August 2012 Transfer Buddies

Discussion forum for those particularly interested in IVF and embryo transfer including frozen embryo transfer.
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suzyq
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Re: August 2012 Transfer Buddies

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BRmommy- 9 eggs is a great start. Enjoy the time with your mom. Nothing better than being taken care of by your mom even at our age. Rest well.

Tonya-Waiting is hard. Keep busy this weekend.

Kiwi- How are you feeling?

Sorcet-Glad this time was easier and went well. I will be thinking of you .

Patricia-Thanks. No matter the outcome tomorrow, I will keep my head up. You are in my prayers as a well.

AFM- Another beta tomorrow. Numbers were still low last time so all I can do is pray for the best. This is a crazy journey. It is out of my hands and I have to endure this whatever reason Heavenly Father has. As Leora says, " I am happy just to be pregnant for now." That really is not easy to say for me.
DH-49
Me-44
2 natural DD 21 and 18 (previous life)
3 step DD 24, 23, 22
1st IVF- Sept 11 BFP
DS- Christopher born May 11
1st FET scheduled Aug 2012 Miscarriage 9-11-12
IVF #2 Frozen DE April 2013 BFP-Due 12/28/13 Lost heartbeat 5-29-13 Heartbreaking!
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Ninde
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Lyndsey: that's wonderful. 9 is great :D what happened in theatre?

Cristie: good luck tomorrow. My very best wishes are with you x

Patricia
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012
BRMommy2B
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I apparently had a bad reaction to the doxycycline drip in the iv. I started having a hard time breathing and got nauseous. That must not happen often because the nurse was freaking. She stayed with me and the dr came, and then they called the anesthesiologist in. I got nervous BC the nurse talked about canceling, but after about 30 minutes I felt better and the anesthesiologist gave us the green light. Now awaiting tomorrow's call. Last time they were a little disappointed with our fert rate but hoping we get at least 2 to transfer (any to freeze would be a total bonus). Thanks for checking on me!
Me: 29
DH: 32, Male Factor
4 Failed IUI
IVF #1 - BFN
FET #1 - BFP!!! DD born Sept 2010
IVF #2 - Chemical
Next: Work on improving DH and my fertility while saving up for next round. Why does something that we want so badly have to also be so expensive?
suzyq
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Lindsey-Thankful you were able to proceed. Nothing like a freaking out nurse to put you on pins and needles as if we have not been poked enough. Hope you are feeling better soon. Good luck on the fertilization.

Patricia- Using your visualization technique today. Trying to put faces with all you ladies. Pictured you as this firecracker of a red head doing the baby dance. Guess i read somewhere you have red hair? Wishing you lots of baby dust for a BFP.

Had a good day today. Told my 17 year old her sister's old car would be available for her to drive her senior year. She was thrilled.
DH-49
Me-44
2 natural DD 21 and 18 (previous life)
3 step DD 24, 23, 22
1st IVF- Sept 11 BFP
DS- Christopher born May 11
1st FET scheduled Aug 2012 Miscarriage 9-11-12
IVF #2 Frozen DE April 2013 BFP-Due 12/28/13 Lost heartbeat 5-29-13 Heartbreaking!
BRMommy2B
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Just got the fert call. Of the 9 eggs, 7 were mature and 5 fertilized. I am happy with this, because I am pretty sure last time around, we got 12, 7 were mature, and I think 5 fertilized. My hope is to have 3 good ones left, one or two to freeze and one or two to transfer. Best case scenario, of course!

I have been doing a lot of thinking about the number to transfer. We were more successful with transferring the one frozen than two fresh, and because of the health implications I would rather only have one at a time. My husband wants to transfer two. Our dr generally recommends two. I have been reading that overall success rates per retrieval are just as high with one at a time as transferring multiple at once, but you obviously run the risk of having to go through multiple FET cycles which aren't cheap. First in a long line of decisions for this hopeful little one!
Me: 29
DH: 32, Male Factor
4 Failed IUI
IVF #1 - BFN
FET #1 - BFP!!! DD born Sept 2010
IVF #2 - Chemical
Next: Work on improving DH and my fertility while saving up for next round. Why does something that we want so badly have to also be so expensive?
Ninde
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Looks like its going wrong again. I've started to bleed /and it looks like a period

Patricia
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012
kiwi11
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Re: August 2012 Transfer Buddies

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Lindsey - juchuuu to 5 fertilized eggs. :-) let them grow nicely.
It is always hard to decide if me or two- they all recommend two but you should do what feels right for you. You might not end up with eggs to freeze so that's one point to consider. We had 7 left after transfer and only two could be frozen but you nev know. According t omy beta it could be twins so I wouldn't need the frozen ones. But it is a different story for everyone and I would prefer one at a time.

