Hi everyone
I am currently on 2nd week of 2ww of a FET and have loads of af pains and shooting pains both sides and lower ab cramps - they were really bad in the night - am really worried, but I know they're common and must try not to analyse bla bla. Is anyone else on 2ww of a FET?
Lou X
me 35 DH 31
1st ICSI Aug 2002 +ve twins but prem labour and baby boy died 33 weeks 28 hrs after birth. Little girl now 19 months
2nd ICSI Aug 2004 -ve, 5 frosties
FET Jan 05
hi lousier
i am not on the 2WW. but want to wish you all the best in getting that postive result. try not think of all that pain. relax
victoria
2004-first ivf/icsi stopped due to producing 40 follicles.
2005- first full ivf/icsi BFP. now got a daughter
2008- second ivf/icsi 2 blasto transfer - BFN
Thanks Victoria. I can't believe I'm the only one on 2ww of FET, I thought it was more common than that but thanks for your wishes. Good luck with your treatment
Louise X
Hi Louise, have you checked the January buddies board? that's the place that any other 2wwers will be wishing their days away! Also the board is traditionally quiet after Christmas as so many clinics don't offer treatment in December to avoid complications with holidays.
Good luck
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
Hi Debra
Thanks, I'll check that board. I'm sorry to see your embies didn't survive thawing. The same thing happened to a friend of mine - she had all the drugs, then the poor embies didn't survive the thaw. I was gutted for her.
Good luck with your next go.
Louise X
i wanted to let you know that i have you in my prayers that the 2 wks will go by fast and that they will all be
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Hi Ogr
Thanks for your positive wishes. This 2ww is as awful as ever - lots of shooting pains and desperate to know what is going on in there. Congratulations on your becoming a grandma in April this year.
Lots of love
Lou XX
Thanks Dagny. I have just sent you a post under Ectopic pregnancy - I'm so upset for you my darling.
I test on 20th Jan and am so nervous.
Lots oflove and hugs
Louise XX
I don't blame you for being nervous. I was petrified before I tested last month. I will light a candle for you and say a prayer in church tomorrow. What will be will be. Sending you loads of PMA!!!!
I posted on the Babies loved and lost board about my other angel. It beggars belief doesn't it? I am so shocked, I never thought lightening would strike in the same place twice.
Best of luck sweetie.
Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
I'm crying after just reading your post. No one should have to go through such heartbreak once; let alone twice. I'm so sorry. I hadn't even realized that you had done another cycle recently. And, here I am asking you how you are doing. Very stupid question under the circumstances.
I hope you can find some way of dealing with all of this. It must be so difficult. How is your DH holding up? Do you have your family there and, hopefully, plenty of support?
You know we are all here for you. Please stay in touch.
love,
Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005
I know what you mean about it happening twice. It shouldn't happen to any of us once let alone twice. My DH has been wonderful. It makes me tearful just thinking about how much he does for me and how much I love him. He is my rock and I wouldn't get through any of this without him.
I wanted to do a quiet cycle as I got so upset at all the BFN's with all my last cycle buddies. It was a terrible out come for all who tested that time bar 1. I was a lot calmer this time and had acupuncture. I have to take the positives from this horrid situation that at least I got a BFP so we know it can work and has done twice now.
What are you doing are you cycling at the moment? There are so many new names on the boards now. I feel like a newbie again!
Love Dagny xkx
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle
Ok. This is now the 3rd time I have tried to post a message and, once I finish, I get a prompt requiring me to log in again then I lose everything I have typed !!
Dagny,
I'm glad your DH has been strong for you during this.
It does seem like a good sign that you've at least been able to get to the point you have .... but I do really admire you for being able to look at things that way. I think I would just be so mad at the whole world that I wouldn't be able to see straight. I just hope your clinic can figure out what might be going on so they can resolve it. You are definitely long overdue for some good luck. I will be praying for you. Keep us posted.
As far as me, yes, I'm actually in the middle of a medicated FET right now. Things are going along good so far. I think my transfer will be Jan. 26 but will know for sure when I go in for my scan on Fri. I can't say I'm very optimistic this will work since all my frosties are morulas (had only reached Day 4 stage of development on Day 5) but the Dr. claims he wouldn't have froze them if there wasn't a decent chance...so we'll see.
Take care of yourself.
Hugs,
Staci
Me 35/DH 41
TTC 4 years
Diagnosis: MF infertility
IVF/ICSI April 2004: -tive
FET Aug. 2004 (canceled due to cysts)
FET Jan 2005: -tive
FET Aug. 2005