severe MF)

IVF 1: BFP...M/C
IVF 2-5: BFN
IVF 6: BFP...it's twins!!

A strong, positive attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug.

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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Hi Dallas! Welcome to donor egg IVF! Good to see you again. (We did our transfers on the same day in Jan and had exactly the same experience with the BFP :D followed by the negative ultrasound :cry: .) Sounds like your plan is well in place. I am still waiting for the bHcg to come down from the Jan cycle. It was only 15 last week so it should be fine Monday and hopefully I can start the bcp finally.

I am happy to be joining your forum and hoping for lots of good pregnancy vibes and fat babies for everyone. We are hoping to try donor egg IVF #2, frozen transfer soon. Next step is beta on Monday and need it to be less than 5 to proceed with next round. I look forward to getting to know you all. IVF should never be ventured into without buddies!
Eggandaprayer,44, married 10 yrs, no kids (yet)
1/2010 Decide to adopt, but no luck.
1/23/11 Transferred one embryo! Froze one.
BFP Feb 4, 7, 11
Ultrasound Neg 2/16, AF 2/28
IVF #2 planned 5/2/11
CT_Michele
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Oh Ester, you are da bomb! I am so overwhelmed right now with work and ivf and a toddler. I will buy you that dang cup of coffee if we can ever make it happen! April vaca, over our 2ww!

So I talked to the office today about bw from yesterday. My estrogen levels were still high, they said. They want me to double my lupron dose (Ha! Double b*tch for the next 2 weeks!) and do bw again on Thursday afternoon. RE says he does not think this will delay me. I am skeptical. Last time I was on lupron for supression I was delayed months before my estrogen leveled out. But RE says it is being used differently since I am doing a fresh cycle versus an FET. He better not be lying to me, if I get delayed, I am going to FLIP!

So sounding on Tuesday, TESE consult on Wednesday, bw on thursday, I bet meds will come in the mail right after that....geez it is so close now...eeeek!
Me- 28 DH- 33 Male Factor
1st IVF- 12/07- BFP! Ella Michele was born 8/26/8
2nd IVF- 04/09 - BFN
1st FET- 09/09 - Chemical
3rd IVF - 04/11 - Embies didn't make it to ET
4th IVF - Fall 2011??
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Moorebaby,
Thanks for adding me to to the list. I can't wait until May 5th
Mrd 11y TTC 8y
Me38 DH49
DS14pr mrg
2 step-ch16&20
IUI 12/10 BFN
IVF 1/11 OHSS
FET 5/11 BFN
FET 7/11 MC
FET 9/11 MC46 XY
FET 12-30-11 BFP 15dpo=266,17dpo=727,22dpo=7125,25dpo=19076,1-20 u/s 2HB's. Our 2 little miracles born on 8-15-12@35w/3d
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Michele ~ Hope work slows down for you soon. Praying for suppression and good luck with all the tests next week(going to be a busy week).

Eggandaprayer ~ Welcome! So sorry to hear about your last cycle ((((HUGS)))). Hoping your bHCG is down on Monday and you start BCP soon.

Dallas ~ Glad you found a good donor; you are now on your way to a BFP!

Red_Riding_Hood ~ Happy your appt went so well! 25 follicles that’s great news.

LYD10 ~ Happy Birthday to your sweet little miracle. I have also been struggling on how many to transfer, but decided that when the day comes I will know what to do.

JenMink55 ~ Hope lupron treats you well, stimming is right around the corner :D

Moorebaby ~ I had SHG during my 1st IVF and didn’t hurt either. Good news about your insurance going through. I have only used Crinone gel suppositories and they were not bad.

AFM ~ I started BCPs on March 11th, have a hysteroscopy on March 24th, start stimming on April 2nd with a possible ER on April 13th. It amazes me the amounts of meds that we have to take, when they showed up I had to take inventory! Good thing I did, because I was missing my menopur. Have all the meds now and am ready to go. I am nervous in a different way this time and not sure what feelings are different just know it is different? I guess my PMA is just very low. It might be that we were sooo lucky to have a baby from our 1st IVF, I don’t think it will be possible again. I think I have already come to terms with only being able to having one baby(which I feel truly bless for).