Patricia- I am so sorry to hear , that's just awful everything looked so great
Me 34 DH 36
IVF1 BFP DS born 6/2010
IVF2 BFP
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Ninde
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I am absolutely crushed not to even make it to beta once again.

Patricia
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012
BRMommy2B
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Patricia I am so sorry to hear that. I did spot the day before my test and still got a positive with my DD. It is a heavy flow or just spotting?
Me: 29
DH: 32, Male Factor
4 Failed IUI
IVF #1 - BFN
FET #1 - BFP!!! DD born Sept 2010
IVF #2 - Chemical
Next: Work on improving DH and my fertility while saving up for next round. Why does something that we want so badly have to also be so expensive?
Ninde
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I wish it was spotting but it's bright red and reasonably heavy

Patricia
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012
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Patricia I am so sorry :( Sending you big hugs!
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IVF1-Sept '10

FET1-Dec '10 BFP!
12.15: 275 12.17: 824 12.20: 3,408
Boy & Girl Due 8.22.2011
Born 7.13.11 @ 34 weeks

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suzyq
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Patricia- I am so sorry. Big hug to you. My heart goes out to you. You have been my biggest cheerleader and I soooo appreciate it. If there is anything I can do for you let me know. Here to listen.

Lindsey- So happy you have 5 eggs fertilize. I had 5 make it transfer with my fresh cycle. Transfer 2 and 1 survived to freeze. Single birth of DS. That Popsicle is the one I am working on now. Follow that inner voice as what to do.

AFM-My numbers went up to 186 from 67. I am not out of the woods yet, but they almost tripled. My clinic says they are pleased with the progress and will schedule me for an U/S Sept. 11. I felt my heart leap with a big ray of hope today. Thank you for your well wishes and prayers. Now another 2ww for the U/S. I am so thankful. :D
DH-49
Me-44
2 natural DD 21 and 18 (previous life)
3 step DD 24, 23, 22
1st IVF- Sept 11 BFP
DS- Christopher born May 11
1st FET scheduled Aug 2012 Miscarriage 9-11-12
IVF #2 Frozen DE April 2013 BFP-Due 12/28/13 Lost heartbeat 5-29-13 Heartbreaking!
BRMommy2B
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Suzy - AMAZING! PRAYERS FOR YOU!
Me: 29
DH: 32, Male Factor
4 Failed IUI
IVF #1 - BFN
FET #1 - BFP!!! DD born Sept 2010
IVF #2 - Chemical
Next: Work on improving DH and my fertility while saving up for next round. Why does something that we want so badly have to also be so expensive?
kiwi11
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Suzyq-that's great to hear - such a nice jump. Ad going up is always a good sign!?

Patricia - what did the doctor say? Did you call?
Me 34 DH 36
IVF1 BFP DS born 6/2010
IVF2 BFP
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I'm so sorry Patricia. Big big hugs to you.
Congrats suzy I'm glad your numbers are going up.
I'm so freaking out this weekend and don't know why. I normally handle the 2ww pretty well but I'm really nervous right now i wanna go do my bloodwork but I don't wanna know the results I'm so chicken of a no. Just tell me when my next doc apt is ill go to it. I guess ive been hoping a lot that its a yes and finally came out of confinement Lol and talking to friends and family that are already so excited that its ganna work I don't want to be a disappointment to so many people. :oops: I went to a party tonight and my drunk ass cousin told someone I was prego so I had ppl rubbing my tummy and saying they were so happy for us I was so mad :x dh steeped up and said I don't want to talk about it and they need to drop it and he also kinda told off my cousin. Just a little self contious and adgitated tonight sorry.
DH-34
Me-28
IUI #1 March 2012 BFN
IUI #2 April 2012 BFN
IUI #3 June 2012 BFN
IVF #1 August 2012 BFN
IVF #2 November 2012 BFP beta 573.4 and 1600 It's Twins!!!!

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