Has anyone gone on BCP after a miscarriage or D & C ? I'm planning on doing another cycle of injections in 2-3 months and wonder when a good time to go on BCP is?
It's been 2 weeks since the D & C.
Also, how soon after a loss have you ladies tried to concieve again?
I hope you are feeling OK and getting through your loss. It's terribly hard but it's something that you just have to cope with whether you want to or not - be strong.
I am not sure what BCP is so I can't answer your question on that but as far as the question of when to start another treatment is it is totally up to you really as long as your doctor thinks physically you have left enough time between for your body to repair it's self as well. I gave birth to my daughter who died at the end of February this year and I started my current treatment middle of June. I am on my 2ww and test on Sunday/Monday and I can honestly say it has been really, really hard. When I get my results I don't know how I will cope with a negative result but I coped with losing my baby and I am sure I will cope with anything else that is thrown at me. I do feel I am strong and have got through it this far but it's all down to time and healing.
We all deserve our dreams to come true Yvonne and sometimes I get really angry that some of us have to go through twice as much torture but there has to be a reason for it and hopefully one day it will all be OK
Take care and be good to yourself.
Love Dagny xkx
What is BCP?
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Sorry not sure what BCP is either (help Dagny don't know something!) but agree with Dagny - you must decide - physically it is around 3 months they say but mentally some take longer.
I gave birth to Oliver on September 10th 2003 and went on to have another tmt on my November AF and twins due any minute.
It is very difficult and as Dagny says the next tmt is so hard but I found it would have been harder waiting and watch time tick away.....
good luck
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
Sorry, I don't know what BCP is either, but in terms of when you try again - do it when you feel strong enough, but give your body time to readjust (as well as your mind). I know when I m/c and had to have the D & C as nothing was happening, I vowed that I would never put myself though that again. I did though although it took me from the November til June...