Tons of Baby Dust to my Cycle Buddies!!!!
Me:38DH:35(MF)
05/09~1stIVF(ICSI)6/12/09~BFP!!!!Beta-13dpo:55,15dpo:162
03/11~2ndIVF(ICSI)m/c @ 7weeks
08/11~3rdIVF(ICSI)8/19/11BFP!!!!Beta-13dpo:103,15dpo:216.8
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So I have a question for you ladies. I got a letter from my insurance company saying before authorization can be made they need my provider to respond to the following question: how long has patient been trying to get pregnant? The letter is dated March 15th & a copy was sent to my provider. I have unlimited coverage & I am thinking they sent the letter because it is a new practice since I switched REs. Also, I assumed since my clinic ordered my meds, everything was approved. My insurance company should know the answer to that question since I've been doing ivf since September '09.
So what do you think ladies? I called my clinic & left message for my nurse to call me Monday.
ME: 32
DH: 38 (Severe MF)

IVF 1: BFP...M/C
IVF 2-5: BFN
IVF 6: BFP...it's twins!!

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moorebaby wrote:So I have a question for you ladies. I got a letter from my insurance company saying before authorization can be made they need my provider to respond to the following question: how long has patient been trying to get pregnant? The letter is dated March 15th & a copy was sent to my provider. I have unlimited coverage & I am thinking they sent the letter because it is a new practice since I switched REs. Also, I assumed since my clinic ordered my meds, everything was approved. My insurance company should know the answer to that question since I've been doing ivf since September '09.
So what do you think ladies? I called my clinic & left message for my nurse to call me Monday.
My insurance asked me the same thing and this is my 2nd IVF. You would think they would already know. I think that they don't look in your files.
Me:38DH:35(MF)
05/09~1stIVF(ICSI)6/12/09~BFP!!!!Beta-13dpo:55,15dpo:162
03/11~2ndIVF(ICSI)m/c @ 7weeks
08/11~3rdIVF(ICSI)8/19/11BFP!!!!Beta-13dpo:103,15dpo:216.8
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I sooooo hate loosing the posts after you spend a ton of time typing them up!! :evil:

Okay, here we go AGAIN!!!

Bliss and LYD10--- Congrats on AF!! I might need an AF dance from you ladies on Monday or Tuesday. Hoping after my last BCP tomorrow she decides too cooperate! Image

mom4sure--- We are just a few days apart so we will be in the 2ww together and we can meet for dinner in crazytown! LOL :mrgreen:

Dallas-- Congrats on the donor stuff going so well! Just curious, did you get to pick the donor out? I am not sure how that works... if the next cycle doesn't work we are considering moving to donor eggs so I am preparing by getting some information on how that works.

Tiger04-- Looking forward to cycling with you!

Faithful2011---I agree, this is a truly amazing group of ladies! When I found this forum I wasn't sure how interactive it was going to be but I found it to be extremely supportive. It's awesome to cycle with all these great people and share their success' as well as comforting them when things don't work out. [*]

Red_Riding_Hood-- Congrats on the tests passing with flying colors! I love when cycles start out with such positive news. During my baseline my RE only counted about 5 follicles so I am a little worried! IVF # 1 they retrieved over 17 eggs so I am hoping to get the same this time.

Moorebaby-- Thanks for updating the list for us, Michelle is right your awesome! It's so fun to see my name on the list :mrgreen:

eggandaprayer--hoping that Beta comes down on Monday. I hate being in Beta limbo, I went through that with my chemical. Did you do donor eggs for cycle #1? Your right IVF is one of those things you needs support, especially for those going through the same thing.

CT_Michele-- Haha @ "Double B!tch".... You know what is weird, my RE doesn't test estrogen levels at all. In fact my next appointment isn't until April 4 which is right before transfer... I am going to email about this on Monday. My old RE constantly had me in for monitoring. P/S--- You wont get delayed so don't worry!

nicksgam---Lupron treating me well... well DH might disagree with that haha :evil: Looks like we are just a few days apart too! How exciting. Things are really starting to ramp up, I cannot wait!!!

cherry5--- I like the information you provided on the visualization technique. I am going to try that for sure. They say the mind is a powerful thing so I totally believe this could be a positive thing.

