Hi Girls
I am sitting here crying my heart out as AF has just arrived.........five times and five negatives!!! Why can I not get pregnant?? Not even a sniff...........and they keep telling me there is nothing wrong with me......this started off as DHs problem with him having azoospermia......now it appears I have a problem too.................why, why can noone help me or give me answers in these bloody clinics!
Sorry I can't cheer up the poor July tester thread.............
From the most miserable woman in the world - again!
JenFx
So sorry JulyCBs
Jen:
I'm sorry your cycle didn't work out. Unbelievable how many times you've been through this roller coaster. Please don't give up hope. My friend went through 4 cycles of IVF/ICSI and her insurance won't cover any more. She gave up, and started to pursue adoption. Before the adoption papers came through she missed her period. Tested positive, and is delivering in 6 weeks! Please don't give up hope.
Paige
I'm sorry your cycle didn't work out. Unbelievable how many times you've been through this roller coaster. Please don't give up hope. My friend went through 4 cycles of IVF/ICSI and her insurance won't cover any more. She gave up, and started to pursue adoption. Before the adoption papers came through she missed her period. Tested positive, and is delivering in 6 weeks! Please don't give up hope.
Paige
Oh Jen 
I had such high hopes for you to get your BFP that you so deserve. It's unbelievable what has happened here these last few months.
I am so very sorry. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better. We have all been there and it really sucks big time.
I think this whole IVF lark is utter pants and none of us should have to go through it.
Thinking of you and your DH and I hope you manage to get through this horrid time together and spend some time away from everything.
Love and hugs Dagny xkx
I had such high hopes for you to get your BFP that you so deserve. It's unbelievable what has happened here these last few months.
I am so very sorry. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better. We have all been there and it really sucks big time.
I think this whole IVF lark is utter pants and none of us should have to go through it.
Thinking of you and your DH and I hope you manage to get through this horrid time together and spend some time away from everything.
Love and hugs Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Oh Jen
was hoping you had some cheery news - I am so sorry! As Dagny says it is pants - putting it mildly for the thread.
If you can find it in you please don't give up hope - there are so many success stories - I had 5 goes and not to mention the clomid etc before.
take some time out.
Thinking of you....
Love
Tracey
xxx
was hoping you had some cheery news - I am so sorry! As Dagny says it is pants - putting it mildly for the thread.
If you can find it in you please don't give up hope - there are so many success stories - I had 5 goes and not to mention the clomid etc before.
take some time out.
Thinking of you....
Love
Tracey
xxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!
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Jen,
Am so so sorry, its so hard to know what to say as nothing will make you feel better. You must eb devastated again, and understandably have so many unanswered questions.
Have you had all the other investigations ... NK killer cells, anti-coagulant blood tests etc. and isn't there an operation to check whether there are any holes in the womb or something.
This ivf thing is just so horrible .. it just doesn't make sense does it. Why does it work for some people and not for others.
3 negatives today for us Julybuddies. Whats gone wrong?
Please please give yourselves big hugs. God, I'm crying with everyone today. its all just so unfair.
Look after yourself, and you are allowed to be bloomin miserable.
Love from Soph-Jane
Am so so sorry, its so hard to know what to say as nothing will make you feel better. You must eb devastated again, and understandably have so many unanswered questions.
Have you had all the other investigations ... NK killer cells, anti-coagulant blood tests etc. and isn't there an operation to check whether there are any holes in the womb or something.
This ivf thing is just so horrible .. it just doesn't make sense does it. Why does it work for some people and not for others.
3 negatives today for us Julybuddies. Whats gone wrong?
Please please give yourselves big hugs. God, I'm crying with everyone today. its all just so unfair.
Look after yourself, and you are allowed to be bloomin miserable.
Love from Soph-Jane
Me 33 dp 30
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!
me tubal damage
ist ivf Feb04 -ive
fet July04 -ive
ivf Nov04 +ive twins, but sadly one twin died at 10 weeks gestation. Freya born 21st July 2005. She's amazing!
JENF
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I cannot believe it - God knows I am so p****** off for you and DH!
I don't know what to say ............. I REALLY REALLY don't - am lost for words!
Big cuddle to you my friend
Love
Nickie
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRGGHHHHHHH
I cannot believe it - God knows I am so p****** off for you and DH!
I don't know what to say ............. I REALLY REALLY don't - am lost for words!
Big cuddle to you my friend
Love
Nickie
1st Cycle ICSI - Cancelled before E/R due to poor response
2nd Cycle ICSI - April 2004 Negative
3rd Cycle FET - July 2004 - Negative
4th Cycle ICSI - Nov 2004 - BFP (Oh my GOD)
2nd Cycle ICSI - April 2004 Negative
3rd Cycle FET - July 2004 - Negative
4th Cycle ICSI - Nov 2004 - BFP (Oh my GOD)
Jen,
For lack of anything better to say, I'm so sorry. I was really hoping this would be it for you. Have you been with the same clinic this whole time or have you already tried switching to a different one? Did you do IUI this time around? I think that can take a lot more tries than IVF. There was one lady I was corresponding with who had it work for on her 12th try just as she was about to give up.
It is just unbelievable that these clinics take so much money from us yet seem to fall very short in actually delivering results or even additional information to explain what is wrong. I know that those who have become pregnant probably feel differently. I guess I am just very down on ART in general at the moment after seeing the overall results (or I should say lack of results) this month.
