Oh Chubbs, I'm so sorry, you must be crushed. You sound very focused and in control, which is good but don't bottle it all in. If DH is your rock, use him.
You're right, time does heal. It's one of those cliches that is a truism too. It does get easier but not right now.
Take lots of time, maybe a long break and think again in the New Year?
Chubbs
So sorry to hear your news I was so hoping you would get a positive result. Take time to pamper yourself and indulge a little. I know nothing helps really but take care of yourself and Dh.
Chubbs, I am so so sorry it didn't work out for you. I know how much you must be hurting now - but I hope in time you will find the strength to give it another go.
Take care of each other
Love and hugs
Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.
I am so sorry about your result, we all know how hard it is. Just take your time to do nice things together with your DH, you can think about what next when you are ready.
Paige - Aug 6
Janine - Aug 6
Janem - Aug 8ish
Mia - Aug 9
Barny - Aug 10
Shari - Aug 13
Wendy - Aug 17
Ellie - Aug 17
Tracie - Aug 17
PixieGini - Aug 17
Shannon - Aug 19
Sandra - Aug 23
Jeanie - Aug 28
Alicia - Aug 30
Candy - Aug 30
Chubbs - Sept 2
Mandy - Sept 2
Angela - Sept 9
Dolly - Sept 10
Jaye - Sept 11
Alison
Alette
Jools
Chubbs, I am devastated that this time has not worked out of you. I SO wanted to hear that your one embie had taken hold. I agree that IVF is so cruel, but time is a great healer. We ladies are so resilient in the long run. Even giving this thing a go is such a big risk - all of you are an inspiration to me.
Paige - Aug 6
Janine - Aug 6
Janem - Aug 8ish
Mia - Aug 9
Barny - Aug 10
Shari - Aug 13
Wendy - Aug 17
Ellie - Aug 17
Tracie - Aug 17
PixieGini - Aug 17
Shannon - Aug 19
Sandra - Aug 23
Jeanie - Aug 28
Alicia - Aug 30
Candy - Aug 30
Chubbs - Sept 2
Mandy - Sept 2
Gayle - Sept 7
Angela - Sept 9
Dolly - Sept 10
Jaye - Sept 11
Alison
Alette
Jools
We're really getting into Sept. here. Would one of you Sept. Cycle Buddies like to start a Sept. Testers list? It's easy. Just start a new thread - I keep a text copy of the list on my computer so I can update it easily. To get the text copy, just click the "quote" button and copy and paste it into MS Word or a text editor.
Hello,
I am trying to get to know some women. I am very new.
We did egg retreival on 8/24 and retreived 17 eggs out of the 17 10 were mature. 3 fertilized out of the 10 correct and 7 or so fertilized incorrect.
So when it was time for transfer we had 2 embryos left. We did a day 3 transfer. The doctors were surprised with my age of 24. They were thinking things would go a little different so now it is just a waiting waiting and going crazy. I am intested in learning more about other women cycles and how they are doing.
gayle
Hello Pam,
I find out on 9/7. So I am almost there. It has been really hard for me to wait.
Have you gone through ivf? If so let me know how it is going.
Gayle
The first time you do IVF, they don't know how you will react to the medications, etc. so I think getting all the way to ET is a huge accomplishment! In the UK, they only put back 2 embies anyway, and those ladies on this list seem to have as much success as us US girls.
My first IVF was in June and +ve with early miscarriage. We did a frozen transfer in August and +ve, but holding our breaths until the first scan Sept. 15.
I hope your IVF is successful. You'll hear loads of stories and be able to watch them happen in real time on the August and Sept. Cycle Buddies threads. GOOD LUCK!!!!
Alicia
TTC 2.5 years - Me 38 no tubes; DH 32
1st- IVF June 2004 - early MC
2nd - FET Aug 2004 - Twin boys born April 25, 2005!!!
Not long now !! I wish you all the luck in the world.
I'm just on my first attempt (IVF) still on the spray as the de-regging is taking longer than expected but hopefully I will start the injections next week. I'll probably be an October tester.
I'm really glad to have found this site, it's really helping me to be more positive. I had been getting fairly down because of all the bad news after bad news which brought me to this point but I'm really starting to develop an onwards and upwards attitude... it's helping me.
Please let me know how things go on Tuesday.
Pam
Me 31 DH 29
TTC 2 + years (blocked tubes, Fibroids etc)
IVF 1st timer
Just wanted to say a huge THANKYOU to Alicia for compiling this thread and lists. You are so organised and have been a source of inspiration the whole way through. A well deserved positie . x
Just wanted to say a huge THANKYOU to Alicia for compiling this thread and lists. You are so organised and have been a source of inspiration the whole way through. A well deserved positive . x
THANK YOU 2X!!! This board has been such a help and I have loved cycling with all the August Cycle Buddies - really a great group. All of us deserve to get +ves, and I'll be watching for those of you whose turn is coming up!