AFM-- Well today was day 2 on Lupron. I lost it on DH a few times today and got the classic Lupron headache in the afternoon. Stims a little over a week away, not looking forward to the ER since last time I got OHSS. I am reallllly scared about that. Anybody have any advice on how to prevent this? I heard Gatorade?? I am starting to get nervous about this cycle, we have invested so much money and I just cannot imagine it not working. We have been disappointed twice before, I really hope that this is our TIME! I am trying to maintain a PMA, I am going to need the help of you ladies!!! Update the Orange Underwear--- Okay I have tried about every place I can think of and I am having a hard time finding them. I found a pair on Nordstroms.com for $29 bucks.. no thanks. I am going to try Wal-Mart tomorrow although I HATE that store!! I think they might have them and I need at least 7 pairs to rotate through the 2ww :mrgreen: Praying like crazy !!!
I am really excited about all the ladies cycling in this group. I have cycled with a few of you and most of you are new to me so I cannot wait to get to know you all!

Hope you all have a wonderful rest of the weekend!!!

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IVF 1 & 3 BFN
IVF #2- Chemical
IVF # 4 -Beta 1=135 Beta 2=320 11/28- HEARTBEAT!!!!!!!!! 135 BPM!
12-12-11- graduated from the RE. HB 170 ! Healthy Bean- I love you!
7-11-12- Landon William Mink born! 8lbs 13 oz Healthy BEAUTIFUL BOY!
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Hi Ladies

Hope you all having a great weekend

Moorebaby Thank you for updating the board :D

Jenmink55 Hey there. I know its a crazy time. Hang in there, your BFP is coming. The closer we get to the ivf cycle the stressful it gets, and the more our minds start this whole "maybe this, maybe that" process. Tell yourself you are falling pregnant in April and align all thoughts and actions on that fact. We'll all be here with you each and every day (((HUGS)))

AFM Have been spotting now for 4 days on and off, not sure if its normal. And the icing on the cake??? Just caught a cold from one of my nieces... Can you believe that. I've been 100% healthy for months, and 12days before i start ivf.... i get a cold. I am sneezing, have a running nose....UGHHHH!!! :(

Take care ladies. Loads and loads of baby dust

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ME 39 (Tubal)
2 Natural pgs, both ectopic, resulting in one ruptured tube and one repaired tube
IVF # 1 – Ectopic
IVF # 2 – Chemical
IVF # 3 – April 2011 BFP :D
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moorebaby- Can you update me on the list. AF finally came and I started stims yesterday. I have a tenative ER on 3/29 or 3/30 and the ET a few days later. I go back to RE on Wednesday to see how the stimming is going. So excited to finally be moving.

jenmink- Ill have to let you know if I find any orange/green undies on my shopping excursion today. As for the Lupron, on the Feb/March board I was telling everyone I started fights with DH night after night. I told him I felt like he wasnt invested and didnt care about our IVF...when obviously he does. Good luck fighting the hormones off and staying sane.

I know i missed a ton of people but Im still trying to catch up on all the action here. Best of luck to everyone in all stages of the cycle.
Me- 26y unkn inf.
DH-30y MF
TTC for 3 yrs
2010- 3 IUI, 3 IVFs (1 chemical, 1 MC @ 6wks)
IVF #4- Fresh 5dt w/ 2 blasts & 1 pre-blast.
BFP! Beta 4/15= 667, 4/18= 2244, 4/22=15,181!!!
Triplets turned Twins- lost 1 baby @ 10 wks. 2 Baby Girls!!
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Jen- Yes we were able to pick out our donor. We first started by narrowing it down off of a list with a short profile. Once we had a few in mind we saw their full profile and a photo. We were able to pick someone that is very similar to me.
me- 31, endo, low egg reserve
dh - 31, perfect!
IVF #1 - m/c at 6wks
IVF #2 - donor cycle
Beta 1 = 183, beta 2 = 606, beta 3 = 3560
Ethan Finn & Avery Lynn born 1/3/12!!!!!!!!!
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Hey ladies- I found some cute fertility orange undies at Walmart. Thanks for the idea Jenmink... I bought about a week's worth. Didn't see any orange and green. I too hate Wally world but REFUSE to pay Victoria Secrets prices for my "comfy time of the month" undies. :-)

Blair- congrats on starting stims. Things are moving along on this board!

Dallas- thanks for the info on donor eggs.