Sorry for rambling on here. Just very frustrated for all of you!
Staci
For lack of anything better to say, I'm so sorry. I was really hoping this would be it for you. Have you been with the same clinic this whole time or have you already tried switching to a different one? Did you do IUI this time around? I think that can take a lot more tries than IVF. There was one lady I was corresponding with who had it work for on her 12th try just as she was about to give up.
It is just unbelievable that these clinics take so much money from us yet seem to fall very short in actually delivering results or even additional information to explain what is wrong. I know that those who have become pregnant probably feel differently. I guess I am just very down on ART in general at the moment after seeing the overall results (or I should say lack of results) this month.
Sorry for rambling on here. Just very frustrated for all of you!
Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
Jen,
Terribly sorry to hear your news. I hope you can get some answers, though it seems unlikely as we never seem to get any. I am also feeling less than excited about ART. Why does it not work for all (or at least more) of us?
Please go easy on yourself and take your time recovering.
Alicia
Terribly sorry to hear your news. I hope you can get some answers, though it seems unlikely as we never seem to get any. I am also feeling less than excited about ART. Why does it not work for all (or at least more) of us?
Please go easy on yourself and take your time recovering.
Alicia
TTC 2.5 years - Me 38 no tubes; DH 32
1st- IVF June 2004 - early MC
2nd - FET Aug 2004 - Twin boys born April 25, 2005!!!
1st- IVF June 2004 - early MC
2nd - FET Aug 2004 - Twin boys born April 25, 2005!!!
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Hello Girls
Well I have managed to get out of bed..........cried last night til I was sore..poor Dh.
Dagny you are an inspiration with your fighting attitude........
What would we all do without each other hey?
Just been emptied of blood this morning.........went and got a massive list of bloods done for my new clinic....so i will keep you informed.
Thanks soooo much for your kind support.......someday I might even surprise you all by posting good news! - heres hoping
Love
JenFx
Well I have managed to get out of bed..........cried last night til I was sore..poor Dh.
Dagny you are an inspiration with your fighting attitude........
What would we all do without each other hey?
Just been emptied of blood this morning.........went and got a massive list of bloods done for my new clinic....so i will keep you informed.
Thanks soooo much for your kind support.......someday I might even surprise you all by posting good news! - heres hoping
Love
JenFx
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Hello Girls
Well I have managed to get out of bed..........cried last night til I was sore..poor Dh.
Dagny you are an inspiration with your fighting attitude........
What would we all do without each other hey?
Just been emptied of blood this morning.........went and got a massive list of bloods done for my new clinic....so i will keep you informed.
Thanks soooo much for your kind support.......someday I might even surprise you all by posting good news! - heres hoping
Love
JenFx
Well I have managed to get out of bed..........cried last night til I was sore..poor Dh.
Dagny you are an inspiration with your fighting attitude........
What would we all do without each other hey?
Just been emptied of blood this morning.........went and got a massive list of bloods done for my new clinic....so i will keep you informed.
Thanks soooo much for your kind support.......someday I might even surprise you all by posting good news! - heres hoping
Love
JenFx
hihi jen, im so very sorry to read about your -itve, no words can make
it better, its just so tough and even harder as there is no answers as
to why. The first time we all have so much hope but with each -itve
our resolve slowly gets chipped away, after each of my -itve i was
lucky that i could take a holiday, and it realy did help, just to give me
some time away from home and reality.
I realy do pray u get your dream. alisonn
it better, its just so tough and even harder as there is no answers as
to why. The first time we all have so much hope but with each -itve
our resolve slowly gets chipped away, after each of my -itve i was
lucky that i could take a holiday, and it realy did help, just to give me
some time away from home and reality.
I realy do pray u get your dream. alisonn
Jen,
So sorry to hear about your - ve. Wish there was something that could make you feel better. If you can, try to think ahead to the next cycle. When I did my first IVF I kept telling myself that if this doesn't work I'm going to try again so when I got the neg I was ready to move on. Don't give up.
Good luck with your new clinic.
Hugs (())
Hope
So sorry to hear about your - ve. Wish there was something that could make you feel better. If you can, try to think ahead to the next cycle. When I did my first IVF I kept telling myself that if this doesn't work I'm going to try again so when I got the neg I was ready to move on. Don't give up.
Good luck with your new clinic.
Hugs (())
Hope
Me - 35 Unexplained DH 37
TTC#1 since '97
5 IUIs
1st IVF 5/04 - transferred 2-neg
2nd IVF 7/04 - transferred 3-pos but MC at 8 wks.
TTC#1 since '97
5 IUIs
1st IVF 5/04 - transferred 2-neg
2nd IVF 7/04 - transferred 3-pos but MC at 8 wks.
hi
jen so sorry to hear your new's. I feel just like you they say nothing is wrong with me. So why am I not pg....The nurse did say that normal people normally take 6-12 months to get pg. I'm having yet another go next month so finger's crossed.
It is so frustrating as I have had ivf lots of times and I really thought the DI would work.
well hope you feel better soon, hope you have another go
july ann
jen so sorry to hear your new's. I feel just like you they say nothing is wrong with me. So why am I not pg....The nurse did say that normal people normally take 6-12 months to get pg. I'm having yet another go next month so finger's crossed.
It is so frustrating as I have had ivf lots of times and I really thought the DI would work.
well hope you feel better soon, hope you have another go
july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july