OMG Debra, what a nightmare. Have you no comeback through your estate agent/solictor ? I don't mean to sound negative, but I can't imagine these people just coughing up when a bill lands on their doormat. B******s. Have they verbally agreed this with you ?
Thanks for the well wishes Amers ! I've got to say it was quite a surprise. We've been going out for 10.5 years now, and he (Neil) was quite a bachelor at the time. One of the first things he said to me was that
1) we'd never get married 2) never live together 3) never have kids. Romantic eh ? Well - Ha ha - now he's sucumbed to all three ..
Now for the gritty details Debra .. I now remember he did casually drop something into a conversation around Christmas time about marriage, but I forgot all about it.. he must have been testing the water ! Then one morning when we were off to Havana, he had long trousers on (as he "didn't want to look like a tourist"), so I'd packed a pair of his shorts into the rucksack 'cos I knew he'd regret it later in the day. He mini-freaked when he went into the closet, as he'd noticed that the shorts weren't there. ... Anyway, I obv. didn't know at the time but he'd brought the ring over packed inside a container of talculm powder, then transfered it to the pocket of these shorts. Then when he saw the shorts weren't there, he must have thought I'd sent them for laundry or something ..! So, he was going to propose in Havana but it didn't work out, and it ended up being in the hotel room a few days later. Not the most romantic setting, but it could have been worse ! He mentioned the engagement to a Canadian couple we'd met, who were over the moon for us, and who went on to tell so many other people it got kind of embarressing ... We haven't really got a plan, nor a date yet. It will be something quiet and low key. Neither of us are religious so it will probably be a registry office. However, I've probably got about 10.5 years to plan it, so I have no doubt that you will beat me to it ..
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11