Moorebaby- you are going to be a terrific co-listmistress. Thanks! We appreciate you.

mom4sure- sorry to hear about the cold. The exact same thing happened to me on my last FET. The RE said there was no reason to think it would affect the cycle at all, but I gotta tell you it freaked me out to cough and sneeze after transfer. I thought for sure I was going to knock those embies loose, but of course the reality is that they are snug as bugs once they are home. Still, hope you shake the cold quickly!

Redriding- congrats on a terrific start!
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Me 36- no tubes
DH 37- no issues
IVF 1 - 3 Chemical and 2BFN
IVF #4 FET- DD
IVF#5- BFN
FET May 11 2013- miscarriage at 8 weeks
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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LeeS- IVF April/May
Neffi211- Possible FET??? YAY!!!
penny100- IVF April
Heidi67- on BCPs as of 3/16
smoon0021- IVF April/May
akdelp- start BCPs end of February
mcfarland2213- u/s for cyst in March
mom4sure- stop BCPs 3/28; start stims 4/1; ER 4/13; ET 4/16 or 4/18
moorebaby – start Lupron 3/22; start stims 4/1; ER & ET w/o 4/11
Nicksgam- App’t w/ RE 3/1
faithful2011- April FET
Dallas- Consult 3/3; egg donor approved; education class 3/24; start meds 3/29; ER est. 4/25; ET est. 4/30
Blaqdymun- on BCPs; start stims early April
hopethisworksm- Fresh cycle, late March/early April
kentucky- waiting for AF
Red_Riding_Hood- start Lupron 4/5; start stims 4/9; ER est. 4/20; ET est. 4/23 or 4/25
BlissfulCS- late April (est. 4/28) FET
Tiger04- April IVF w/ DS
WeHaveHope- had ER 3/22; OHSS; 10 frosties patiently waiting for their mama; anxiously waiting for FET 5/5
cherry5- FET 3/31 w/ 2 blasts
Addy- ER 3/16: 35 eggs/24 mature/21 fertilized; waiting on status of embabies; April FET
LYD10- FET in May
Wishingandhoping- Waiting for AF & then will start BCPs

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CT_Michele- on Lupron; TESE consult for DH 3/23; start stims 4/1; ER & ET w/o 4/11
JenMink55- on Lupron, start stims 3/27; ER est. 4/9; ET est. 4/14
Blairwh58- ER on or around 3/29
tiffanyg1219- on Lupron & stims

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Me- 28 DH- 33 Male Factor
1st IVF- 12/07- BFP! Ella Michele was born 8/26/8
2nd IVF- 04/09 - BFN
1st FET- 09/09 - Chemical
3rd IVF - 04/11 - Embies didn't make it to ET
4th IVF - Fall 2011??
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Re: April/May Cycle Buddies!

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Hi Ladies

BlissfulCS Thanks, i am feeling much better. Not coughing and sneezing as much. Looks like i'll be over it by the weekend :D . I am still looking for those orange undies... ugh. I might have to wait till i get to Cape Town.

Michele Thanks for the board. Cant wait to get started. How are you keeping with the "***** juice"?. Hope its getting better.

Baby dust to you all

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ME 39 (Tubal)
2 Natural pgs, both ectopic, resulting in one ruptured tube and one repaired tube
IVF # 1 – Ectopic
IVF # 2 – Chemical
IVF # 3 – April 2011 BFP :D
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cherry5 wrote:anyone else do the visualization technique when doing ivf or fet? i did this with the first and ill be doing this with my fet babies. i think it works. for those who dont know, while doing your bed rest after babies are put in you really focus and even lay your hand on your uterus and visualize your uterus as a thick sticky "fly trap". you picture your baby rolling slowly along till it comes to a stop and starts to sink into that syrupy sticky goodness. thats the best way i can decribe it. i do it over and over. having nothing but positives thoughts. i know it might sound crazy to some but hey i figure it cant hurt. i believe in positive thinking anyway.
Yes I did some thing similar during my last IVF. I just imaged all my little beans growing in my belly and that I would soon be a mommy.
Me:38DH:35(MF)
05/09~1stIVF(ICSI)6/12/09~BFP!!!!Beta-13dpo:55,15dpo:162
03/11~2ndIVF(ICSI)m/c @ 7weeks
08/11~3rdIVF(ICSI)8/19/11BFP!!!!Beta-13dpo:103,15dpo:216.8
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