nicksgam wrote:I started bleeding last night and went in for an u/s this morning there was no heartbeat. If the baby doesn't past by Monday we will have to have a D&C.
I'm so sorry honey...I was pulling for you since I heard the news of the first U/S....I can only imagine the pain.
wishing and hoping and nicksgam am so sorry ladies. my heart is so saddened by this news. crap wish it was an easier journey, but please as hard as it seems dont loose hope.
I went for my First Ultrasound today and here are my results
I'm actually 6wks & 6days preggers w/ one lil juju bean
Heartbeat was just fluttering on the monitor so strong @ 137 beats a minute...
My Due Date:Jan 4th, 2012
I'm so overwhelmed with joy!!!
Plus: I made to post on page 100....Yippeeee
I was so nervous today & thought I had to go without DH because he had a doctor's appointment also but as I was getting dressed I heard his car in the driveway & my heart skipped a beat!
It was great having him there and the look on his face was priceless when he saw his lil juju bean's heartbeat...it was awesome to have been together today.God works in mysterious ways but I don't question His way at all!
Thank you all for your prayers and support throughout my 1st cycle ever! I was so lost when I first joined & you guys were patient & informative. I will still be around its not over yet! I want to continue to encourage & cheer you guys on
Now, I have to adjust my ticker....it's off by one day!
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Blady- Congrats on the u/s
Nicks, Wishing - So sorry, just know that there are no words to express everyones sadness or concern, but we are all thinking of you.
Wishingandhoping wrote:Well my bean did not make it. Beta dropped to 1011 today (from 3417 on Sunday). I'm having a lot of bleeding and cramping. I go back in on Thursday to recheck my beta, then we'll do testing to see if there is anything else going on to cause my infertility.
I'm so sorry honey...
I know this must be very hard to digest. I was hoping that everything was going to work out for you. I will be praying for you honey! God Bless.
Nicksgam and WishingandHoping,
I can so relate to how you must be feeling, Last spring 2010 we had already seen the baby once and were so excited, "head over heels" for the second ultrasound...it was earthshattering when we were told the baby's heartbeat stopped beating around 9 weeks... We grieved for the longest time, it's not something you'll ever get over, more and more people told us simular stories. They were right about one thing... it will get easier to accept the news, but something like this always takes time. I just wanted to say my heart truly goes out for you both tonight.
Sunshine1576
Married 13 yrs
36, unexplained
1 natural pg- m/c at 7 wks
(2010-2012) 4 IUIs, 2 IVFs
FET cycle 2/25/2013
Beta: 95, 390, 1361
3/27 HR 140
4/10 HR 184
4/17 Released from RE
6/21 Found out we are having a BOY!
Blaqdymun,
Glad that the ultrasound went over well today. Keep us posted!
Michelle and Anton, I'm over here stalking you these days too!
Married 13 yrs
36, unexplained
1 natural pg- m/c at 7 wks
(2010-2012) 4 IUIs, 2 IVFs
FET cycle 2/25/2013
Beta: 95, 390, 1361
3/27 HR 140
4/10 HR 184
4/17 Released from RE
6/21 Found out we are having a BOY!
Thank you all so much for the kind words. It really is an awful experience, and the tears have been flowing, but all of you ladies really have made me feel better.
Nicks gam- I'm so sorry that you're in the same boat. We both just need some time to heal.
Heidi- Don't lose hope. I spotted but ended up with a BFP. I'm praying for you!
Congrats Blaqdymun! I'm so glad you got to hear your bean's heartbeat.
Me 34- mod endo
DH 36- perfect
IUI x 4- BFN
IVF #1 01/11- BFN
IVF #2 04/11- BFP- M/C at 6 weeks
FET 7/21/11- BFP on HPT 7/26!!! beta 8/1- 980; beta 8/4- 2565; beta 8/8- 9964
I have a question for anyone who has had a M/C. How long after M/C can you do an FET? We are devastated today, but we want to use our frosties when we can.
Me 34- mod endo
DH 36- perfect
IUI x 4- BFN
IVF #1 01/11- BFN
IVF #2 04/11- BFP- M/C at 6 weeks
FET 7/21/11- BFP on HPT 7/26!!! beta 8/1- 980; beta 8/4- 2565; beta 8/8- 9964
Nicksgam and WishingandHoping: I am so sorry, my heart goes out to the both of you!! You both will have your little beans just don't give it.
Anton: Good luck tomorrow
Heidi67: Keep faith you never know my prayers are with you!!
AFM: going crazy thursday can not get her soon enough....Only thing I have going on is some cramping and thats all ... I think it is just the PIO. I just want to know one way or the other...DH says it worked and I think Im just trying to stay positive at this point I really hope it did work
Sending lots and lots baby dust to all
Me 31 PCOS
DH 31 Strong swimmers
Fall IVF - MC
Started BCP then Lupron Shots 4/4
ER on 5/5 ET on 5/8 beta #1 5/19: 44 next beta 5/23 258
5/26 beta 875 progest 231
05/31 beta 2681 progest 203
U/S 6/9
MC again at 9weeks
Widhingqndhoping & Nicksgam- my heat is breaking after reading your post it is indeed devastating and hewrth breaking but beloeve me or not there's a reason why this happened,,, dont lose hope and i'll continue praying for the both of you! Big hugs sending on your way!
As for me I thought were gonna have our last beta today but my doctortold me to have U/S I was a bit surprised qnd excited to see for the first time my bean/beans . We saw 2 sac 1 has already strong heartbeat but the other sac with two yolk whih might become identical twins still dont have heartbeats. But she said i'm only 5 weeks 3 days preggo so it's still too early to know. So, she scheduled us to come back on 5/31 to have U/S again. Even though my 2 other beans still dont have HB i'm cheering up to death right now that I heard one healthy HB from my other sac! There's nothing to compare when you hear your baby's HB it's so beautiful! But still i'm hoping and crossing my fingers for my other 2 beans to develop and survive!
Sending baby dust to everyone! And dont lose hope! Stay positive!
Me(Precious)-28 OI
DH(Brian)-37 NP
1st IVF- BFN 12/18/10
2nd IVF- BFP-1/18/11: Chemical
3rd IVF- ER: 4/22 ET:4/27
1st beta BFP!: 5/09 1,000+
2nd beta: 5/13 12,320
Our baby girl was born at 38 weeks!
4th IVF-BFN
5th IVF- ER:9/4/16 ET:9/8/16
Smoon- that is wonderful news!!! I am so happy that you obviously have one very healthy baby on the way and possible three! If and WHEN your identicals make it that will be statistically really significant I think. I mean, Blair is in the same boat. I think it would be mathmatically pretty unusual to have that situation happen twice within a group of this size. I just love the miracile of IVF. Yay for you...and GROW BABIES GROW.
Jmbella- I know how you feel. I was fine all week away at school and stayed distracted, but yesterday the anxiety began in earnest. I am so ready to find out that we're preggo!
Anton- thinking of you this morning and can't wait to get the news you are PUPO!!!!!!! This is it lady. PMA all the way.
AFM- So remember that mobile application from the lab I found that was going to supposedly tell me my results after my big dinner with the Mucky Mucks tomorrow night? Well, apparently my home state prohibits the release of information on the internet. I could lie about where I live, but I suppose that would be bad for my insurance claim. Now I am thinking that I will have the clinic call and leave a message but not check it until after the dinner. I am just not sure I have the willpower to do that!!!
Have a great day ladies. For those that are hurting, you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Alisa
Me 36- no tubes
DH 37- no issues
IVF 1 - 3 Chemical and 2BFN
IVF #4 FET- DD
IVF#5- BFN
FET May 11 2013- miscarriage at 8 weeks
I'm so overwhelmed with joy!!! 
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